Why Do You Wear?

[BlackoutSunset]

Just wondering why everyone on here wears? Is it for fun, medical, some other reason? Do you wet, mess, both? Why diapers for you basically.

[drynot]

This all started for me because of bedwetting. From there it has morphed into......what?

I can't explain it but I do know that I enjoy it. Not really into messing but I have no problems with wetting. Its harmless fun but again I am at loss to explain why I enjoy it so much.

[Criss]

For me it is mainly for fun, but also very usefull as well. As I am a part time crossdresser into wearing layers of petticoats. If I have to take a leak, wearing disposable diapers saves me a lot of time and trouble insted of having to change out of pantihose and petticoats before doing the bathroom thing.

[Infernus]

Fun and comfort i guess, both for sexual and non sexual pleasure, always wanted to wear, from as young as 5 i can remember, and now i can

[TDL]

For fun and for comfort, but it isn't sexual for me...

I do both number 1 and number 2 (Though, recently, I have a little "accident" with some laxatives... Lets just say that I'm not going number 2 for a while now ).

[thong5]

I started wearing for fun just everynow and then.I enjoy the feeling of being powdered up in a fresh diaper. As time went on however i started to wear more and more to the point i wear 24/7 now and love it.I also like the security of knowing that if i can't make it to the bathroom in time i'm protected and it has happened. As far as messing once in awhile but only at home,wouldn't want to offend someone.

[timmyc]

I wear for fun, something that has been apart of me my whole life. I think something went wrong in my potty training. It isn't going to go away. I do #1 & #2 but the 2's tend to be very limited a couple times a year or so. Sometimes I wear several times in a week other times I go weeks in between. Even when I am not in diapers, they are constantly on my mind. I doubt I have ever gone a single day without thinking about them in some fashion. I also obsess about women wearing, even more so than my own usage.

[DailyDi]

Incontinence and comfort. Wear some level of protection at all times, wet only.

[Guest NaughtyAshes]

I don't know what you're talking about I hate diapers and all things baby.

[TDL]

I don't know what you're talking about I hate diapers and all things baby.

Sorry, but that earned you a "-1" from me.

[curiositykilledthecat]

I can't say why the attraction to diapers was there for me, however I wear for a combination of enjoyment and psychological need.

[Guest NaughtyAshes]

clearly people don't appreciate sarcasm. abdl is srs bzns.

[Missy Q]

It's a sexual fetish for me. So pleasure, I suppose. I wet and mess them.

[Bettypooh]

I've always had wetting issues, though in the middle of my life I had decent control That's fading away now. I self-diagnose myself as SI- UI- OAB since these symptoms fit Some days I could do without diapers, many days I can't. Another bout of leakage can show up with only a few minutes warning so now I always wear instead of waiting and hoping. It sure beats wet pants! There was a sexual element from the naughtiness when I got into this, but it wasn't strong and it faded quickly. I really liked being diapered anyway That pleasantness is still there, just secondary as diapers have become normal for me.

Bettypooh

[iCrinkle2]

I use to wear for fun and comfort. However I can't seem to control my bladder much anymore so now I wear diapers for incontinence. Mostly Urge Incontinence these days.

[Baby Flo]

It is fun and helps relaxing, most of the time.

Sometimes it is a turn on

And sometimes it helps a lot >> I think the combination "Party hard" and "Diaper heavy" is pretty useful

[rusty pins]

With me I used to wet the bed as a kid. I remember the very first time I got excited I was wearing a diaper when I was diapered for bed one evening! I think that hooked me! I've never been into the baby stuff so for me I would say it's a combination of how I feel when wearing a diaper, the diaper itself and how it looks when I'm wearing it, how it feels when using it and even the excitement I feel when I wear one out under my clothes. I guess it's the scaryness of someone perhaps noticing I have a diaper on if it peeks out the back of my jeans a little. I also like the fact that I can be wetting my diaper anywhere, even when talking to a store clerk and they have no idea. It's just nice to be able to go whenever you need to without having to find a restroom somewhere to pee.

[sarah_ab]

I don't know what you're talking about I hate diapers and all things baby.

wow and no one thought this was maybe just sarcasm? geeeeshhhh i think lots of people on here have their diapers in a bunch!

i wear because its such a huge turn on when daddy pulls my pants down, spanks me till i cry telling me what a baby i am, then throwing me on the bed and forcing me to wear a diaper.

