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  1. Diamonds, keep it simple - what you buy for whatever reason is your own business... you will be amazed, that if you can get over the initial nervousness, you'll find that it's no big deal. You don't need any story, any "excuse"... even the fact that find diapers "off-shelve" means that people are buying them. And a clerk has no right to invade you privacy... so pick up a pack, head to the check-out, smile, pay and go. if you don't act weird, nobody will notice... and after all a Size Medium or Small or Large (that's the default three sizes most diapers come in) will fit a large number of people - so if you act like it's everyday shopping, no one will confront you about it. good luck.
  2. I partially agree with you about relativism, although I know that "right" and "wrong" have always been a rather flexible thing I think that it's not working to take something out of it's context. Take killing - after five years in the military, two different crisis areas and active duty (not sitting somewhere in a basecamp), I have seen my fair share of killing - if tomorrow I decide that I find my neighbor boring, not ok and he and his familiy piss me off for some tiny reason - it would be (I guess we can all agree) considered WRONG if I go down there and just kill 'em all. it is certainly something I would find absolutely wrong if anyone would do it - no matter the reason. On the other hand, if a girl gets abused daily by her father from her 5th year of life onwards till she's 15... if she then one day has really enough, so enough of it that she takes a kitchen knife and stabs her dad twenty times, I guess the majority of us would be OK with it - it would be "understandable", it would be "not really wrong". In a war it's a bit towards the later - it's a conflict, a known life/death matter where some are willing to fight with their lifes for - there Killing becomes a statistic number towards the broad public (what it is for the individual who had killed is something different)... Joseph Stalin once said something like "10 deaths are a tragedy, 10'000 a number within a statistic" - a sad but true issue. I agree that morals same as truth is indeed a very human construction - but it is something that has been sticking with "us" for a long time in one form of the other - and I believe on certain levels a general, simplified consensus can be found "agreeable" by most. And last but not least, those who decide to live within a society (Which I assume are all here who post on this board...) have to consider the moral standards and the "code of conduct" set by the type of society and the area they live in. 99% of us would for example clearly say that rape is WRONG - and 99% would for sure say helping someone who did fall down a flight of stairs would be a GOOD deed. And within that extremes there is a lot of "gray area". But there are social structures, morals,... About the virtue of solitude - yes this is soomething our modern day and age has quite forgotten about it mostly.
  3. I won't even go as far as to go over that over and over again... mate, look I see you've got a problem with someone having a different view about things... I said *I* see it the way I mentioned it - after all tigger directed a specific question at me and that was my answer. take it out of it's context and play with it if it bemuses you ... you maybe should listen more closely to your own wisdom, beating dead horses, not indulging anymore, calling it a time to quit, being accepting of each other and all of that... I fail to see any of these in your replies here these days... I must wonder what happened to that piece of wisdom..
  4. Beth, now what was that exactly you mentioned in a verbally "graphic" way a bit earlier??? If my memory doesn't fail me utterly it was something about "BEATING A DEAD HORSE" - or something along that line??? now who's beating the poor ol' dead horse?
  5. Believe me or not, I did not come here seeking any kind of support, acceptance, group-hugging or any sort of weird form of internet group therapy... Life over time has taught me a few things, one being to be able to rely on my own, to stand on my own - to be independent of groups and "communities". I have what one would refer to as a small but true and long-time circle of good friends, whom I can trust and who have trust in me. I've got some news to for you: There is LIFE outside of the internet. I can all but smile if you think I'm lonely - as I clearly know I'm not. Do you have one friend, or even more than one, who would risk his/hers life for you should it ever come to that? Who wouldn't hesitate to help you out when you really need it? Would you do the same for someone in your life? I can sincerely answer to both of the questions with yes - can you? Feel free to judge, pseudo-hobby-analyse me and last but not least believe whatever you may want. But I'm far from being that desperate for support, acceptance & community-attachment that I would support any member of a community for their own actions, if I the action stands against what I believe in or what I find correct or even ok. I judge a person as an individual, I don't care about their "membership" with any "community" or group. That aside let me provide an answer to your question as to why I am visiting this forums: 1. I like to communicate (who would have guessed ) 2. Some (a very small number though) of the stories I find worthwhile to read 3. Some posts here are interesting, others I can sometimes find amusing. 4. Basically I regard this place here as some sort of virtual, interactive "magazine"... I can only stress, that I search neither for a welcoming community nor any form of support. Neither am I looking for group-hugging sessions, a group therapy (actually I'm not needing any therapy at all, or anything in that area... if you do, and if for you this place fulfills this need(s), then fine... But accept that it's not the same for everyone...
