Thanks for you comments. I try my best, putting diapers on him, holding him while he wets. I still cuddle up to him all night while he is wearing the same as I would when he isnt, but i still feel that i am not doing enough. He is a member on here although he doesnt know that i am. I also read through his posts just to get an insight on how he is feeling to see if there is anything that i can do more for him. but it makes me feel like a spy.