Honestly, I used my post to bump it because it was so far back that I wasn't sure if it was deleted or still awaiting update.
But I agree. How dare authors make us wait for totally free content that they write in their free time as a hobby! It is an outrage!!! DAQ needs his fix! Going through withdrawals!/s
Many authors are busy or don't find their "flow state" for months at a time. DAQ's post above is a better and funnier way to say that, while we're all very keen for an update, we totally understand that life gets in the way of erotic fiction.
There's no "right" way to characterize things. When I started I had no interest in being a baby, just being forced to wear diapers. Being forced into dresses and the like was a secondary thing. Now I dabble in the baby stuff. To use a classic meme: