Diaper Wearing Adults Are All Mentally Ill According to Youtuber

[safeandhappy]

It's sad that they are willing to stoop so low as to make gross generalizations. They were even bragging about bullying someone. I know they are trolling and I'm sorta playing into it but I feel like light needs to be brought to every hit piece that comes out.

Trigger warning: they lay it on very thick. They don't hold back attacking us and it seems like they will say anything to spread hate, rage, and general negativity.

[beallucanb]

Remember, everyone has a fetish of some kind, then wonder what fetishes do these people share.

[Apache Raccoon]

People are welcome to there opinions about us.

As long as overall we're left alone to engage in "ABDL" safely and legally that's all I care about.

[~Brian~]

47 minutes ago, Apache Raccoon said:

People are welcome to there opinions about us.

As long as overall we're left alone to engage in "ABDL" safely and legally that's all I care about.

@Apache Raccoon

Oh Really? Let's see how funny it is when this idiot that's making these ridiculous statements ends up dealing with people that need to wear diapers because they have to! people that are incontinent have no control over anything going either direction! just because you wear a diaper doesn't mean that you are mentally ill or somehow deficient! there are a lot of individuals that wear diapers every day and they live very very productive lives, and anything that makes them look like they are ill mentally physically or anything like that, makes it look real bad for the community and for the poster. the community understands, so we can just ignore how ridiculous whatever they say is, But there's people that wear diapers all the time and they're not mentally ill.

People that wear diapers wear diapers for a reason! they are not mentally deficient mentally ill or defective! I stand on that because that is the truth! far too many times people will make up stories and believe what people say, and it just turns into fodder because that's what people like this wanna do, they want shock value, so they'll make up things like this. I don't even wanna watch that video, I'm just pointing out that the person who made this comment is the one that is somehow being unfair, because if she had to wear diapers 24/7 365 because she had no control, or if she had to be in a place where mentally ill people are, where they're locked up 24/7 or 23 out of 24 hours, she wouldn't be quick to make stupid statements that I believe can't be founded in reality And most of these things that they put out you have, you have to question the of the source. anybody that make students like that needs their head examined And they're the ones that have the problem not our community!

They always say don't knock it until you try it! I'd love to be able to take all these idiots all these all these know it alls and all these people that think that we're all mentally ill and diaper every single one of them and make it so they don't have any control over anything, they can't move, they can't do anything without help, and then we'll see how funny it is and how ill we are when we're sitting there laughing at these idiots because of their stupidity and causing trouble. I guarantee you if people were to teach these guys a lesson, they wouldn't be so quick to do to decide people are ill or whatever. my brother for example wore diapers because of his disability, but he wasn't mentally ill or defective or any of that! this makes me a little mad, because how can somebody make that statement statement or say that people wear diapers are somehow deficient or mentally ill! there are many people here on daily diapers that are very smart individuals and they do what they do You love people and they show people respect, and they're not mentally ill, They have a lifestyle that they lead, and nobody should have the gall to say anything about how a person wearing a diapers is, because they haven't traveled traveled one iota in someone's shoes.

As I say in my story I've worn diapers on and off all of my life, wearing diapers is not bad and does not make people deficient.  People wear diapers because they cannot  control their bowels or their bladder,  This has nothing to do with their brains or their mental stability or their ability to understand things are comprehend things! where in heck do they get off making statements like this?

I say tie them all down and diaper them all up and make sure they been sitting there in their own mess for a day and a half! we'll see how funny it is after they Don't get changed for awhile and they have to sit in their own mess! maybe a good whipped butt is exactly what these guys need!  Maybe if they didn't have any control of their bladder or bowels they wouldn't be so quick to tell us that we're all mentally ill. I'm laughing at this because it is the correct thing to do rather than to be upset  and have a problem because they call us mentally ill. I have a disability that's neurological and it's not gonna cause me to be crazy or anything like that, so how can they say that were mentally ill? the people that are making these statements are the ones that should be taken down about 5 steps!

