AngelBaby

I would love to hear from friends and family of ABs and DLs on this.

Okay. CSEM = Child Sexual Exploitation Material. Dartsy, voldamort, and [That OTHER site] were websites/collections of minors in diapers and AB/DL scenes. [That OTHER site] was for the longest time in a grey area, because law enforcement couldnt see the sexualization of it. To them, it was really weird and disgusting, but not illegal. Then someone tracked down a couple of the girls and that was enough to bring that site down. The schism in the community was about minors in the community, and the sexualization of minors. Not the trade of CSEM, although that of course was within the scope of the schism. Just the sexualization. From responses here, I can say it is implied the schism was limited to a much smaller community within the larger abdl community.

I really am curious about the reality of it, given how many people fantasize about it, what the impact on everyone else is, and what ethical considerations exist. Is anyone you know in your family or close friends and Adult Baby openly, and in their baby role in front of family or friends? Can you describe the extent, such as part time or full time, a few discrete things like diapers and pacifier or dressed in a onesie and booties? How does the rest of the family or friends feel about it? Are they uncomfortable? Accepting? Encouraging? How do people interact with them? Strictly as adults, or do they treat them like a baby? Do they avoid them? Or do they play along? What are the ethical considerations you can see? Were any violated? How were ethical concerns handled?

