mike indiapers

I struggled with potty training and I took my parents multiple attempts drawn out over a long period of time to finally get me out of diapers. Even when “officially” potty trained just before starting school at 5 1/2, I still had accidents and was kept in training pants or diapers due to them. My mom had a rule that if I had an accident in my trainers, I was back to diapers for the rest of the day. I actually liked this rule ;). My parents made a push to get be potty trained just before my 5th birthday, but I wasnt interested and bulked at the idea. By that time I was attached to my diapers for the attention, comfort and security they brought me.

#foofybabykitten - I began taking diapers when I was a teenager in situations similar to those you describe above. I remember a few instances when we had friends of the family visit our home with young kids still in diapers and that I would take a diaper or two from thire diaper bag if the opportunity presented itself. I also had a paper route during that time and would buy pampers with my paper money and go to an adandoned wharehouse to try them on and return to my happy days. The comfort and security of being in diapers was like coming home.

Struggles with potty training is exactly why I am an ABDL today and attached to diapers as an adult so many years later. As a child, the task of potty training was too much for me - my body’s control and mental readiness were not on the same timetable that most parents expect from their kids. My mom attempted to potty train me for the first time just as my younger brother was born soon after my third birthday. I have few memories of this time, but do remember my parents bringing my brother home from the hospital and wearing these all in one training pants with a plastic outer shell and thick cotton interior. My memories become much clear as I was closer to 4 years old and we moved to a new city. We lived in a large apartment complex, and during this time, I remember having accidents during the day in my training pants and wearing diapers at night because I always wet at night. I became anxious about my accidents and the negative reaction from my parents, mostly my mom because my dad was rarely home, overwhelmed me and made me feel bad about my lack of control. I had difficulty learning my body’s signals to go t other bathroom had no confidence in using the potty. By the time it registered, it was often too late and I would wet and soil my training pants. My mom began to diaper me again during the day after accidents, but returned me to trainers soon thereafter hoping I would catch on. We didn’t stay in this place long. My dad was in the military and we moved again across country soon after I turned 4 and lived in another apartment complex until my folks could find a suitable house. It was here that I remember the incident that returned me to full time diapers and forged my attachment to them for ever more. My accidents became more frequent and soon after we arrived, we were grocery shopping when I had a particularly bad accident in my training pants. My mom had to end our grocery shopping early and made me wait in my messy pants as she checked out and drove us home. She was upset and kept telling me I was acting like my baby brother. We got home and I was out in the bath tub and cleaned up. My mom brought me back to my room where I saw a diaper and plastic pants waiting for me on my bed. She told me I would be wearing diapers from now on and put me in them. I was dressed and we went back to the grocery store to finish shopping. I cycled through my emotions and eventually landed in a good place. I was initially embarrassed about being in bulky diapers as a 4 year old, but now expectations were clear and I didn’t get in trouble for using my diapers. Accidents were no more, because I was back in diapers and everyone was relieved. The stress due to my accidents went away and I became very comfortable and at peace being in diapers again. Over time, I grew attached to them and liked the security and comfort they provided me. I also liked the extra attention that came with diaper checks and changes. I liked my diapers and remained in them until I was 5 and a half and ready to start kindergarten. My mom potty trained me again that summer just before school started, but continued keeping me in those plastic backed trainers during the day and diapers at night. I wanted my diapers back and got my wish from time to time when I was diapered after an accident - which was my mom’s rule. Start the day in trainers, but have an accident in them, finish the day in diapers. I didn’t mind this rule at all, and although embarrassing at times, it meant going back to the security and comfort of what I needed. I was forever attached to diapers and as an adult I eventually discovered the ABDL lifestyle which was like coming home to me. It was the failure to potty train that led me to why I am an ABDL today. I completely relate NewGuy’s experiences and am prove of his hypothesis stated above.

Great story so far.

This may be in response to the trend for parents in the UK waiting longer to potty train their children. See the attached article. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4649006/Britain-faces-potty-training-crisis.html

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Thanks for sharing your moments and I enjoyed reading them all. It amazes me that my memories are still so vivid and strong regarding those moments in time that influenced my abdl feelings and desires. They have not faded away, but stay with me and replay over and over as reminders to my past and the reason why I am wired the way I am to be attached to diapers. I sometimes wonder what it would be like to not have these strong internal needs for diapers and Throuhg my own journey I have gone through a spectrum of feelings about it, from confusion, anger, guilt and finally acceptance and fulfillment. I love to share with this community and look forward to reading more experiences of that moment you knew,

Does anyone remember that moment you knew you were attracted to diapers or into ABDL? I would love to hear others experiences and whether there was a particular event or trigger that got you to where you are today. For me, I remember a few experiences from childhood and as an adult that forged my journey into this lifestyle. My attraction to diapers goes back to my youth and the fact that I wore diapers late into childhood. I had mixed emotions about it, but do remember the very experience that flipped my feelings from one of diapers being a burden and source of embarrassment to one of feeling attached to them and never wanting to give them up. I was in nursery school and the oldest kid there still in diapers. I remember a particular day when one of the teachers came to me with a thick pamper in her hand to take me to the baby room for a diaper change and how special I felt at that very moment. I had all her attention and felt no judgement nor guilt about still being diapered when she asked me to follow her and took my hand. I don’t know why that event was so grounding, since this was a common occurrence at nursery, home and other places, but it must have been my age, self awareness and the teacher’s own treatment of me that day that completely changed my feelings toward diapers. Once I was eventually out of diapers, I was very sad to let them go and jealous of the other toddlers still in them. As for my experience into ABDL, I remember finding an old penthouse forum while in high school and reading an article about another adult into diapers and being a baby. It was fascinating to me that this type of lifestyle existed and that I was not the only one into diapers. I had secretly worn diapers up to that point and felt so different for my attraction to them. Once I discovered other adults enjoyed similar things, I sought out more abdl content and once the internet came about it was a going from a small creek into a big river with so much information and finding DFP as my first ABDL community. That forum article was my moment of discovery into ABDL and it was over 30 years ago. Please share.

I moved from being a DL into just wearing diapers to more of an AB about 8 years ago and have enjoyed both aspects of abdl ever since. I never imagined myself liking the adult baby side of it until I was encouraged to try it by an AB mommy I met whom was experienced and understood the intimacy and comfort that other baby things brought to me. I slowly regressed and found my AB persona, which is a 3-4 year old toddler that likes to have pacifiers, bottles and wear diapers full time, yet is functional and very interactive with mommy. In addition to baby things, I like to color, play with toys, play child games, do arts and crafts just like at preschool and be read to while snuggling. Alll of these things enhance my mindset and are natural to me while I am comfortably padded in my diapers. I like wearing diapers that are very babyish that remind me of the pampers I wore in the early 1970s, i.e. thick, crinkly and obvious, as well as those with baby prints. I am starting to enjoy baby clothes too, including onsieses, baby T-shirt’s and cute plastic pants and want to get some denim shortalls with snaps soon along with a few more toddler shirts and cute sneakers. I am very much an abdl now a days and l like where I have landed on this journey of discovery.

I remember having quite a few potty accidents as a kid and most of time it resulted in me being returned to diapers as a means of convienence and retribution.

Just bambino Bellissimo diapers here, but wanting to order more ABDL diapers and comfidry

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I have posted about this very topic before and believe there is a direct connection

Wonderful news, Brian. Congratulations to you and your wife and enjoy the journey into parenthood. As a father of 4, my wife and I have relished our roles as parents through the years, it is not always easy nor appear rewarding, but the highs far exceed the lows. Yes, your diaper budget will increase, but that is a good thing. Our kids are now young adults and leaving the nest, so we are looking forward to our alone time again to enjoy our ABDL lifestyle without locking the door .

Hi mummy Rosie

Nothing better than an unanticipated diaper change. Enjoy and I hope you get many more in the future.

I went out to dinner with my wife/mommy for Mexican food and margaritas and then came home for ABDL play which constituted being put in my diapers and footed pjs and watching Holiday movies snuggling on the couch. I fell asleep half way through Chevy Chase's Christmas Vacation only to be woken having my wet diapers checked (the margaritas went right through me) and led back to bed by mommy where I was changed into a fresh diaper for bedtime. I love having my diapers changed while being half asleep. It was a perfect Friday evening for me and I look for many more to come.

I would also recommend decorating your youth diapers with stickers or cartoon theme duct tape you can buy at a craft store. I can't wait to see them on you

Tough choice considering I am an ABDL and diapers are a very important par of my little lifestyle and I am emotionally attached to them in many ways. If it came down to it, I would keep my diapers and give up being babied. I would try to replace being babied with other aspects of emotional connection and continue to enjoy my diapers.

I was threatened many times by my Mom for having accidents during the day post-potty training, and she often followed through with it. It was easy since I wore diapers at night for bedwetting and all she did was diaper me during the day after cleaning me up. I actually felt relieved going back into diapers after having accidents because all the pressure was off me and I felt comfortable and secure being well padded. Later my mom told me that she found keeping in me diapers easier on her too and if not for social pressure to have kids potty trained, she would have continued diapers 24/7 until my accidents stopped completely - I would have liked that .

I prefer plastic backed disposable diapers for many reasons. First, these are the diapers I wore in childhood and grew attached to having to wear them at an older age. The premium plastic backed diapers remind me of the the pampers I wore in the 1970s and I always felt safe and secure in those diapers and feel the same way today. Plastic backed diapers are also better at containing multiple wettings and other accidents that tend to leak more with cloth backed diapers. I like the subtle crinkle noise made by plastic backed diapers and will muffle it when wearing in public with plastic pants. Finally, I like the look and feel of plastic backed diapers and the way they make me feel babyish.

I can remember being put in diapers for the chickenpox when I was around age 6 and again when I had the mumps at age 8 and having to stay in them over the course of both illnesses. My mom would routinely diaper me when I was sick and being pumped full of liquids as a way to keep me in bed or on the couch. I was changed me periodically and remember feeling very secure and snug in my diapers. Funny how those memories stay with you.

I am often given a bottle of warm milk at bedtime to put me to sleep and it seems to work every time. I am always diapered for bed, so the need to go pee is contained in my night diapers while I sleep the night away. Glad you discovered this as well.

Thanks for sharing your experience and the photo of the two of you is adorable. I am happy for the both of you and think it is great when a couple finds their happy place with our ABDL lifestyle. My wife is my caretaker "mommy" too and has exclusively been in that role since we incorporated this lifestyle into our marriage some years ago. It keeps getting better, but my wife has yet to express interest in being little herself or wearing diapers as an AB or DL. I am happy wearing for the both of us, but it must admit it is pretty sexy thinking about her in diapers too, and I can totally relate to your feelings about how it would turn me on to have her diapered too. It would definitely introduce a new dynamic into our ABDL fun. Maybe someday we will go there, but like you I subscribe to the "happy wife, happy life" philosophy to marriage and don't push want we have with this incredible lifestyle. You two make a great couple and I love diapers peeking out from under a short skirt and the tell tale sound of crinkles - you must have been going crazy in the casino .