i'd love to see a bunch of girls take these idiots and cause them to have to lose control and wear diapers for a long time, and make them feel helpless so they have to understand what it's like to be changed and cleaned up and everything else, then they would understand the life the lifestyle or what happens with adults, it's more than just wearing diapers It's the idea that some idiot makes blanket statements that doesn't have anything to do with anything at all, only for shock value. I bet you if I ended up taking a lot of girls that understood exactly what was going on I mean I wanted to get even, This would be a perfect example to use to show people don't know what the heck they're talking about, and if they don't they should end up having to be exposed to exactly what it's like to wear diapers and have no say or control over anything, that would quickly turn this around and people wouldn't be so quick to judge and make negative life-changing statements to the negative to somebody else's detrement!

i'm sorry guys but this kind of stuff makes me a little angry! I know that there are people that do it everyday and they wear diapers But when people make statements like that, it just slaps in the face of something that makes no sense! can I laugh now?

Brian

Edited February 26, 2023 by ~Brian~
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[Fakename4me]

If hate statements are being aired, report them.  Simple as that.  If enough people report them, the video will go away.

 

[spark]

This is just rage porn.  They get off on getting angry.  Life is too short for that

[~Brian~]

6 hours ago, Fakename4me said:

If hate statements are being aired, report them.  Simple as that.  If enough people report them, the video will go away.

 

@Fakename4me

I hesitate to report this to youtube because I'm not sure what the heck they would do to us! far too often what they do is they end up taking a video and they will decide that something is inappropriate and then take it away and strike you. The problem is that these guys get away with these rage pawns and other stuff that doesn't make any sense, and thing to do is just to laugh it off and let it go! eventually, if somebody starts a whole bunch of rage and they keep on going off and off and off then what would can happen is people will just _ignore them and then they will go away!

The idiots that made this rageporn don't have any idea why people wear diapers and why people like diapers, and they think that we're all mentally ill or somehow defective! the person that is defective in my opinion is the one that ends up spewing this rageporn,

I REFUSE To watch that ridiculous rageporn, because all that does is give them other view of this stupid stuff, and all that does is let people know that the particular video has views. These idiots don't understand the reason why you wear diapers, or that diaper that diapers are necessary, they just lump everybody that wears diapers that is an adult into one category and it's ridiculously awesome asinine as well as being ridiculous and worthless and useless! these guys end up spending more time putting this garbage online than they do trying to use their heads! the idea here is that you don't want to draw attention to somebody wearing diapers and having to wear them because of a disability! you don't want an exhibitionist but you also have to have the idea and understand that people do wear diapers and they need it, and if these guys don't understand the diapers are not something that make us defective then they're stupid dumb and they are just looking for someone like us to respond to their stupid videos.

If I could make sure that youtube would not take my video down, and they would not strike me, I probably would respond and I would probably tell these hate mongers to go fly a kite somewhere in a very appropriate manner! it's high time that these guys get the idea and get the point! raging on a subject such as wearing adult diapers is stupid! everybody starts life in diapers, some people have to end life in diapers, some people wear diapers since the day they were born and they don't get out of them! I keep stating that I wish that we could take all these hate mongers and throw them somewhere diaper them up and make sure they're full of something that will make them wet and mess uncontrollably for about 6 hours straight, then they would see what it was like to have to wear diapers and half to have somebody come in and change them and clean them in everything else comment make them immobile and dependent on someone else to take care of it! being that I have a disability, I have had to adjust my life from time to time to allow others to do something that I could do myself, simply because they can do it better, or maybe it's because I can't do it and they have to help me, and that is part of the reason why I don't worry about stupid rage idiots like this that will put this garbage online and try to make us look bad.

There are many videos that have the good qualities, that tell good things about our lifestyle and tell people that wearing diapers isn't a big deal! these guys waste their time posting rageporn, and I bet you these idiots end up getting a lot of views and I bet you they also have some sort of stupid podcast that probably will allow them to talk like idiots and not have any real idea of what it really is like to have to wear diapers, to have to have somebody get your **** out of bed, to have someone have to carry you to the shower or clean you up or whatever it is! until these guys get that point, they have no standing and they have no idea what it is like for anybody to live with diapers and having to use them. when I give advice, I always try to do that with compassion and understanding And I don't think that these guys understand squat!

