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It's subconscious, somewhere in your mind you understand diapers = happiness/joy. I started studying psychology just because I wanted to understand myself and why I love to wear diapers. Each person is different, you could take a hundred people and live my life and none are guaranteed to become abdl's. It's not just what happens in your life but how you perceive it. Myself I have wanted to be in diapers since i was three years old, I know now what caused it but that doesn't change my subconscious desire to where diapers. If your mother is understanding maybe you can explain that you're not alone in your desires and many people like it. You could ask her if you like briefs over boxers would she care as much? Diapers hold a negative stigma much like thongs use to. Looking back on your life you maybe able to figure out what caused it but at the end of the day it was you not sure, she might have caused the event(s) that created your diaper fetish but its' not her fault.

The fact that you could have a long term relationship wish someone who isn't a sub/switch/ABDL is a strength. My diapers are as much a part of me as any other part of my personality, I couldn't have a long term relationship if diapers were a "no-go." While it does suck looking for a sub at least you can live without one.

I feel this is the girl in a bar effect. If a guy walks in a bar and says he's horny and wants sexy he's ignored, if a girl walks in and says she's horny everyone will jump up to "help." This makes many guys feel it's easier for a girl to get a guy, which on the surface that might be true she isn't looking for just anyone. I can't speak for everyone but for me diapers are such a main part of my life any relationship i have diapers will have to be involved or at least accepted. Thus it's easier to look for someone in the ABDL community to begin with rather then risking falling for someone that you find out later can't accept your diaper side. In your case wanting to diaper them side. Here's the real question though, could you live with a relationship forever (or a very long time) with someone that could never accept your dom side?

Very interesting post. I'm getting a Rika vibe from your post (digimon season 3,she was the best tamer in the world and every digimon wanted her to tame them) and since Rika was based off Trinity from The Matrix i can say you perfect fill "boss women" roll perfectly. You bring up a great point, since your not a switch you need someone else they don't "need" you. Really goes into the psychology of the dom/sub relation that the sub is always the one truly in charge. It's easy for people to say, "oh, but you have the choice of millions of guys." The truth though is that there is a thing called too much choice. When people are given too many choices they can tend to freeze up and be afraid to make any choice. I have never met another ABDL in real life so i can only imagine what it's like when you can't even explore your fetish without someone else. Finding the right person is hard for any ABDL, we have you find someone that will accept us wearing diapers but you have it worse you have to find someone that will let you put them in diapers.

I have to admit I wasn't expecting this is be so long but it was a very good read. For me going full time is something i've dreamed of but would never be able to do. For me it's a mental thing, if i was to suddenly become incontinent and needed to wear diapers I would without a second thought. I know that if i did start wearing all the time i would become incontinent but thats different as it's something i caused. I'm somebody that would skip school and feel bad about it but feel wouldn't if i was sick. It's really nice to get the point of view of someone who has done it and come out the other side. Thanks.

If you Long_Rifle the ending I would be shocked, but impressed I guess after the... conversation we know what's coming next. If I had to guess she didn't die but was brain washed into a baby for life. Though this is starting to make more sense.It isn't Bella they are really after but Amanda for her family being a pain in the butt, or at least that's what it seems now.

Saying its stress relief is the easiest. The problem with telling them anything is how the other person takes it. If your mother finds it extremely strange she might blame herself. I know if it was me i would just say its more comfortable the boxer briefs. If she asks why you like diapers you could nicely ask, "does it matter?" It really comes down to you and your parents. Look at the bright side though, if my father knew I was an ABDL he would disown me as a sin against god and would most likely commit suicide the next time he gets wasted for failing to serve god by raising a living sin . Remember one thing, what you tell them isn't for you its for them. What would they want to hear.

This really sounds like a no win for you. Take into consideration who you are and what your parents know about you. For example: I play video games a lot and sometimes make bets or do dares with friends. It's an extremely long story but to sum it up a friend (who doesn't know im an abdl) made a bet with me that if i lost i had to wear a diaper while gaming (story was told on preach gamings youtube channel). I really did try to win but i did lose. Now if a roommate comes in and see a diaper i will say im being sent "free samples." They will laugh and think nothing of it, other then me being stupid doing bets and dares for fun. If your parents know you as someone who is practical use that. 99.99999% of the time its not what you say but how you say it.

Personally I'm a big fan of Bambino diaper. For the price they hold up well and being on the west coast I can get free shipping. Rearz I feel can hold more but generally have a higher price tag. Best to try a few samples if you can. It only took one sample of a true ABDL diaper for me to swear off any store bought diapers ever again.