I wet and mess because daddy tapes the diaper on me and won't let me take it off, and wont change me until he feels i'm ready.

god i love these threads, at least once a month someone makes one, and its always fun!

[beetle99]

Mainly for comfort and security. It's not sexual to me although that took several years of sorting that feeling out by wearing diapers 24/7 for a year and half now. I still use the toilet from time to time as I wear the cheap CVS/Walgreen Fitted Briefs because I have an overactive bladder. I would go to the bathroom like 10-15 times a day on average. (twice during sleeping, usually - diapers help with keeping me in bed so I don't have to get up!) I also have IBS that can strike anytime from certain foods, which gives me very little time to find a bathroom. I have been careful with my diet, so it's rare for an accident to happen but still I don't trust my butt doesn't hold it in for long anyway.

I was a bedwetter as a child and had a few bowel accidents also. I was not put back in diapers after 3. I had Gerber training pants from 3 years to about 7-8 years old, though.

I always had an interest in diapers for as long as I can remember. I still remember looking at a picture of me of when I was 1 or so, right over my crib in the bedroom. I was 3 at the time. I was always fascinated with anything diaper-related.

[LILJIM]

Started for fun then off & on for bedwettingwhen I got older. still that now off & on. For stress release too when real-life things get to me.

[TDL]

wow and no one thought this was maybe just sarcasm? geeeeshhhh i think lots of people on here have their diapers in a bunch!

I knew it was sarcasm. But why ruin a good thread by implying it?

[wetbear_nb]

I wear for a combination of need and fun. I never achieved night time control. So I wear diapers for wetting the bed. At an early age though, I knew I also enjoyed wearing diapers. So, it's not unusual to find me in diapers anytime, day or night. I usually just pee in them but I do mess my diapers from time to time.

[RMS401]

For me it's purely emotional. I can't account for the feelings when I'm wearing and wetting a diaper, I really can't. But when I'm not wearing I just don't feel quite at peace, not quite settled. As soon as I put on a diaper I'm calm and soothed. I don't regress, I feel every one of my 46 years, but I feel as if the weight of the world has been lightened a bit. I can manage, I can deal.

Diapers are a coping mechanism for me, and I wish I knew why.

There have been many threads here that have asked if we would get rid of this fetish if we could. My answer has always been yes. If I could rid myself of this odd, repulsive (to most) desire, and not crave the relief it provides, I would do it in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, I love everything about wearing a diaper, so I guess I'm stuck with this object of my desire.

-RMS

[Toddler Pampers]

I'm a purely recreational wearer, fortunately. I actually think I'd stop liking being diapered if I was for incontinence. I wear diapers because I enjoy pretending to be a baby, and I think the mother/child relationship is behind it, but I can't be specific. I've got memories of other kids in diapers that go way back, well before I decided I wanted to wear them again.

[Guest]

I wear by choice (not incontinent).

It's definitely sexual for me, but I don't think that's as far as it goes. Sometimes I find it emotionally comforting and even relaxing/calming.

I'm still not sure I have myself completely figured out when it comes to diapers, but I know that I've had an unusual interest in diapers pretty much ever since I stopped wearing them as a toddler. So there was something there before I hit puberty, but puberty sure took it and ran with it.

I think part of the turn on is the idea of forced (for all listed) humiliation, domination (mild, not the heavy/cruel/inhuman stuff), regression, and cross-dressing. Not necessarily all at once.

I love the idea of a female figure or figures "forcing" (with an unspoken willingness; I would never let someone do that if I didn't quietly want it) me into certain situations like I've described. I even like the idea of there being a male, but never as the lead; he has to be an "accessory" to the female(s). I've more or less decided because of that that I'm some level of a bi-sexual.

I've never even come close to acting any of that out with anyone, though. Not sure if that's a good or bad thing. I had one girlfriend I tried sharing diapers with, but I was a virgin at the time and also clueless as to how to approach a diaper-play experience with her, so the one experience we tried to have was a major, major flop.

My wearing comes and goes. Sometimes multiple diapers a week, usually once every few weeks. I'll often wet, but rarely mess because while I truly enjoy letting everything go in my pants/diaper, I just hate all the cleanup so much that I try to avoid it.