I agree with @spark  these people are idiots, they have no brains in their hedge, what they say is irrelevant hurtfull  deceitful and incorrect:  to me it sounds like these guys are like adult being sayers and they need their diapers changed! the stench is overwhelming and they have no idea what the hell they're saying, they have no idea how to live life appropriately and they have no idea what it is like to have to wear diapers or how to live with a disability that makes it necessary for you to have to wear incontinence products! these guys have no idea what it is like to have to go through the stigma and all of the bad things that happen, simply because they they spew this crap and make us look bad! if these guys would spend 5 minutes and realize that all of their spew  is not relevant, maybe there content would actually be helpful to someone, But all these guys wanna do is make videos that have extreme shock value and, and basically this video has no standing and has no valid information.

If I was gonna make videos, I would end up saying good things about our community, and I would make sure that people understood that if you have to wear diapers you have to wear diapers! these guys don't have any idea what it is like to have to do that, so in order for them to be able to get get of attention They have to post this garbage! If it were me, I would delete their channel delete them and get rid of them off of any and all social media outlets! anybody that spend so much time in order to put together some sort of video that ends up making us look bad should be hung out and made a mockery of just to get even! of course since we're all adults, that would be silly and that would be counterproductive, but just for once I would love to be able to take everybody that believes that **** is true, slapped him so hard that their head will spin around 10 times at high speed, and they'll have a headache that will last three weeks! they would never post this crap again!

Brian

[Cruiser 03]

If we are mentally I’ll we have therapy medication and diapers ,there’s no cure for a hate filled heart save the occasional bullet in the head , but I don’t recommend that as a solution for anything or anyone .

[fillemup]

The irony of those 2 idiots is they will likely be wearing diapers as a necessity later in life. That’s poetic justice.

[cathdiap]

They don't ridicule people who wear diapers. They mock those who take pride in wearing them and want to attach their public identity to them. It's kind of sad when you confront unsuspecting people in such an exhibitionistic way with the diaper you're wearing. People who do that ask for attention and they will get it, most likely in a negative way..
Wearing diapers is a private matter and confronting people with it unwittingly, puts everyone in the community at risk of being looked upon as attention seeking freaks. 

I always make sure to wear my diapers so that if anyone finds out it's most likely because they looked a little better than they should have. ?

[safeandhappy]

7 hours ago, cathdiap said:

They don't ridicule people who wear diapers. They mock those who take pride in wearing them 

That's true. I reacted emotionally and got a little carried away in my post. Thanks for correcting me.

[TheJ]

On 2/28/2023 at 7:57 PM, cathdiap said:

Wearing diapers is a private matter and confronting people with it unwittingly, puts everyone in the community at risk of being looked upon as attention seeking freaks.

While I agree that it's a private matter, it's still admirable that some people bring incontinence and diapers to public view. By this I don't mean people who make them a central part of their identity or push their fetish on other people.

There's a bit too much secrecy, embarrassment and ridicule involved in needing diapers. At least some of it should go away to make lives a little easier. Ideally it shouldn't attract attention if someone was wearing a bit tighter clothes over a diaper. Diapers are just one aspect of day to day life for some of us.

[~Brian~]

On 2/28/2023 at 12:57 PM, cathdiap said:

They don't ridicule people who wear diapers. They mock those who take pride in wearing them

@cathdiap

whether or not they ridicule people who wear diapers for whatever reason, these guys are about as far away from legitimacy as you can possibly be. part of the problem is that there are people in this world who are diapers for whatever reason, And sometimes what you have to do is determine for yourself What is the lesser of two evils. I would rather be known because I am living my life to the fullest extent possible, and not allowing my weaknesses to get the best of me, rather than to have somebody call attention to something that should not be called attention to, and not only that, but this stuff is is basically there to shock value and cause people to somehow put down the people who are out of who they are, whether they wear diapers or not!

To mock someone because they take pride in something that is considered taboo taboo is kind of ridiculous. If someone has to wear diapers for whatever reason, you should not mock them Make fun of them or make light of them, because maybe the individual has accepted the fact that they wear diapers and that they need them, and it doesn't phase them, so you shouldn't be trying to negatively impact everybody else in the community because of somebody's deficiencies. these guys and girls probably this because they want to see everybody else act the way they think they ought to act, and the reason they do that is because they want to see how quickly something can be turned into a snowstorm of ridiculousness, And they figure if they can get someone to react in a negative way or rage up against it, then they've done exactly what they want to, Stir the pot and make it so that everybody thinks it is the worst thing in the world.

