pamperedpuppygirl

Being little is 100x more important to me than sex. I like sex, don't get me wrong - I just feel much more emotionally fulfilled from being looked after!

Tender care are great for the price, but they're hardly premium diapers. I've always found they fall apart fairly quickly.

This is a choice I'd hate to make, because diapers have become a way to tend to parts of myself that are key to my feelings as a 'little girl'. When I was little (and now, even) I had wetting issues, but there was certainly no protection offered by my family, not even for bedtime (I got a plastic sheet, even when relatives were over). My daytime accidents were my own fault apparently, and my parents made it obvious they were deeply embarrassed by it. I was scolded often, and got used to hiding my accidents.

Most days I'm diapered (with a cover, if I need to be a little more discreet), some days panties if I'm feeling more daring

ITT: straight white men tell LGBT people their struggles are identical to the flak you get for wearing nappies in public

I don't remember when I found out what being 'bisexual' was, but I know from a young age I was interested in girls. I knew that sort of thing wasn't talked about in the same way as crushes on boys (I'm not sure that I really 'got' that it was the same thing myself), but I wasn't troubled by it. Over time I learned about being gay/lesbian and that the feelings I was having weren't 'normal', and they weren't something to really mention. I think I came out for the first time at 12 or 13 years old, mentioning offhand to somebody that I was bisexual.

Queer/mostly lesbian little girl. I switch too <3

Nah, young, 'little' applies to all uh...littles.

Maybe you should read the topic more thoroughly; OP isn't an ABDL, his/her partner is. I think for me, I'd want my partner to sit me down and tell me she was interested in doing more for me/being more involved in this part of me, and if there was anything she could do to help that along...

I'm a cis-female who's in a relationship with a t-girl. Frankly, she's the most beautiful girl in the world to me. Got the 'gold star' too I identify as being 'in a lesbian relationship', but also as being 'bisexual'. I'm wary of using that word though, as it seems to have been co-opted by teenage girls who don't really have romantic feelings for women at all. I mostly say I'm 'queer'. Honestly I've met quite a few bi/lesbian girls in the ABDL community, people I am fairly certain ARE biologically female. Weird, that.

Odd as it may sound, I prefer to have my pants a little on the small side. I just prefer a 'snugger' fit, my cloth diapers pressed against me...and after getting a pair that were far, far too large for me, I abhor when pants seem to come up to my nipples with ease. I own 4 pairs now and each one is slightly smaller than I 'should' be wearing.

Also of note is the fact that many healthcare providers (especially in Europe, which sucks for Abena) are required by policy to only purchase the 'cloth-like' diapers. For what reason, I can't say, but obviously people like us, and even individual incontinent people, don't make as much of an impact as people buying in that kind of massive bulk; hence companies are switching to cloth-backed to stay afloat.