This is a choice I'd hate to make, because diapers have become a way to tend to parts of myself that are key to my feelings as a 'little girl'. When I was little (and now, even) I had wetting issues, but there was certainly no protection offered by my family, not even for bedtime (I got a plastic sheet, even when relatives were over). My daytime accidents were my own fault apparently, and my parents made it obvious they were deeply embarrassed by it. I was scolded often, and got used to hiding my accidents.