Because of the fact that we are members of a very diverse community and, and because I understand the reasoning for wearing diapers for whatever reason someone decides, this means that I am open minded to most things that people will post. I don't think that it is a good idea for these idiots to be running videos on youtube that make it sound worse than death that you wear diapers, because everybody wears diapers for whatever reason, and I'm not here to put them down or to make fun of them or to sit there and point and stare and make stupid statements: but I am going to say this: If somebody enough time to go in and make stupid idiotic videos making fun of or making light of somebody's deficiency, then they have the time to use to use their heads and not make stupid videos like this. Youtube is known for not liking specific topics, specific subjects or specific beliefs or opinions. If they don't like something that is being posted there, they can remove it, and they could also turn around and strike these idiots if they make a video that puts someone in a negative light.

If I remember correctly youtube could also strike these idiots down, because it puts a particular class of individuals at a disadvantage, making them sound like they are bad people. They're picking on or raging against wearing diapers, which is more common than they think, and I would think in all actuality that would put this in a situation where you are singling out a particular class of individuals, that have disabilities, and you're making fun of them, which is not appropriate, and you're not supposed to do this. I could make a video that picks on my own self, about my own disability, and make it funny, but the fact that I have a disability is serious business, and you can make fun of that if you make fun of yourself, but you are placing your own self out there to be hung by somebody else if they determined that you are raging against a class of individuals who for no fault of their own have to wear or use specific devices because they have no other choice.

In my opinion these idiots that make these ridiculous rageporn videos would be better off if they actually used their brains to do some research about a subject, and then to make a well thought out video rather than to make fun of,, or laugh at, or otherwise put down something that they don't understand nor do they want to understand. we wear diapers because we want to or because we need to or because there's a reason, we don't wear diapers and parade around and say that we're better than anybody else, and we don't pick on people that are in that particular situation, so why should these rage idiots be able to keep this type of stuff on the system?

As has been pointed out this is just raging over something stupid! they are taking something that is but for anything else a legitimate reason for wearing diapers and making it into a circus!  It is not a crime to be proud of the fact that you wear diapers, and it is not a crime to say that you like wearing them, and if you have to wear diapers because of a disability or because of a medical reasoning, why would somebody think that taking pride is wrong? I'm proud of the fact that I am what I am, who I am, what I've done, and what I stand for, And I'm also proud of the fact that I have a disability, and that I've been able to positively impact myself as well as others people's lives because I'm not gonna sit and try to put something down that I don't understand, and I don't think these idiots fully understand what it is like to have to live wearing diapers 24 hours a day seven days a week, are having to sit in a wheelchair, waiting for somebody else to change you or to help you shower, or to help you get into bed, or whatever. these guys need to learn that they could take all of this rage and put it towards something that makes sense, rather than to pick on something that they have no intention of understanding nor do they have any reasoning to rage against! people wear diapers for a particular reason, and that reason is specific to each individual, and each person has a legitimate reason for wearing diapers, even if they don't agree that it's legitimate!

Because of this Idiocracy, I do not want to watch this ridiculous video! the very fact that they want to rage against somebody that is taking pride in the fact they wear diapers is ridiculous. all wearing diapers is, is a choice where someone makes the choice to wear them rather than regular underwear,, and there's no crime involved here, and there's no reason to rage! maybe I'm taking it a little too serious, if they took the time to actually understand why people want to wear diapers or need to wear diapers, and they were to do a little bit of research, they would understand that there are far more people around the world that wear diapers for legitimate reasons, rather than those who want to put us down because we decide to do it! wearing diapers is not the issue here, the issue is we have people that will post this kind of garbage, because it will elicit a negative response or it will rage against something that somebody doesn't understand, when they should understand that it is everyone's right to make the decision to wear diapers or not, and it is not up to these idiots to single-handedly put the whole damn community down because they think that taking pride in wearing diapers is somehow against the norms of society. Wearing diapers is no different than wearing underwear, it's just an underwear choice, and that's the way it should be. people should take the time to understand that there are far more people that wear diapers in this world than do not, for whatever reason, they decide to wear for whatever reason it is, and it's not up to me or anybody else to decide whether what they're doing is right or wrong: For them it is right, to put them down is wrong, and I I support anybody that decides that they need to wear diapers for whatever reason. if I were youtube, stuff like this would be eliminated, because all it does is put people in our community in a negative light, making fun of something that somebody doesn't understand for their own sick twisted benefit! if they had to wear diapers 24 hours a day, and be looked after and cleaned up and all of that, they wouldn't be laughing too hard, because then they'd understand what it is like to have to wear diapers, or pee/ Mess yourself, and then have to deal with the aftermath. They wouldn't be laughing if they had to live the life of a totally incontinent person both directions, they wouldn't be putting people down if they understood why someone does that, they wouldn't be putting people down if they realized that there are reasons for our decisions, and we don't have to answer to these idiots we just have to live our lives to best of our ability.

