wetmonkey

I saw this the other day watching a football game in a sports bar. This one seems tough to judge, not sure it's as mocking as some, maybe in good fun, not sure.

Hey, In reflection for me the diapers were a major factor in our separation but really for a few reasons. I didn't properly convey early how important it was to me and I didn't until this year reach out into the community to meet others with the same interest. But on the other hand we had attended a full year of couples therapy where I talked about my fetish for diapers and desire to wear around my ex-wife more. I had no expectation of participation but her acceptance was barely there and almost never did I feel safe or comfortable wearing around her. It was a complete breakdown of communication that infected our entire private where neither of us talked about what we wanted in intimacy. The bed wetting this year just further created a wedge in between us where she didn't want to talk about it or offer any support and I felt completely alone and humiliated and looked for support, care and love from other people. I honestly don't hold anything against my ex at all but I do feel I was re-shamed into feeling guilty about both my diaper fetish and having the occasional accident. The drinking was a bit of us going out about once a month and both drinking too much, and then for me on my own drinking too much more in positive situations where I finally felt free like ABDL munches or close friends birthday parties. Not sure that explains it all but I have been seeing a kink/fetish supportive therapist since April and that has helped immensely towards helping me communicate better with people about both my love and need for diapers. Feel free to ask more quesions agapoulo @agapoulo

Moderate for me

I have met a new partner this year who has been very accepting of my need to wear at night again. It is not every night that I wet but it's often enough that I feel so much safer wearing to be most nights. She is also accepting of my liking the diapers too and is the most generous partner I've ever had with asking questions and just generally trying to make me not feel ashamed for having to wear diapers again. I found my ex-wife and other partners tolerated it but didn't really accept it on any level and that was always extremely hard for me.

When I was four years old I pooped my pants by accident coming home from school and was forced into pampers by my babysitter (white, plastic kind) and then had to throw out my underwear. The other two boys who she also babysat asked loudly why I had to wear diapers and she said it was because I had an accident in my pants and needed to punished. She later told this story to her whole family while I was at dinner with them, almost everyone laughed at me then too. I remember this incident like it was yesterday and it was actually 41 years ago, so it obviously left a massive, deep mark on me for life. Not sure if it started the whole diaper thing for me but after I did start wanting to steal pampers from my babysitter and take them home.

Thanks all for your comments, I've since separated from my wife and moved to a new city. I've accepted my bed wetting at times and just wear to bed almost every night to feel safer, more relaxed and not have accidents in my bed. My new partner is very understanding and excepts both my DL side and my bedwetting and need to wear diapers at times.

Oh wow, thanks for this post! I had never heard of them before but they are amazing. Love that they have on real plastic diapers and not just underwear style. Does anyone know which kind they are, can't really seem to place them.

My bed wetting only began this year for me and when I was a kid it wasn't too bad (wasn't diapered). I have gotten over it a bit but am surprised how I am more ashamed and scared then excited like I thought I would be. I think being able to choose when I wear was really comforting for me and knowing now that I should be diapered most nights just in case feels hard to get used to in some ways. So I think I would choose to not be bed wetting if I could.

i'm hoping for season 3 next year. Sadly Netflix just announced they are not renewing the show next year. No idea why but maybe they got complaints because of all the poop stuff this season.

SPOILER ALERT There is a scene late in this film by Bradley Cooper where he wets himself on stage at the Grammy's when his wife played by Lady Gaga wins Best New Artist. He is super drunk and it is referenced earlier in the film that he has done this before. It's a fantastic film about addiction and surprised me how much it made me cry.

I love those movies, thanks for the clip

I wear for overnight incontinence and I find the following can last 8 hours; Rearz Inspire+ incontrol (though tape well) Abriform Abena L4 (I use M4) ID Slip pe (Just tried a couple samples but was super impressed) Would also recommend; Drylife Slip Super (Uk I think but can buy them here in Canada) Bambino (not as big but hold a lot, at least for me)

I usually put my mine on about 15 minutes before bed. I like falling asleep dry so I'll often go to the bathroom before putting my overnight diaper on.

Hi! Welcome and feel free to ask questions. Some of us are incontinent and some are not but it's usually very friendly and kind here.

Yeah they definitely should be selling diapers too just in case!

Personally I am very happy that it is becoming more mainstream. I have had great experiences at the Rearz store in Waterloo (I am from there) and at incontinence stores in Toronto, Ottawa and now Montreal. While I don't always find ABDL diapers I appreciate being able to buy in person really good quality ones like Abena and Forsite AM/PM. I find the staff always supportive and friendly without being too many questions. I for one am happy about any progression in a community that for me has carried an intense amount of hiding and shame to the point of it being super unhealthy. I'm hoping the trend continues myself.

I've started wetting the bed again this year after not having it happen since I was a kid. It happens now when I drink a lot and I have no control at all. I told my current gf immediately about both my incontinence and my love of diapers and she excepted it really, really well. Found out she wet the bed a lot when she was really young so has a lot of sympathy about my new bed wetting. She encourages me to wear whenever I want or need. It's taken me awhile to get over the shame of it but now I'm ok with needing to put on a big, thick diaper some nights.

For me the draw more about being ok with it as I knew I might be incontinent at some point in my life. I've started having accidents at night and while in some ways this was exciting I was also embarrassed and a little sad. I always liked being to choose if I needed a diaper or not but now if I drink a lot I have to wear one or I'll wet the bed and myself completely.

At first it was hard to realize that I was having real accidents again after years of not. I always liked being able to choose to wear diapers but now at night I often need to. I have been working this year on getting rid of my shame around it, through both a therapist and a new relationship that is the most supportive I've ever had.

oh wow1 I watched season 1 and really liked it a lot. Now I HAVE to watch season 2

I often wear tranquility ATN's on most nights but will wear a Rearz InControl or Forsite AM/PM if I have been drinking alcohol.

Thank you all for your responding. I have begun wearing every night to bed and it is helping so much. While I am not waking up wet every time it is a massive comfort to know that I am protected. When I drink I have to wear extra thick protective ones but so far no leaking or wet beds at all which is I really want.

I've had three incidents of soaking myself at night after drinking, each time wetting both the bed and my pants or completely soaking a cheap diaper that I meant to change. This time I even woke up a bit drunk and had to get up early to leave town and forgot to change the sheets and it was my worst wetting yet. My wife was extremely upset, completely understandable, and while she cleaned up some of it is still demanding I see someone. I'm scared to go mostly because I feel it is hard to explain the occasional bedwetting, which only recently started, without explaining that I also wear diapers for pleasure as well. I have to admit as well that my wife has been kind enough to forgive me a bit, at least so far as long as I promise to never wet the bed again. I have to put a bed pad underneath my side of the bed now and promise not to wear think diapers to bed anymore, especially if I drink at all. Still trying to process the fact I am a bedwetter again, had some problems when I was young and a bit in my teens and that I need to talk to a professional about it without it sounding weird or too awkward. My wearing of diapers actually came out of comfort as I often have anxiety about wetting myself if I don't know there is bathroom I can use nearby, long trips on buses with no bathrooms, seeing theatre shows that are long, concerts where I can 't get out easily. It's hard to admit at 44 that I need them and probably will more and more as I get older.