Jilly Poo Posted November 12, 2015 Share Posted November 12, 2015 This sounds a little strange but I was so desperate for a little diaper time that I am currently in a diaper at my Mother in law's house. Ever since my husband started working from home in July, I have had NO, ZERO, Zip, Nada, Zilch time to enjoy my diapers because he is ALWAYS there. Link to comment
DL4LIFE Posted November 12, 2015 Share Posted November 12, 2015 Lol u jump at every little noise. Link to comment
Jilly Poo Posted November 12, 2015 Author Share Posted November 12, 2015 1 hour ago, DL4LIFE said: There were days I would plan on it then my wife would call off work and my plans went all to hell. I mean I planned the day before and really anticipated it only the have the rug ripped right out from under me. Talk about being miserable for the day Link to comment
oliver d Posted November 12, 2015 Share Posted November 12, 2015 I know how you feel I was in the same boat,i had to wait for my wife to go an visit my in laws before i could wear and that was once in.thanks god those days are over. Link to comment
DL4LIFE Posted November 12, 2015 Share Posted November 12, 2015 I'm so glad I don't have to hide my DL from my wife anymore. Link to comment
Rani Posted November 13, 2015 Share Posted November 13, 2015 I know how you feel too Jilly Poo. I would always be terrified of the door bell going or of one of the kids coming home from school early. Every Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted November 13, 2015 Share Posted November 13, 2015 23 hours ago, Jilly Poo said: Boy do I know that feeling. Link to comment
Summertime Posted November 13, 2015 Share Posted November 13, 2015 1 hour ago, Baby Brian said: I think you already Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted November 13, 2015 Share Posted November 13, 2015 2 minutes ago, Summertime said: That's a very naive comment, in an ideal world that would be right, we should all be able to indulge our "real selves" Link to comment
Elfy Posted November 13, 2015 Share Posted November 13, 2015 48 minutes ago, Baby Brian said: How it naive when you say it is also ideally right though? Because it is only right in an ideal World, which we don't have, which means it is naive to think it is right in this situation. To Jilly, I think Link to comment
Summertime Posted November 13, 2015 Share Posted November 13, 2015 52 minutes ago, Baby Brian said: Interesting. How it naive when you say it is also ideally right though? No marriage is going to succeed when one partner has to give up 100 percent and always expect nothing in return. Link to comment
Fakename4me Posted November 14, 2015 Share Posted November 14, 2015 Jilly, I hope you find a way to have this work out for you. Link to comment
Too Shy Posted November 15, 2015 Share Posted November 15, 2015 What worked for me and my ex was I would tell him I needed some private time. Link to comment
Three Rivers Posted November 15, 2015 Share Posted November 15, 2015 Jilly Poo, as someone who has been married for 36 years and has been wearing diapers for the past 15 years now. It is give and take but respectful of each others needs at the same time. Just be honest and communicate with your spouse to see what works for both of you. Link to comment
puffy_bottom Posted November 15, 2015 Share Posted November 15, 2015 I've thought a little bit about how this is a "teachable moment" for you to illustrate how this is a need that you have to fulfill and how your efforts to find space and fulfill your need are leading to seeking privacy at levels that would seem absurd to an outsider, when clearly what you want to do is be yourself around your partner. it depends on whether you want to address it or use the space to cope, or perhaps talk to your partner about both, since you have the space for some time. really, maybe doing it outside of the house for now could help desensitize them, given that they don't really support you, if you can get them to come over and join you in a space that isn't their home. i'm just putting ideas out there since you have the space to take advantage of. I hope things work out for the two of you. Link to comment
AwakenEvil Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 I can say from my perspective I wouldn't be with my wife if she didn't accept that part of me. I don't understand why people in this community Link to comment
Dill_Pickle Posted November 16, 2015 Share Posted November 16, 2015 AwakenEvil, it is remarkably easy to get into a relationship without sussing that out... JillyPoo is in a place where she needs some space from her hubby...which is about as generic as relationship issues get. There's no "poor anyone" here...there is the problem of what to do moving forward, because the past is, well, gone, and there is no changing it. Link to comment
Jilly Poo Posted January 5, 2016 Author Share Posted January 5, 2016 It's been a while since I have posted here and I wanted to make sure that everyone has the right facts about my hiding my diapers. 1 Link to comment
puffy_bottom Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 Best wishes and hope things work out for your hubby in the job hunt! Link to comment
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