There are so many variables in going 24/7 its a question each person has to ask themselves. Let's take money out of the debate for am moment. Many of us that love diapers or being a baby love it because it takes away the drama and stress we have to deal with. If you wear diapers 24/7 it's no longer a stress reliever but a stress creater. Its a lot like making you hobby a job, you like is as a hobby but not something you do all the time. This isn't true for everyone, some people would and do turn their hobby into a job and they love it. You love pizza but if you only eat pizza you'll most likely get tired of it. For myself i have thought about this many times but I know who I am and i know the anticipation is part of what makes me love it.

If you don't plan on telling them everything i agree with Wannatripbaby, just tell the half the truth. Lying about it isn't going to work out in the long run even if it seems like the easy fix. Saying its your stress relief and way to relax may seem odd but you can point out its better then what many people do.

Diaperthulhu or maybe D'Thulhu That would be a strange mess of diaper and honor, may have to leave that to someone far better then I. Feels like I would have to do a lot research just to learn how to write horror. In my minds eye though I see a women with black eyes and tentacles for arms, many tentacles. As for Sierra I think your right. I believe that story is still up on PPP's blog.

I can't think of a DD story with magic... Suddenly see new story idea.... Diaper Dimension + Lovecraft

For me I'm a major nerd, I have read almost every book of the Star Wars Eu or now known as Legends as well as Star Trek, Dragonage and Warcraft. In Star Wars Legends case all the stories took place in the one Star Wars timeline after episode 6, the issue is that many of the authors would contradict each other. In one book droids can use the force and in another there's a force using droid. In order to make every story work together in one reality you would need someone to set up a large set of rules no one can break, however that limits the author. Personally as someone who has seen what can happen to a story based universe with no over site I don't think of everything in a multiverse as a cop out I think it allows more creativity int he world and the characters. We could do a comic book thing and have every Diaper Dimension story give their dimension a number like DD146 or DD1349 so when people are writing a story we know which version it's in. Another way I like to think about it and have wanted to play this up in my newest story and failed really bad at is the idea of remembering incorrectly. It could be looked at as the stories are all historical retelling that change a bit by bit for every person telling it.

Some people I know believe that every diaper story from the Diaper Dimension comes from the same Diaper Dimension. The issue with that is most Diaper Dimension stories tend to ignore a lot of PPP original world she built. The main character for example had a version of herself in the Diaper Dimension and was a reporter, there wasn't any undertone in the story that people her size were always turned into babies. That version had angered someone who ran a school and didn't like the bad press. The story also had a number of young amazon girls in diapers and watching TV that made them all wet and/or mess themselves, like all amazons stayed in diapers for an extended period of time. Many people have wanted some kind of rule book on how the Diaper Dimension works, the issue is some stories directly contradict each other and very few are like the original work PPP made. That's why i'm suggesting to write what she feels is best as it's simple to believe every story is another dimension, it's the easy way to explain the extreme differences in the stories.

It depends who's work your reading. In some diaper stories Littles are slightly different from amazons. For some all Littles have bathroom problems at least once and a while, some talk about the types of food Littles like vs Amazons. Littles love sweet things while amazons love spicy and salty, some stories Littles have stronger emotions then amazons. Come to think of it all of those might be Bbykimmy alone... That's the great thing about the Diaper Dimension, it is literally all the ABDL stories rolled into one. As such it can be anything you want it to be.

The great thing about the first story PPP wrote is that it's about another dimension. I think of every authors Diaper Dimension story being part of another dimension. Thus there are an unlimited amount of "normal" dimensions and diaper dimensions. Some where Amazons and Littles came from the same world, some where they are taken from another. If there is a basic framework I world I would say it's the size charts you have put up. The pictures you did were far better, showing the average height of an amazon as they grow and the height of Littles. Amazons bigger, Littles smaller and treated like babies. Bbykimmy has the rules for her world different based on the country the story takes place in. I would say take the idea you like the most and go with it, what would work well for your story. If you want Littles to live twice as long as amazons go for it, if you want them to rapidly age at 60 go for that. You could always write in reasons why it happens that way in your version.