  6. Tigger, I long thought to not to reply to this thread here anymore - as I've felt that everything which was necessary had been said. However, I have to disagree a lot with what you have written and "assumed" in your post. I'll try to make it a short reply though (I'm not too good at that though;)) (I have included a short two line synopsis of what I try to say at the bottom of this post, marked in bold type-face... so if anyone doesn't want to indulge with my full-detail answer - skip it) First I'm glad I didn't offend you - because offending someone here was never my intention. Where I disagree most, and I have stated my feelings, ideology, ideas, thoughts about this previously in different threads throughout the board: I don't look for a "community" in any way - I'm simply not interested in being part of a community. (I'm not much of a community guy in real life either... and prefer to spend most of my time in solitude) Also, for me AB & DL couldn't be any more different - it's a vastly different thing, and I'm rahter "unhappy" about the fact that somehow it was chosen to lump as all together under the combinative acronym "ABDL". Please - don't get me wrong with this, I'm NOT SAYING That AB's are something bad, or that I have a general dislike for the PEOPLE WHO indulge into AB Stuff. Only because someone loves to see a horse-race it doesn't make him a F1 fan at the same time, only because he loves seeing a race. (I know the example is lame, but it helps to explain what I want). Or someone who's a latex fetishist is not automatically into BDSM. But I feel and believe that it TAKES MORE than diapers to unite a group... especially when the rest of the "stuff" is quite different. I see ABism more as a RolePlay thing, where diapers play their part... and my DLism (I say "My" because I can't automatically speak for others) is NOT AT ALL about any Roleplay, babystuff, dressing up, giving up responsibility and for sure not about being a different alter ego at times. And now, why between heaven and hell, should we unite just because of diapers? Now about BDSM, just as a side note, quite the opposite - I like lots of things about BDSM, and the reason I went to BDSM Clubs with some of my ex-gfs is because we were "into" doing some BDSM stuff and NOT BECAUE OF DIAPERS. Another thing is diapers. I love wearing them because they feel good, and sometimes give me a good sexual side-pleasure.... But diapers - FOR ME - are not very important in my life, it's something I love to do occasionally - when I'm in the right mood. And sometimes I wear when it's practical... There have been times where I didd put my diaper-wearing aside 100% because I was either didn't feel like it or for example when I served with the military for five years... it wasn't even difficult to stop for that time, I had other things on my mind. I'm not feeling guilty or weird because I like to wear diapers, but it's only a tiny aspect of my person and not something MAJOR in my life. And last but absolutely NOT LEAST: Shoot me (please), the very day when I start to be supportive of anyone within a community (even if I'm not willingly part of it) no matter whether I like the persons actions or not. For chirst sake - let me put it like this... If I'd be a member of a sport club... and one of my team-buddies would be into raping girls... WHY SHOULD I SUPPORT THIS? Quite to the contrary, I'd beat his fucken ass up bad and call the police.. Or less "wild": I'm an adult, I have my own life, I have RESPONSIBLITY towards myself, for my own actions and last but not least for what is happening around me (If I walk past by two guys who beat up one, I'll do something about it... it's part of being responsible) - AND THAT ALL LEADS ME to the point, that I decide on my own WHAT I find OK to support and what I condemn or about what I don't give a shite. Sorry to sound so strong about this, but if you believe in supporting anyone no matter if you find their actions good or not, JUST because that someone is in the same "community" as you are - then you've chosen a path I can never support. To keep it super simple - summa summarum: No Thank You, I can decide on my own what, whom and under which circumstances, I'm willing to support - and whom, waht and when I condemn someone/something. And No thanks once more, I can make up my own mind and be part of a COMMUNITY or not. Besides, I have little respect for home-made psychoanalysis of any person - especially when the "analyst" doesn't really now his "subject"
  7. then as you've said yourself once before - skip it.
