DiapergirlWB

So i Get if you are involuntarily incon not wanting to hang out with ABDL. They do have their own space here but so many come into our space to bash and gatekeep and that is also inappropriate. If our desire offends you don't come in here. What I do does not effect them in any way so i really do not care how my desires make them feel when I am posting in an appropriate forum.

I have done this on more than one occasion

I've noticed this a lot on any diaper forum I've been on. There are people who just have a need to feel superior to others by yucking their yums or by trying to be in control of a 'thing'. They have a narrow definition of incontinence and any variant is false. It gives them some kind of feeling of control and strength i guess? In my book if you can't help but wet or mess yourself either from training or from physical lack you are incontinent.

i just feel so much better mentally when diapered. Using diapers just feels right to me and lessens my general mood of anxiety. I just really want to have some kind of legitimate need for them always have.

I'm a big supporter of people going 24/7 and diaper training over time to need the diapers whether that is daywetting bedwetting or bowel IC because you will be living the life for long time before you have to live the life forever and if after all the effort it take to become diaper dependent you have regrets I don't know what to telly you, choices do have consequences. I am not a fan of surgery as an option. This is an irreversible flip the switch type incontinence and by your own admission you tend to get tired of diapers. If you had been 24/7 for a long time and just looking for the final push then fine but i think this is a mistake but like I said choices have consequences and you will have to live with them.

How is 'troll' anything to do with incontinence? A troll on the internet is someone who says or does things just to get a reaction or hurt someone. A troll is an internet bully. I fail to see any connection to incontinent people and ABDL people.

I'm happy right now with being trained not to hold so wettings just happen. holding is possible but it needs to be a conscious decision to do so, except for bedwetting I still don't wet in my sleep, which frustrates me a lot.

I think a lot depends on the individual and their potty training experience. Mine was I guess very strong for bedwetting as i have trouble even peeing laying down but daywetting is almost subconscious at this point. I get worried sometimes that if i do wet the bed my partner will get woken up in a puddle and bee pissed (snort chortle) and that might be holding me back. Our minds are strange things. Also i feel focusing on it and thinking about it are counter productive like with my daywetting it's gotta become on non issue.

I have rained myself for diaper use a lot. I'm never really holding anything i go small amounts frequently at the times i notice at all. I can hold if i think about it but if not then wetting is pretty much always a thing. i havent tried in a long time because i feel testing is a barrier to diaper training. Most of my messing is in the am so I usually go out after,but accidents happen and will start heading to somewhere i can change when it become imminent.

I've trained myself to make open the default setting, so most times i could stop and hold if I wanted to, but if things are less solid then I usually have no chance to stop.

1. severe 2. Squirts/small releases 3. keen awareness 4. Heavy bedwetting infrequent dreams 5. permanant 6 mild/occasional bowel incon. 7 no

Firstly congrats. Bed wetting is def a form of urinary incontinence. I am going to say that you are well on your way to being diaper trained for wetting. Which in my eyes is functionally the same as being urinary IC. You wet without letting it happen or really noticing. There are a faction of IC gatekeepers here who will come at you saying that you aren't because you still could hold or retrain or whatever. My advice is to ignore them and enjoy what feels right for you. Don't worry so much about the technicalities of it.

You could try insulting it's mother?

I always wanted to wet the bed that was really the only form on "incontinence" I knew about until my 20's i guess (pre internet days). I always loved wearing diapers and wetting myself I never really thought about needing diapers until I heard about adult diapers and incontinence. I had known about like the elderly and diapers but not really yuounger people that needed to wear.

I'm thinking anything anything where you could not have access to a facility if you messed yourself but otherwise anything dealing with a lot of water or close in proximity with the public.

Phone jobs I would think...no getting stuck on a call needin to hit the bathroom!

It's not really a secret but a mindset? I have had to deal with some conditions that have had pretty much constant effects and have learned to put them to the back of my mind. So that helps. Also you have to manage what you are looking to achieve. If you are looking for loss of control and not knowing when you wet the actual act of wetting has to become background. Taking great pleasure and focusing on the way the wetting feels the warmth the wetness spreading is going to prevent this it will keep it in the front of your mind you have to let that go in order attain the lack of not really control but of having it become subconcious and automatic.

Yes for a very long time now! I wish I could wet in my sleep but despite teh fact that during the day it would take effort not to wet myself as soon as I get into bed the waterworks stop. Even when I get woke up by a strong urge to pee it takes time and effort to wet myself while in bed...frustrating

congratulations! I am happy for your progress and a bit jealous lol

A diaper failure is also a possibility in a fresh or nearly fresh..an unnoticed tear or defect is always a possibility it's not jut wearing a too wet diaper.

I never did attempt it. So the answer is still a mystery to me.

I don't test. I find the idea to be counter productive. Kind of the 'The Game" if you think about it you lose (haha you lost) the idea is to not have it in your thoughts at all, to not be part of the decision making process. Testing keeps it in your mind which no matter what if you are thinking about it there becomes a choice.

Get yourself a bed pad either disposables or a reusable one. I full on diaper is not the only solution. You can also use more discrete form of daytime protection which will require more maintence and montoring. you can always use like a backpack or something to carry your supplies you don't need a 'diaper bag'

As I have gotten older I have found that my desire to be diapered has increased a lot. I am now comfortable being diapoered all the time and not being in a diaper is weird awkward nd causes stress.

depends on why you wear. If the point is to stay in one diaper as long as possible or changing isn' an option for a long period there is no such thing as too much. For practical use the 500ish range seems to e the biggest and still be able to function.