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This is a story written by AI. The original prompt is the message history from a conversation I had with a person on another site over two years. While in reality it would be extreme, it does happen from time to time. In my opinion, if it were to happen, his story, as the father, would be the most likely way it will happen. I will add a note about the son in real life after the story. As mentioned, this is an experiment with AI. It says something about what AI understands about ABDL, cuckolding and sissification, and consequently, what society writes about abdl, cuckolding and sissification. I used Poe.com's Assistent, and several prompts, to lengthen the story, to keep things consensual, and to keep to the spirit of the conversation. Please, give me feedback about the story, and about AI in ABDL. John was a respectable husband who had always tried to do the right thing. He loved his wife Sarah deeply and would do anything to make her happy. However, there was something he kept hidden from her - a secret fantasy that he had never shared with anyone. John had always been fascinated by the idea of cuckolding. The thought of his wife being with another man stirred something deep within him, a mix of jealousy and arousal that he couldn't explain. He had never acted on these feelings, of course. He loved Sarah too much to risk their relationship on a fleeting fantasy. That all changed one day when Sarah discovered John's secret. She had been going through his internet history and stumbled upon some cuckold porn. At first, she was shocked and hurt. She couldn't understand why John would want her to be with another man. But as she thought about it more, she began to see the appeal. Sarah had always been confident and assertive, and the idea of dominating John and taking another lover excited her. She confronted John about his fantasy and was surprised to see how turned on he was by the idea of her with another man. From that moment on, Sarah and John's relationship changed. They began to explore their shared fantasy, watching cuckold porn together and talking about their desires. Sarah took the lead, finding a black bull lover named Mark who was eager to participate in their cuckolding lifestyle. At first, John was hesitant. He loved Sarah and didn't want to see her with another man. But as he watched her submit to Mark's every command, he felt a mix of jealousy and arousal that he couldn't deny. He began to see the appeal of cuckolding, of surrendering his wife to another man and watching as she was pleasured in ways he could never provide. Sarah didn't just want John to watch, though. She wanted him to be a part of it, to submit to her and be her sissy baby cuckold. She dressed him up in frilly outfits and made him act like her baby, tying him up and making him watch as she and Mark had sex. She taunted and humiliated him, calling him names and making him feel small and powerless. At first, John didn't know how to feel about it. He was turned on by the humiliation and the cuckolding, but he also felt like he was losing himself in the role of a submissive sissy baby. He longed for their past normal intimacy, for the days when they were just a normal couple who loved each other. Despite his reservations, John couldn't deny the pleasure he felt when Sarah doted on him and praised him for his good behavior. He found himself increasingly dependent on her for validation and direction, unable to imagine life without her. He became more and more immersed in the role of a sissy baby cuckold, submitting to Sarah's every command and eagerly watching as she and Mark had sex. One day, Sarah and Mark revealed their plans to send John's son James to sissy camp for cuckold training. John was horrified by the thought of his son being emasculated into a sissy baby like himself, but Sarah would not be dissuaded. She insisted that it was for the best, that James needed to learn how to be a good cuckold if he wanted to keep his marriage intact. Over the next year, Sarah happily updated John about James' progress. Forced chastity and lingerie, public humiliation and grueling discipline - James was being trained to be a perfect sissy baby cuckold, just like his father. John felt guilty and responsible for what had happened to his son, wondering if he had been selfish in pursuing his own desires without considering the potential consequences for his loved ones. Despite his guilt, John continued to submit to Sarah and enjoy their cuckolding lifestyle. He found himself increasingly dependent on her for validation and direction, unable to imagine life without her. He became more and more immersed in the role of a sissy baby cuckold, desperately seeking Sarah's approval and affection. One day, as John was changing James' diaper, he noticed a look of resignation on his son's face. "Dad, can I tell you something?" James asked quietly. "I don't think I can do this anymore. I don't feel like myself." John's heart ached for his son. He knew all too well the feeling of being trapped in a role that didn't fit. "I understand, son," he said gently. "But what can we do? We're both in this now." James looked at him earnestly. "I know. But maybe we can find a way to make it work for us. We can still be ourselves, even if we're wearing diapers and pacifiers." John felt a glimmer of hope. Maybe there was a way to reconcile his desires with his sense of self. Maybe he could find a way to be both a cuckold and a husband, a sissy baby and a man. Herealized that he needed to talk to Sarah about his concerns, to express his desire to explore their fantasies in a way that respected their individual identities and needs. It wasn't easy, but John eventually found the courage to approach Sarah and express his concerns. He told her that he loved her and wanted to continue exploring their fantasies, but that he also wanted to find a way to do it that felt true to himself. Sarah was hesitant at first, but she could see how much this meant to John. They talked for hours, establishing new boundaries and rules that allowed John to explore his submissive desires while still maintaining his sense of self. Meanwhile, James had gotten married to a woman named Emily, who was supportive of his cuckolding desires. Emily had always been attracted to dominant men, and the idea of cuckolding appealed to her as well. They talked about it openly and decided to explore their shared fantasies together, finding a bull named Jamal who was interested in being their lover. At first, James was hesitant. He had never been with another man before and wasn't sure how he would feel about seeing his wife with someone else. But as he watched Emily submit to Jamal's every command, he felt a mix of jealousy and arousal that he couldn't deny. He began to see the appeal of cuckolding, of surrendering his wife to another man and watching as she was pleasured in ways he could never provide. Emily didn't just want James to watch, though. She wanted him to be a part of it, to submit to her and be her sissy baby cuckold. She dressed him up in frilly outfits and made him act like her baby, tying him up and making him watch as she and Jamal had sex. She taunted and humiliated him, calling him names and making him feel small and powerless. At first, James didn't know how to feel about it. He was turned on by the humiliation and the cuckolding, but he also felt like he was losing himself in the role of a submissive sissy baby. He longed for their past normal intimacy, for the days when they were just a normal couple who loved each other. Despite his reservations, James couldn't deny the pleasure he felt when Emily doted on him and praised him for his good behavior. He found himself increasingly dependent on her for validation and direction, unable to imagine life without her. He became more and more immersed in the role of a sissy baby cuckold, submitting to Emily's every command and eagerly watching as she and Jamal had sex. One day, James and Emily decided to invite John and Sarah over for dinner. They wanted to talk about their experiences and explore their shared fantasies together. John and Sarah were hesitant at first, but they agreed to come over and talk. Over dinner, they talked about their experiences with cuckolding and sissification. Emily and Jamal shared their experiences as a couple who had embraced cuckolding and found it to be a fulfilling part of their relationship. They talked about the importance of communication and trust, and how they had found a way to explore their fantasies in a way that worked for them. James and John talked about their experiences with sissification and how it had affected their sense of self. They talked about the guilt and shame they felt, and how they longed to find a way to reconcile their desires with their sense of identity. Sarah and Emily listened carefully, offering support and advice. They talked about the importance of self-exploration and the need to stay true to oneself, even as they explored their fantasies. They encouraged John and James to find a way to explore their desires in a way that respected their individual identities and needs, and to communicate openly and honestly with their partners. In the end, John and James found a way to reconcile their desires with their sense of self. They learned to balance their desires with their sense of identity, and they were able to find a way to explore their fantasies in a way that worked for them. They continued to explore their cuckolding and sissification fantasies, but in a way that was respectful and consensual. They learned that communication, trust, and mutual respect were the key to any healthy relationship, and they were grateful to have partners who were willing to work with them to find a way forward. In real life, the son was sent by his wife's bull to another master for sissy training for most of a year. The POV father and his wife were both owned by a master, and the son knew about this, which was likely how he and his wife were introduced into cuckoldry. Contact with the son was restricted over that year, and upon returning, the son was withdrawn, didn't talk about the training, and became non-communicative. Nothing more is known about the son, and there has been no further communications with any of them for the past year.

