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There is an archive of articles written by a Domme mommy that, if I remember correctly, covers a lot of that territory and is an interesting read. You might have her check it out:Filthy Little Mind

First off, kudos to you for being open-minded and willing to try it. It wasn't for you and that's perfectly okay. There are lots of people here who would give anything for a partner who accepted that part of them, regardless of whether they participate or not. Relationships are complicated and not everything that we are into is going to be something our partner is also into and wants to share with us. I'm not sure what advice to offer you as I'm assuming you've already explained to him that it's just not your thing but you don't mind if he indulges in it, himself. Is it possible that he's taking your "I'm just not into it" as a rejection of him personally? Perhaps he just needs reassurance that you don't find him weird and sick for liking what he does?

The donations given to the Poppy Fund during the weeks leading up to Remembrance Day go to services for veterans and they are certainly front and center during Remembrance Day comemmorations but there is no designated day for them that is observed nationwide.

Repaid, not in any way taking away from the sacrifices of you and your fellow veterans, I need to point out that the original poster is from New Brunswick. In Canada, November 11th is Remembrance Day, which commemorates Canadians who died in the First and Second World Wars, and the Korean War, and now, of course, the war in Afghanistan. If I'm not mistaken, in the U.S., November 11th is Veteran's Day and is observed in the manner you mentioned. Similar but not quite identical. I don't believe BBoy meant any disrespect to veterans, his post is based on how we observe this particular day here in Canada, which for us is a day to remember the fallen.

Ah yes, I know that feeling well! I often find that the more stressed out I am about something the more likely it is the diaper-thoughts start trying to get my attention again. They come and they go ...

There are quite a few of us.

I hope the doctors will be able to help you regain some continence, Simon! As awful as this is for you, posting it may help some people realize what they might be doing to themselves. Unfortunately, too many people get caught up in the seduction of the incontinence fantasy and can't seem to see the harsh realities until it's too late. I wish you all the best in your quest to regain some control.

The furniture has been sold so it's no longer available.

Woolly Babies? I must admit, I've never run across that one before. Well, I'm definitely just a boring old 2. No fur, no manga mask, no rubber pajamas, or faux womb. Just a pretty dress and some ribbons will suffice.

I know that she has some photos so I'll talk to her and get back to you on that.

I should mention she is asking only $400 for the entire works. Solid construction, painted white. Crib needs some minor repair to the side rail but fits a regular twin mattress. High chair can be locked (to keep those fussy babies in place while they're eating ).

My apologies, Mr. Goo! There were enough of the letters present for my brain to take that extra leap!

I can't speak for you, Mr. Magoo, but many years ago I was convinced I was just a DL. The reason I believed that was because at the time it was too scary to allow myself to believe that I might be an AB. I think a couple of things contributed to that - firstly, that being babyish was seen as something shameful. As we grow from infancy to early childhood we're told that "only babies mess their pants" , "you're too big for that now" and the worst insult "you're acting like a baby". On top of that, when I first got online and discovered that I wasn't the only one who liked diapers, my earliest introductions to it were men who were totally into the whole dressing and acting as babies. It was too much to soon. Like many abdl's I had all sorts of shame issues about my desire to wear diapers and being confronted with the whole AB thing in my face, right off the bat, sent me scurrying for cover. It freaked me out. I didn't want to be like them, so I convinced myself I wasn't. But the truth of the matter was that I was lying to myself. As time went on and I became more comfortable and accepting of this part of myself I came to realize that I had, in fact, always been an AB. As Bethany says, "you will know if you're an AB". It might take awhile to allow yourself to see it, but if you are one, you'll know. You don't really need to invest in a lot of props, although they certainly help with the atmosphere. The truth resides between your ears. Take a good look at your past fantasies - what are the elements of most of them? Are you being treated like a baby? Not necessarily acting as a baby but in the fantasy is someone treating you like one? Are you forced to wear a diaper, suck on a pacifier, sleep in a crib, wear a bib and eat in a highchair? Or do they revolve mostly around sex and have no elements of being babied in them at all? Try to think back to the period when you first started being interested in diapers and see if you can remember what you thought about when you put them or fantasized about putting them on. Your answer lies in that grey mushy stuff between your ears. As for feeling idiotic while playing out an AB scenario, that doesn't mean you aren't an AB. It just means you're embarrassed. It takes time to build that trust that your significant other won't laugh or reject you. Anyway ... regardless of whether you are an AB or strictly DL, enjoy your process of discovery!