I feel like I need to do a lot of Diaper Dimension homework to answer this. Each author is different, I go out of my way to play up Amazons and Littles are only different in size. This isn't the norm for many DD authors. BabyStevie26 did I story I believe named Three Little Words where the main character was 10 years old and had just became a Little baby and met an old Little women in the crib next to her. The older Little explained to the main character that the rest of her life would be in diapers and explained to the young Little how to have a better like as a diapered Little. I won't even go into Bbykimmy's stories as she has worlds within worlds. the idea that Littles live longer brings a few ideas to my mind. First they don't live longer at all but have a "Saiyan" effect that will make them continue to appear young until a much olders age like 80 or so then rapidly age. Another could be they just live longer naturally, kinda boring but it works. I personally like the idea of their longer life being linked to the baby for formula, most people in the real world don't eat right but Littles are always fed by amazons. It could be that whatever is in the food Littles eat prolongs their lives and helps continue the babyfied Little industry. It would be a cruel irony that the only way to live a much longer life is as a baby, the one thing 99% of Littles don't want. Could also make an interesting story within the story, free Littles don't believe Littles live longer at all and it's propaganda.

Many ABDL have dreamed of becoming incontinent but very few understand what it would mean. As random as this sounds I'm reminded of a Japanese carpenter, the way of tradition Japanese carpentry is very different most other parts of the world. They never used nails or screws he always said one phrase I will never forget, "with nature or against nature." Even though it was about woodworking I have taken that to heart. I noticed when I was 23 I had a bald spot on the back of my head, over the next 2-3 years it got a little bigger. I know I can try to fight nature and do all kinds of things like taking the hair from my butt and put it on my head but how do I know it won't happen again? Since I was 27 I have had a clean shaven head, if I told my 18 year old self that I would be bald in 10 years I would have freaked. You have to make a choice, your body is progressing down a path and you fight to decide, is it worth fighting? From your story it looks like no matter what you do you will be incontinent sooner or later, so will you work with nature or fight against it? I personally don't really like being bald, but if someone told me I was going to be incontinent and it was just a matter of time well... I think you know what I would do

I always have this... I don't know if I want to call it fear of telling this story because someone might know who I am but what the hell. I was never a bed wetter but I found out my best friend was. He refused to stay over at my house because he was afraid my sister (who he had a crush on) or her friends found out he had to wear diapers. Thus I came up with a plan. My sister and I would make bets with each other from time to time, stupid things like I would have to wear lip stick or she had to lick the cat. Well I came up with an idea, with my allowance I went to the story with my friends and got a package of depends, which for a 12-13 year old was big. Since my parents were divorced and my father spent the weekends at the bar we had the house to ourselves. That night we made fun of my sisters friend calling her a baby and thus we made a bet if she lost she had to wear a diaper until the next morning and couldn't use the bathroom until then. She lost, which she instantly wanted revenge and my friend lost, by the end of the night all 4 of us were in diapers and my the morning everyone was wet and no one knew my friend was a bed wetter. To keep anyone from finding out my friend was the bet wetter every weekend became "diaper bets" and by the end everyone would be in a diaper. My father walked in drunk one night and saw me in nothing but a wet diaper and a t-shirt in the middle of the living room, he looked at me for a moment started laughing and went back to the bar. When he was sober we had a long talk and he did know my friend was a bed wetter so he thought it had been a smart trick. I never told him that I had wanted to wear diapers for as long as I could remember. All I can remember about that first night was just...Joy. To be in a room with 4 people my age all in diapers was something that has never happened since.

This whole thread has turned into a religious debate and should be moved to the Littles of Faith sub forum

I have been a diaper lover for as long as I can remember. I always wanted to wear and use diapers but didn't want to be a baby. When i was in my mid to late 20's I noticed the diaper stories i liked the most was people being treated like babies, not just stories that people wear diapers in. Today I sit in between AB and DL, my diaper time is normally just sitting on the computer in a diaper but I have branched out a bit and gotten myself teddy bear and a pacifier.

While i'm not a very good writer I only start a story if i plan to finish it. There's nothing worse then getting invested in a story for it to be randomly dropped. That being said i understand why it can be hard. Writing takes hours of work and thus time and motivation are big factors. I know for myself every weekday for the last 3 years i was busy from the time get off work until bed, this means all my stories had to be written on weekends or at work when i had free time. That doesn't even go into motivation, the story might grip the writer for the first half but now they have other ideas they want to do but cant because they need to finish the last story first. The stories you generally see finished a lot are people that have patreons, thus they turn it into a job. If only there was something to take the ideas from my mind and type it out for me, with perfect grammer.

I don't think she's ever going home. I foresee two different endings. One: you Long_Rifle the hell out of it or sudo Long_Rifle at the least and Stacy is either forcibly regressed or sacrifices herself to save someone else. Two: she chooses to stay behind and be Amanda's baby for life, maybe letting Bella take her place back home. Personally I'm betting it'll be the later but you have thrown curve balls at us before.

To be fair Kimmy does what Kimmy wants . She has dug a little hole in the sand box that is the Diaper Dimension and marked it has hers lol. I knew Stacy was small but I didn't think she was half the save of the average Little.