I'm proud of who I am, I'm proud of the fact that I wear diapers, there's nothing else that I can say! you might as well be proud of who you are and what you stand for and who you are, because if you know where you stand and you're proud of the way you stand, And you know that you are doing what you know to be right, as long as you are not putting others in a position where your choices are being thrust upon somebody else, then you should remain proud of who and what you are. these idiots that make this stupid rageporn Has no merit, and anybody who will sit there and make fun of people because they wear diapers or because they're proud they wear diapers, is crazy!

in my case I didn't have any choice on whether I have cerebral palsy or not. in my case I didn't have any choice of whether I decided to wear diapers or not, that was an easy choice, and I don't make that choice slightly nor did I make that choice slightly! too many people make fun of something that they don't understand, and too many people make thing that shouldn't be made light of. If we were able to turn all the negatives into a positive somehow and make it so people understood why people wear diapers or why they feel the way they did or why wearing wearing diapers makes them feel better about themselves, the world would be a better place if they just let it happen, rather than to make a big deal out of something minor. if someone is enforcing their own beliefs on somebody else, that's where we have to draw the line, but it is not up to these idiots that post this stuff to make blanket judgments about the entire community based on the fact that someone is proud of who they are. If you're not proud of who you are, then there's something wrong, because everybody should be proud of the person they are regardless of what they've done, and sometimes you make mistakes, but you learn from those mistakes.

It is my hope that more and more people will ignore this kind of ridiculousness and, and then tell the truth as far as what it is like to be in our position! those who take the time to post this ridiculousness do not understand what it is that we go through on a daily basis, they don't realize that it cost us money to do this, it also puts us at a disadvantage because we might not be able to do things others can, but we live our life to the extent we can we can, and we do the best we can! wearing diapers is the least invasive way to take care of my situation, and it allows me to be a better individual and not to worry about things, It or stress. if these people grange in their head, they would realize how ridiculous what they're trying to make a point of is and they wouldn't even be worrying about it. I wish there was a way that we could turn this stupid negativity into a positive step, and let people know that it's OK to be who we are where diapers be proud of who we are and be proud that we are here in a safe place. These idiots have their opinions, and I respect it, but if people are wearing diapers for whatever reason, and they're proud of it, let him be proud! and let these idiots be damned because they don't have any idea what it's like to live two minutes in our shoes, but they will put us down the minute they get a chance!

I am personally sorry if my opinion might not be something people agree with. I just grow tired of idiots that will make this stupid type of video that puts us in a negative light, just to see what people will say. if we are able to take up negative and turn it into a positive, that might be more helpful than somebody making fun of our pride in being who we are. if we can't be happy and proud of who we are and where we're standing, there's something wrong, because everybody has the right to be proud of who they are, and everybody has the right to work their butts off and make the best decision that they can based on what they have in front of them. Wearing diapers is the least of my worries, but people have to realize that making fun of others is not the way to go, unless of course they're making fun of Their own selves, And if they can make jokes about themselves, that's different than to put a whole segment of the community under a microscope unnecessarily to make a point that doesn't need to be made. The point that should be made is we should all be proud of who we are and we should all stand for what we believe in.

there's an old line from a song that says: you've you've got to stand for something or you'll fall for anything.  everybody has their opinions and everybody is entitled to those, but to put people down or make them feel worse than they already do simply because they're proud of who they are or what they're doing, that's where I have to draw the line. there's nothing wrong with being proud of wearing diapers, there's no reason to put people down because they lake diapers or because they're proud of it, And if you are proud to be who you are, so be it! so many people worry about wearing diapers as if it's like a plague, and it's not as bad as people make it out to be, but these idiots that make stuff like this don't have any idea what it is like to have to live in the shoes is somebody that wears 24 hours a day seven days a week 365 days a year, and how many times of these guys peed themselves or mess themselves, and had to clean up their own mess, or how many times have they been sick, and had to get up at 3 o'clock in the morning to clean up a mess that they really didn't want to But, but they did it anyway? I doubt very many of these individuals that are making this type of video has done any of that, so they don't have any standing to make any opinion that is valid, because they don't live the life that we do as incontinent individuals, or people that decide to wear diapers for whatever reason. in order for them to be able to make those types of statements, they have to be able to have walked a mile or two in someone else's shoes to be able to understand what it is like or what they have to deal with. my brother had to deal with wearing diapers all of his life, because of his disability because of his not being able to be mobile, and nonverbal, And he lived his life to the exclusion of all else, And we made sure that his life was as we could make it!

the reason why I am a little upset with these stupid video posters is because they don't understand what it is that we go through! they have no reason to call us out because we are proud of who we are or the fact that we wear diapers! we are proud individuals, and we have the right to be proud, and screw whoever else believes otherwise otherwise because they don't understand one iota of what it is like to be in our position!

Brian

[MegaChar]

Oh hey! They are using my phrase I came up in 2014. "Diapers are cool".

Another rage porn video that goes after peoples choice of underwear.

[Little Cub Pants]

I will say that when it comes to situations like this, people can say whatever they want and post stupid shit videos like this, doesn't mean I agree with it, I even HATE it. But everyone's free to have their opinion, even if it's based in ignorance. At the end of the day, even if they DID know what they were talking about, they still wouldn't change their opinion. I think it's very easy for non-abdl people to sit there and judge us without understanding what we've been through and go through as a community. And I will say that it's kind of pathetic that they would really go out of their way to make hate videos like this because I don't really see anyone actually taking the time to watch videos like this. The world is full of negativity enough as it is, and why would someone want more of that? That's why I typically don't watch videos like this because for the most part, I already know what it's going to be and honestly it doesn't matter. And another thing I would like to add is that bragging about bullying someone because of what they wear, or just in general for whatever reason IS NOT OKAY AND IT NEEDS TO STOP! That would probably be my only real issue with the video in question. But other than that they can say whatever the hell they want. But I'm not going to give them the time of day or the satisfaction of viewership. 

[spark]

2 hours ago, MegaChar said:

Oh hey! They are using my phrase I came up in 2014. "Diapers are cool".

Another rage porn video that goes after peoples choice of underwear.

I've come to the conclusion that we have a rage addiction as a society.  It's obviously not just kinks.

[cathdiap]

@~Brian~ Would you ever show your diaper to unsuspecting outsiders and ask if they have a problem with it? I don't think you would and neither would I. No matter how much I love diapers, I totally understand why these guys commented on it. The person with the diaper clearly hinted at exhibitionism which society (myself included) generally disapproves of. And the adult diaper only made it worse because it's a taboo subject in itself. The person with the diaper clearly asked for attention with the video, which it rightly so got in a mocking way. No surprise for me. I really don't think the person's video was meant to represent the ABDL community and ask for appreciation or at least acceptance of our needs. It was provocative and had a negative energy over it. 

And why should we ask for appreciation and acceptance of the ABDL community? I think the vast majority of society knows by now that there are adults who need diapers. That pill was already hard to swallow. Even to me these commercials for adult diapers are really hard to watch. But it will only make things worse for all of us when people start to realize that if they see someone wearing a diaper, that person might also be wearing it for (sexual) pleasure or even provocation. That will be even less acceptable to most people than a medical necessity.

That's why I appreciate platforms like DD so much. As soon as you enter the portal, you know what you're about to encounter. So here I feel free to share my experience and I look forward to reading your experience, knowing that by doing so we are not confronting anyone (minors included) with information they could not have expected.