Your reply is important, because of how long you have been in the community. I value it, because it has a lot of important information; you don't recall any such schism, or the reasons why it occured. It did happen, I know why it happened, and was even part of the reason that other site was closed; I consulted with the Dalton county police about ABDL, but what was said I don't feel comfortable touching upon. The difference between what you and I saw is important, but what it means I am not certain of. I hope we can compare notes later.

I wont rehash the dark history in the ABDL community in that time period in this post, because it may not be appropriate outside of a setting specific for that topic, but I do feel the need to ask a few questions, and hope the community will be supportive and responsive. I got into ABDL in the early 90's, and explored several communities. I watched a lot of events unfold, and eventually had to take a side. I am proud of which side I chose to support. When I try to talk about the history of the community during that time period, I am often met with hostility. I was even banned from a discord server for my knowledge, and called a few unkind words. I also researched the psychology of ABDL, I have a deep respect for the difference between regressive ABDL, and age play ABDL. I acknowledge there are cases where people may have unconventional relationships, even questionable and at times troubling ones, but it is a reality they may have lived and their story to tell. I basically have seen most, but not all, within ABDL over the years. I firmly believe if we forget history, we are doomed to repeat it. There is a history in the ABDL community and a schism in the late 90's and early 00's, which I think the community has forgotten about. It is a history we should never let happen again, but talking about it, teaching it, is difficult and I have never found a way to cover it or talk about it. I might be over-thinking things, but that is why I am asking questions, to test if I am over-thinking this. Please, give me feedback to these questions, and lets talk about it. Do you know about the schism in the ABDL community towards the end of the 90's? Do you know what the schism was about? Do you know about Dartsy or [That OTHER site]? Please, do not search for these. If you have questions, please message me and I will explain. Both are thankfully defunct. How do you feel about age of characters in ABDL stories, both sexual and non-sexual? Do you ever talk about the topic of CSEM in the ABDL community? Do you have a source of information about the history of ABDL from the 90's and forward? I would like to eventually find a way to approach the topic and preserve the knowledge in the community.

I am curious about the ABDL (Adult Baby/Diaper Lover) lifestyle and the concept of babies or a mommy/daddy moving in with a married couple to be part of an ABDL lifestyle house. I understand that this is a complex and personal topic, and I am approaching it with respect and sensitivity. Can anyone who has experience with this living arrangement share their thoughts or insights on the common rules for babies or mommies/daddies in an ABDL lifestyle house? How are they expected to behave and interact with the married couple? Are there any specific rules or protocols that are commonly followed to ensure everyone's safety and well-being? I am asking these questions out of genuine curiosity and a desire to learn more about the ABDL lifestyle. I appreciate any insights or perspectives that can be shared on this topic. Thank you

What little activities are you made to do by your partner as a little? Coloring book? Dolls? Write stories? Or watch children's tv?

Disregard any specifications about why you are changing your baby. How intimate are the changes? Is there a special or specific scenario? What are the feelings involved?

What styles of clothing are appropriate for a sissy baby? Is it only frilly and pink dresses, or does it include onesies?

This entire topic is difficult to talk about honestly, because we are protective of minors, or they are sexualized in a few minds within ABDL. The only appropriate way to talk about this is clinically and without emotion. Support groups do exist for parents and minors, which are legitimate benefactors for those communities. That alone supports the statement there are minors who are 24/7 babies; statistically, the distribution of time regresed will range from 0% to 100%. The distribution has never been determined, but some percentage of 24/7 is implied. There is research that reports on outcomes, and it does conclude minors who are allowed to regress as minors literally grow out of their need to regress, and minors who suppress the need, for all reasons, are more likely to sexualize Abdl during puberty. This is said with a caveat; minors who stop developing or are unable to maintain their relationships or responsibilities need psychological intervention. While this does suggest normalization of Abdl and minors is beneficial to the majority of children who have a psychological need to regress, there were documented cases where it was imposed by adults, including parents. The best documented case during the first decade of this century was harmful by nature. Prior to intervention by authorities, the community was somewhat supportive of the family. It is important to acknowledge the communitys opinion. It points out the willingness of adults to disassociate the harmful consequences of their fantasy being played out in real life.

24/7 isn't the same as permanent. If the punishment is longer than a week, 24/7 for a week is just seven or more days.

Well. If you are going to spend on a high chair, get one that locks and binds you in place

I know its at weird question, but your answer helps ground others either working up the courage, or those at risk of getting lost in fantasy. Your openness I think has given to the community something really valuable, and will help others who read your answers figure things out.