skylight43

Happy Birthday Daily Diapers ...

My Mommy asked me to post this entry for her. She is a wonderful Mommy, but has also been Domme for many years and has a question. I am a new Mommy, but have been a Domme for over 20 years. I am enjoying the learning and exploration of the ABDL world with my wonderful big baby. My question is this: While I am very much enjoying being Mommy, I am having some issues reconciling my Domme nature and my Mommy one. Being a Domme for me is about control and respect and while I have all of the control I could ever want from my baby, I feel the respect is what is lacking. How can I get the D/s type respect I need from my big baby? Thank you.

Best protection (especially for overnight) that I have found is to wear a thick disposable, cover with a pull-on flannel diaper (underpants work too, but flannel diaper has more protection) and vinyl plastic pants. With this combination, I have never had any leaks and that's with heavy peeing, turning over at night, sleeping on my side, etc. It's hard to find something that doesn't leak when you sleep (and wet) on your side lots during the night. It's good to use a bed pad and/or vinyl mattress cover too just for extra protection. Hope that helps. Skylight

I've always enjoyed wetting my underpants (on purpose). I still wet my underpants in the shower or tub (always on purpose). One of my favorite things to do is sit down on the toilet with my underpants on and wet. I've done that late at night sometimes. When I get up to pee in the middle of the night, I just sit on the toilet and wet my underpants when I am half asleep. I like being punished/humiliated too for wetting my underpants ... kind of like "if you act like a big baby" by wetting your pants, you will be treated like one by being put back in diapers, forced to wear diapers for an extended period, spanked, etc. Wetting my pants is a good way just to let go (literally) and I love just soaking my pants ... it feels good and naughty at the same time.

This is a good topic. I started out just enjoying the feeling of wetting my pants ... mostly my underpants. All of my wetting was on purpose in underpants or pajamas or jeans. In my 20s and 30s, I was more of a DL with a little bit of AB stuff like plastic pants. Now, I'm a little bit of both but sometimes very heavy on the AB side enjoying the aspects of control, punishment, humiliation, being "treated as a big baby" if I "act like one". And then there are some nights, like tonight, when I wear simply for convenience as a DL. I was playing some video games and it was nice not to have to get up every thirty minutes to pee. I just kept playing and wetting. As I get older, the convenience aspect is great and I feel more comfortable wearing under my jeans to the store or on errands just because it is more convenient to wet my pants than look for a bathroom.

Thanks for the advise and info. I like the idea of the clear vinyl one. I do use bed pads too which help with leaks, etc. Now I just need to learn to wet my bed in my sleep.

So what does everyone use for waterproof sheets and bed pads? I like sleeping on a bed pad every night to enforce the fact that I'm a bedwetter (if only on purpose). I wish I was a bedwetter for real and have even tried those hypnosis tapes, but I can only seem to wet when half asleep (I wake and then wet). I've only wet once while sleeping, but I know you have to stick to it and wear diapers every night for awhile for wetting to happen when you sleep. The bedpads are good as extra protection and they have some really good ones at your local drug store. And having the plastic mattress cover is great too. I want to replace the mattress cover I have and am looking of something to remind me that I'm a bedwetter and that I need to be in diapers (especially at night). Is rubber better or plastic? Any good stores to get good mattress cover that protects well and is waterproof?

Thanks for the welcome messages.

Hi everyone. I am new to posting. I am 43, male and an AB/DL. I've enjoyed reading this board for awhile, but haven't posted anything due mostly to shyness I suppose. This is one of my favorite sites and has so much good information about the AB lifestyle. I have always wet my pants (on purpose) and started wearing diapers more full-time (when I can) about 5 years ago. I like the punishment/humiliation aspects of the lifestyle as well. I have experience, but as far as this board goes, I'm a newbie. Hope to correspond with folks here to share experiences and learn more.