  8. Look at yourself first when it comes to being the negative element ... and yes, I make typos when I post to forums, as I don't plan on spending a hell lot of time to read through things a dozen times. I believe my english skills are en par with that of most who speak it natively. if you want, point me out what I wrote so wrongly, as that you feel you must accuse me of not being able to communicate in english. But as far as I am concerned, I have come to the conclusion, that you are a rude and not overly bright person, as all you seem capable of doing is to try to insult me. And even at that, you fail miserably. Girl, look I've had some serious insults thrown at me, but someone basically close to kindergarten-level-insults is being just overly ridiculous.... if you want to insult me, at least try to be more original... you're boring at best. I may ask you how many languages you can speak and write fluently? So far besides german and english, I speak & write french & italian fluently... I can commuincate in basic arabic, and can manage to get through with some Putunghua Chinese ("mandarin" chinese)... besides this I can do basic conversations in spanish and can somewhat understand russian if it is spoken slowly and on an easy level. I love languages... English I use on a daily basis and have spent a lot of time in england, the USA and have used it for business and personal matters and so far have never had a problem to understand and to communicate. and for what it's worth - let us have a quick english lesson - taking one of your posts as an example: In bold-typeface I have marked the very basic mistakes you have made, without going in depth. Its vs. It's -> It's is a contraction of "it is" or "it has." whilst... Its is the possessive form of "it." so.. what do we have here lil'jezzi?? it's called a mistake... then... Just the first sentence in that quote of yours above - it is not in a correct form and has no proper beginning and you make a rather unwelcome use of "and" as well... as this sentence leaves the reader with many plausible interpretations it is difficult to say what it is you precisely wanted to say, but assuming that you wanted to remind me of a difference between my right for my own opinion and degrading someone - then let's try this as a correct way to say that: "There is a slight difference between being entitled to your own opinion and actually degrading someone by posting a negative comment about their poem". Ok, and whilst we are at it, lets go on with: "...IF you don't like like POEMS (PLURAR (multiple poems in case you don't know what a plural is)) than don't read IT (implies SINGULAR (a single poem)).." Jezzi, you know that there exists a difference between plural and singular, don't you? And then to bring this sad issue to it's final conclusion - your last sentence from the quote above: "Maybe its what these people are here for." again a wrong implementation of "its" - and as well a perfectly sensless statement. You start by "addressing" me personally (I'm just one) - you never make an implication of directing your written words towards a group - and yet you say "these people are...". so, and that was just about three or four short lines of text jezzi. There would be even more details to pick on... but frankly I'm not qualified to be an english-teacher. And even more blatantly speaking, I don't understand english the slightest little bit - making mistakes as profound all the time that what I write is not comprehensible at all... But before you go blame someone else for not being able to speak, write and understand a language, make sure you do... Especially considering the fact that english is your native language and you claim to work as a paralegal, I assumed that in your profession correct writing skills are mandatory, but alas, gone are the days when writing indeed was considered something worthwhile enough to actually spend time on to learn it properly... At least if you choose to be judging other people for their writing skills... ahh well.. Again, once more you deliver the best possible proof on your own that you're perfectly ignorant and not quite possibly the brightest light out there... PS: as a side note... it's "You're a negative person" and not "Your a negative person" ... now that's a very basic thing, isn't it my dear?
  9. YES - my vote too for am organized and classified system for stories... that way I could root out stories I don't want to read before actually reading into them.. I mean most bookstores have a classification for genre, movies have the same thing... something like a short synopsis and a category would be cool...
  10. about courage... I say if you tell your best friend, your girlfriend/boyfriend - well that takes *some* courage... but again, a medical professional , despite his/hers reaction is bound to treat whatever he/she sees and hears CONFIDENTIALLY, we all know this, and we can rely on this, as should a med. pro violate this, he/she would sure loose the job and most likely end up heavily sued and ruined in the end. so your "secret" is as safe as it gets...
  11. I've seen him live twice... the last time I don't remember the exact date, but I believe it was before 2000 I thought his voice had lost a lot of it's former strength and "power"... the songwriting, you're right has not been dragged down by this, but the overall performance at least was rather weak and I was sad to see this. also the more "country" style stuff it was, the more band members, electric guitars and all that I found were 1. overpowering the voice and the lyrics & 2. heavily overdone and not too appealing... I've been into music almost all my life... I play the e-guitar and the classic spanish guitar... I can read and play sheet-music and have had basic piano and some vocal training too (I'm as bad a singer you can find btw ). The band who accompanied him the last time I saw him play was at best "not harmonic" and was more focused on pushing their sound as with supporting dylan. ... that's all
  12. ok, I didn't want to acuse you - that's why I said: sorry if that was voicing it too strong... but then let me put this a tad different: Why would you think that you'd get changed at a doc's place or a hospital for that matter if you have to working hands and no serious disabilities? Did ever a doc, nurse or other medical staff change your underpants? dress you? - well unless you have a medical reason for not being able to do this yourself (that's a different story). About bravery... bravery is something different as showing someone else you wear a diaper... but I'm not in the mood to go into that debate... everyone should make his own decision about what's bravery and what's just not. if for you that's a brave act - well I can live with that. DW, I agree fully with your post here... Asking someone else to change your dirty diapers, medical staff or not, if you are CAPABLE to do it on your own is over the top... In you case, witch, well you would have been absolutely entitled to have had your diapers changed, incontinence or not, would you not have been wearing diapers you would have been "hangin'" in a wet bed... bad situation... it's a shame nobody decided to help you with this in such a case.
  13. I'm quite astound about your comments - I love poetry... if you had taken your time to read my replies, you would have only very little reason to doubt that simple fact. but believe whatever way you want. Degrading someone??? where please did I say anything degrading regarding upseydaisy's person??? please enlighten me on that subject. As much as I can recall I commented on her poem, not on her personality or person per se? and if you can't stand any form of even slightly negative critique (I never went as far as to call it bad or any other degrading verb) than I can't help it if you still decide to post your works... and why you need to jump on anyone else, going as far as to call him names (as you did in my case) without that I have ever given you anything "personal"... I don't think I have to take what comes from your mouth or keyboard any serious anymore... by going down to that level you lost a lot of credibility.
  14. And you say I should come down from my high horse... now that's what I call irony... and all you can do is calling names if anything - it's bemusing in a sad way...
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