username Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 How can I prevent myself being a recluse. I have a healthy drinking life with my mates and see my women friend once a week and sleep on her sofa (I'm gay). Since wearing 24/7 ( 10 days now) I am reluctant to socialise. Do I flat out tell people I'm now incontinent and how do I approach the subject Link to comment
pterautodidactyl Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 just try not to worry so much! go do the things you normally do. nobody will know and you don't have to tell anyone. you avoid being a recluse by going out, diapered or not. 1 Link to comment
Apache Raccoon Posted September 5, 2016 Share Posted September 5, 2016 57 minutes ago, username said: How can I prevent myself being a recluse. I have a healthy drinking life with my mates and see my women friend once a week and sleep on her sofa (I'm gay). Since wearing 24/7 ( 10 days now) I am reluctant to socialise. Am I right in guessing you don't want to socalise because your scared of your mates finding out your little secret? If that's the case, my advice from having done it loads of times is nobody will likely notice and it gets easier the more you do it. And if you do feel too scared about wearing diapers out with mates and don't need them for incontinence or anything then you don't have to and they'll still be these where you left them to wear when you get back As for sleeping on your friends sofa, it really depends on if you want to tell her or not, you could try putting it on in the bathroom discreetly or something if you'd rather keep it private from her. 1 hour ago, username said: Do I flat out tell people I'm now incontinent and how do I approach the subject Link to comment
depends4me Posted September 6, 2016 Share Posted September 6, 2016 Curiously enough, isolation is a real problem among those who are incontinent...fear of humiliation, fear of rejection, fear of accidents, etc...so if you intended to wear and use 24/7, you're somewhat on the right track. Link to comment
rusty pins Posted September 7, 2016 Share Posted September 7, 2016 You have to make a decision and very soon. Link to comment
stevewet Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 I am incontinent and 1 Link to comment
Nyte Kitsune Posted November 7, 2016 Share Posted November 7, 2016 Typically people don't notice. I've worn around friends and family and aside from those that know, or I have told, no one seemed to notice. I wear 24/7 and go and do everything in them, movies, disc golf, grocery shopping and have yet to have anyone say anything. Link to comment
itsdrcats Posted November 8, 2016 Share Posted November 8, 2016 Yeah. I agree with about everyone else. You just need to go and do things you normally do. If you don't flaunt your padded butt nobody will notice. You will get used to it. I did cause the alternative is peeing my pants (actually incontinent :O) Link to comment
stevewet Posted November 8, 2016 Share Posted November 8, 2016 No one notices or if they do they don't care. I was paranoid at first but quickly realised it was not a problem. I guess as you get older it is just accepted in any case. Even my wife said to me when I used to worry about being noticed wearing a nappy or incontinence pad. "Oh for Gods sake just put your pad on and get out there and enjoy life. Who care what anyone else thinks." After that I stopped worrying. 1 Link to comment
Pootattoo Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 I'm just the opposite! I've always been a recluse, and now starting to wear 24/7...lol Link to comment
JonBoi65 Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 It is highly unlikely that people will go out of their way to determine whether you wear or not wear a diaper. And if you wear regular/comfort/relaxed fitting jeans/slacks those alone will to a high degree hide your diaper. Think of your diaper as having VPL (visible pantie lines). The tighter the jeans/slacks the more visible those VPL's are. The same is true with diapers. The more relaxed your jeans/slacks are, the less your diaper outlines are. And besides, only a person with a "bottom fixation" will spend that much time determining if you wear or not. So just relax about wearing, enjoy your wearing. It is your business, your pleasure that you wear. And that is all that matters. Simplistic, yes. Link to comment
dlnoir Posted November 21, 2016 Share Posted November 21, 2016 Recluse? Frankly I don Link to comment
TheBabyPants Posted November 27, 2016 Share Posted November 27, 2016 On 9/7/2016 at 9:35 AM, rusty pins said: You have to make a decision and very soon. 2 Link to comment
stevewet Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 20 hours ago, DLBiker said: Agreed, I am incontinent and in fact have to wear 24/7. Link to comment
TheBabyPants Posted December 1, 2016 Share Posted December 1, 2016 On 11/28/2016 at 6:13 AM, stevewet said: Couldn't agree more. I have to wear nappies all the time and I have become very much DL as a result and enjoy my incontinence and being dependant on wearing nappies. Glad to hear that, enjoy! 1 Link to comment
stevewet Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 On 26/11/2016 at 4:30 AM, oldwetter66 said: Link to comment
oldwetter66 Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 21 hours ago, stevewet said: So right. Good friends just won't care. Link to comment
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