I think the binge/purge cycle is something that many go through in the earlier stages before they reach the point of accepting that this is just part of who they are and it's okay. Once you reach a certain point you stop throwing away all the diapers and baby supplies and stop feeling the self-loathing. The cycle itself, however, is another thing entirely - at least for me. When I don't want to wear it's because I'm just not interested at the moment. I can go for months not wearing and not really caring that I'm not wearing. When it hits, I want to wear and can't get enough of it. Then it wanes again. Kind of like an ocean tide. I have noticed that the older I get and the more comfortable I am about this part of me, the less of a definite cycle there is. More often I choose to wear once in awhile just for fun rather then wait till it grabs me by the throat, which it doesn't do so much anymore. I think it might also correspond a bit to the idea of too much of something all at once gets boring and you have to drop it for awhile.

A friend of mine is selling off the furniture in her AB Nursery for a very reasonable price. She has a crib and a high-chair which she would prefer to sell as a unit. She's including with those 2 items all the bedding, rubber sheets, sissy clothing, and accessories that she has, as well. Because shipping would be astronomical this would most likely be suitable only for people within Vancouver or the Lower Mainland. She is even willing to deliver if you pay the cost of the gas. * SEPT. 25 UPDATE: the furniture has been sold and is no longer available.

I believe it was some time in early July. And Repaid, Dolly is going to be really cranky when she finds out you called her OLD!

I have no experience with adultfriendfinder but I have met some people through alt. The only problem is that the site is really geared to people into bdsm and if that's not part of your ABDL play, then it becomes very difficult to connect with someone of like mind. It's certainly worth a try but we are definitely in the minority on there. And standard memberships are free although there are drawbacks to not having a paid membership. You might want to sign up for a standard membership to see how it goes. If you have a good experience you can always upgrade later on.

My last information on Dolly was that she was having some difficulties with her health. Hopefully she will fully recover and rejoin us again soon!

It seems that this may be something of a pattern for young Mr. Thorp. Sometimes when I'm very, very bored I will pop into ABCamp for a momentary browse. I ran across his posts there a couple of months ago (they were all on the same topics as the ones he posted here - no pubic hair, kiddie credit card, etc). He also accused the posters there of being mean to him and then up and disappeared about the same time as he started his posting here. I was tempted to post responses a number of times to his threads on here but stopped myself. I've seen too many BabyThorp types over the years and I guess I'm just getting mighty tired of them.

The rewards of patience, hey bayb !

Very nice, ZorroDaddy! I hope you find your little girl!

From what you describe, it sounds like maybe you're more turned on by the humiliation of your wife controlling you and forcing you to act this way than you are by the other guys themselves. They're more like "props" in your humiliation fantasy and not actually what's arousing you. You'd find that in bdsm circles that's not an uncommon fantasy. And no, it doesn't make you bi.

Dr. J, most of us are familiar with those feelings you describe. They're difficult, but you can eventually move past them to a place where you're a lot more comfortable with yourself and your desires. It doesn't happen over night, but it does happen. And it sounds like you're already half-way there. You're an infantilist, but that is just one small part of who you are. It doesn't mean that you'll never be in a relationship with someone who will love and accept you for who you are. It doesn't mean that people around you will be harmed by you being this particular way. Unless you plan to be a baby full time, most people don't even need to know this about you. Most of what holds us back from forming intimate relationships is not the infantilism itself, but our fear that the infantilism is something so monstrously unacceptable that we will be humiliated and rejected. Will that happen? It might. We can be rejected for all sorts of things. And they all hurt. Being rejected for any reason can be humiliating. But it also says that that person is not the one for us. You might also find that you won't be rejected, that your infantilism is no big deal or even interesting and exciting to someone else. One of the best things I ever did was develop a sense of humour about it. When you really think about it, it's kind of funny. Is it silly? Yeah. I'm a grown woman who wears diapers and enjoys pretending to be a baby. Looking at it from a distance, it's rather amusing. And harmless. And just one of my quirky traits. It's not how I define myself as a human being. I'm sure I have some traits that someone would find a lot more annoying than me being an adult baby. It's fun, it's harmless, and it helps me deal with stress. Part of the problem is that we give being ABDL way more importance and weight in our lives than it really needs or deserves. In the long run, it's not as big a deal as we think.

Unlikely, since you mention in your first post about just getting into the TB/DL thing. Not many 26 yr. old teen babies. I've reported this again.

I think it's probably different for everyone but the answer for me is yes. While AB play is at times sexual for me, and other times not sexual, the "little-me-not sexual" mode only wants a mommy. I'm not sure why that is but it's part of that odd ABDL thing where things have to be a certain way for it to be right in my particular AB brain. I'm bi, so for me a romantic life partner might be of either sex, but a mommy who was not also my partner would be strictly a mommy to me. The relationship would be loving but only in a mommy/baby way - no sex, no romance. Loving and caring yes, but not in the way of a romantic relationship. I'm not sure if that's answered your question or just confused things even more.