Elfy Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Yep, one persons actions proves that everything I said is wrong Link to comment
AwakenEvil Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Amazing... simply amazing... This is why I disagree with the whole abdl coming out of the closet comparison. It's like comparing apples and oranges and simply insults those people who genuinely have issues like the LGBT. It boils down to what's acceptable in society. Dressing like a toddler and trying to hang out in areas kids are isn't something that should be or ever will be acceptable. Being LGBT is something that should be okay by societies standards and shouldn't be compared with to someone's kink fetishes. It's like asking someone that's Jewish if slavery was worse than the Holocaust. It's fucking insulting for Black community and the Jewish community. Link to comment
Guest gnappies Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 It was also in the Telegragh, Times, and Guardian if you want links to that, but not all those sites are available to our international audience here, Link to comment
BriGuy Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 I think the majority of people who compare the LGBT community to the ABDL community should use the comparison of personal acceptance and less social acceptance. Society generally will not accept things they do not understand. That being said, if we accept who we are it doesn't matter what others think. I am also an openly bisexual male Abdl. (Recently came out about this one) My wife is aware and engages with me. I can understand that there are similarities between personal acceptance between being gay and being Abdl. I've fought that internal battle for years. My going into public is to bring about awareness and split off the thought that Abdls are pedo's. I care less about social acceptance. That being said, we should NOT be relegated to living in the closet. That is where coats and my footie pajamas belong. Link to comment
AwakenEvil Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Damn how does one get over 1600 post! Link to comment
Elfy Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 It was also in the Telegragh, Times, and Guardian if you want links to that, but not all those sites are available to our international audience here, 1 Link to comment
AwakenEvil Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 I hate when people use white privilege as a basis for an argument... it's like saying I'm not racist but... This is why open minded people simply don't wish to deal with this whole issue is because you choose to demonize "white males" like this. Link to comment
Guest gnappies Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 So you go straight for the homophobia accusation, assuming I was talking about gay people. Yet I never mentioned an orientation that caused the lower standards. 1 Link to comment
BriGuy Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Damn how does one get over 1600 post! I've been a DD member for a while and partake in discussions. Link to comment
AwakenEvil Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 I've been a DD member for a while and partake in discussions. that I would agree with. Link to comment
BabyGizmo Posted March 13, 2014 Author Share Posted March 13, 2014 OK, STOP, seriously off threat topic here. 3 Link to comment
BriGuy Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Super rad about Taboo Gizy! Keep at it. Link to comment
diapered1964 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Well I see it like this, I have been a DL since I was 5, and back than I was not "normal" for any 5 year old to be in diapers unless they where labeled a "retard" or was confined to a wheelchair. Link to comment
BriGuy Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Haha I've been heckled more in my leathers and cut than my shortalls and diapers too. Hehe. Link to comment
rusty pins Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Damn how does one get over 1600 post! Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Let's not allow our thoughts to get into bashing please. I may be back now but I'm still lazy and doing Mod work requires effort I'd rather not exert Link to comment
Kins_lover Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I wear all day everyday i don't hide it but don't announce it,many times i've had young people who worked in the care industry ask me if i need help changing or if my chair has an accident they will wisp air wet or dry need help?? some people are more perceptive than we give credit for and are willing to help a stranger if they need it. Link to comment
dl_ashlee Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 Not sure who said it, but not all us use diapers/baby play as a sexual release. Link to comment
BabyGizmo Posted March 22, 2014 Author Share Posted March 22, 2014 yea, when some of us slip into baby mode we often become just that, a baby. babies are not sexual beings unless you make them so. Link to comment
babyleanna75 Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 First off I havent gotton AB clothes yet. Secondly if I had AB clothes I wouldnt go out in public in fear of friends and family seeing me therfore being outed as ABDL the one day I might go out in AB clothes when I get them is Halloween cause they would think its a costume. I have some online friends that are fearless and dont care what others think and go out in public as ABs I dont have any problem with it as long as they arent doing stuff that is miss representing the community. 1 Link to comment
sirpoopsalot Posted April 10, 2014 Share Posted April 10, 2014 How wonderful is that? Link to comment
babyalan Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 I am surprised this did not get a negative reaction or reported to police given the state of minds of most Calgarians of which I am one now too . I am happy you have found your happy place and its all good for you Link to comment
BabyGizmo Posted April 11, 2014 Author Share Posted April 11, 2014 Another Calgarian! Calgary has a weird trait i found, where people only care if it effects them. this is true with most of the world. very rarely have i ever had anyone come up to me from across the park or actually stop what they are doing just to comment, unless i have a yoyo. then they always stop and admire, usually want to see more Link to comment
pamperedpuppygirl Posted April 11, 2014 Share Posted April 11, 2014 ITT: straight white men tell LGBT people their struggles are identical to the flak you get for wearing nappies in public Link to comment
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