BedWetMark

We have a fortnightly wheelie bin collection and mine gets pretty hefty. Only once have I noticed them struggle and nearly question it though. The guy went to move it, stalled as it was heavier than he expected, he looked under the lid, shrugged and hauled it to the bin lorry. I did wonder what was going to happen though. Once I missed putting the bin out. During the pandemic and the household waste centres were closed. I found a local company who would empty your wheelie bin for £20, so I called them, paid over the phone and felt happy it was going to be sorted. I expected said company to turn up with a bin lorry, but no, it was a van, not only was it a van, but the guy driving the van opened the wheelie bin and took out each bag one by one and placed into the van. Horrific. Clearly massive nappies on display, some prints too. But he just got on with it and drove away ... ugh.

The best success I had over the years of dating was just being honest about not only needing nappies, but LIKING nappies, fairly early on - obviously as you can't slip into bed and then spring it. The only time I've ever been thrown in my life, was when I started dated someone and we had one of those early relationship very late (very long) phone calls. This was someone I hadn't yet shared a bed with but we got onto the subject of fetishes, likes and dislikes. She went first and said "the only thing I don't like is adult baby boys", which threw me a bit, it was random and no one has ever said it that way. We talked a few mins longer and she said the same again. The relationship didn't really go far, I was thrown, but even now 15 years or so later, I often look back and wonder why that came up - "what about adult baby girls?" is one thing that comes to mind, was she trying to tell me something without telling me? Let's face it, it really is not an easy fetish to bring up, hence this thread. And yes, it still prays on my mind all this time later. So, just be honest.

In the UK at least you'd stand out a mile - too many people, conformist people in small areas.

On first look, I thought it was a thistle; https://www.scotsman.com/whats-on/arts-and-entertainment/why-thistle-national-emblem-scotland-1470743 However, even if it's a poppy seed head I still don't see the issue, many gardens have them in right now this time of year.

Plenty at ABU UK; https://uk.abuniverse.com/product/bdy/

Agreed - the design is brilliant, but the cloth backing and the tapes are not. I've stuck with normal plastic backed nappies after giving these a go - I think these are fine for playtime / messing around in or just general ABDL play, but they are nowhere near as good as plastic backed for someone who wets the bed most nights. They remind me of the reason I ditched Tena years ago when they switched to cloth.

It's a great question @Little Sherri, generally it doesn't happen much these days, probably a mixture of busy lifestyles and waning desires as we approach mid-40s with so much going on. But when it does happen, it's normally spontaneous and during the day time, if I haven't disrobed already I get a "take everything off" command. So yes for me, removing a nappy is like removing a sock or any other underwear. Many years ago I did try to bring the nappy into play but got shot down. It doesn't work for her so I don't force the issue, I'm appreciative that my "at home" underwear choice is tolerated outside of night time!

So these are interesting. Having worn 2 now, I do like the design, but I don't like the cloth - never been a cloth disposable fan, but whilst they hold loads and just seem to keep on soaking up, I felt I had to keep adjusting to tighten at the waist, which is a typical cloth trait for me and annoying. I'll stick to PeekABUs or Simple Ultra - prefer the plastic backing. But these certainly do look the part - top marks on that count.

Tried my first one tonight, although I prefer plastic backed as that's what I grew up with, I was curious ... then imagine my annoyance when I ripped off the top left hand panel ... ARGH! I gorilla taped it on so as not to waste it, irritating though. I only ever seem to rip the sides off ABU nappies, never happens with Tykables or Rearz etc. Maybe I'm too heavy handed!?

I absolutely have this fantasy, whether it's something to really happen or not I'm unsure about, but it's a great fantasy. There are some seriously good stories on this forum about it.

Just reading the last couple of days of posts here made me chuckle ... just 3 hours ago, my wife paused the film I was watching. I moaned and she explained she needed a wee. I groaned. She then said "not all of us wear nappies" and walked off. I was stunned. I've worn at night all my life, but like many have expanded to wearing during the day, 24/7 since the start of pandemic, but this was pretty much the first time she acknowledged that she must know I never visit the loo ...

Talking of loud, I did something for the first time ever today - I've been wearing 24/7 as I've said before since the first lockdown, but as I've been going to the office once or twice a week recently, I've had to give up on those days; I don't have a large frame and I generally wear clothes that fit closely, so turning up in anything over-sized would look odd, it looks odd on me anyway. But anyway, I woke up, wet, par for the course most mornings, threw shorts on and a t-shirt, said bye to the family and settled down in my study ... ARGH ... I'd left my laptop charger in the office from the day before and as I'd been working for 4 hours the night before in the lounge, had chewed through much of my battery. So, I did something I've never done, swapped shorts for jeans and went to the office. I left my jeans low so they weren't pulled up (looked slovenly, but hid everything well enough), put my trainers on and a hoodie, jumped in the car for 10 mins, walked in, got my lead, walked out and back home. The office was fairly quiet anyway, but still, it was a huge first for me and I just felt like everyone could see me. In my mind, I may as well have just walked in wearing only my nappy, it was an ABU Peekabu, I could hear it in my head, I could see it without jeans, I just don't think I've EVER felt so self conscious, which probably makes it worse. Anyway, back home, jeans off, shorts on, spent the rest of the day merrily wearing that nappy that in my head EVERYONE HAD SEEN ME IN!

I think I've said this elsewhere, but I have made a Tykables Camelot last 24 hours. Granted I had the house to myself so I could "waddle" away unobserved, but the one thing that put me off was the overwhelming stench of ammonia. Even when I did one near to 24 hours (it was clean the night before, then changed just before bed the next night), even that was too ammonia like for me as well. Maybe it's the make up of my bodily fluids, but I can't go more than 12 hours personally. 2 nappies per day suits me fine - I've gone back to ABU Peekabu for this purpose as they are VERY slim, very comfortable and ridiculously absorbent.

I once had a few dates with someone who worked in a care home, she was my age, but refused to call them nappies. She had no issue with me wearing and messing around with them, but to her they were "pads". That seems to be the term most used here. Pads. What a crap, depressing term that is. Love it! It's another annoyance of mine.

There is this in London: http://adult-baby-club.com/Home.htm Personally not my cup of tea, but these things do exist.

Yep. I've stayed here a few times; https://www.melia.com/en/hotels/united-kingdom/london/me-london/index.htm - I have asked in advance and they are happy to offer extra mattress protection.

Exactly like you @Little Sherri, as new nappy designs have come out over the years I've been brave enough to buy them, but I've always tested the water. Over the last 9 or so years I've gone from plain plastic backed Tena Maxi, when that's pretty much all there really was that I was aware of, to discovering ABU, then Rearz and Tykables etc. I think my first printed nappy was an ABU one. I left one out ready to change into and had a comment something like "bloody hell, don't you feel ridiculous wearing those with the children's pictures" or something (I think it was ABU Cushies) and I muttered something about wanting to try different brands etc., nothing more was said. Since then, I've progressed to trying everything that exists and now even though (like you) I've had conversations with my wife whilst I'm wearing nothing but a nappy, I will make sure if that's going to happen then I'll wear something mostly white (ABU Peakabo is my go-to right now). I did order some pink plastic pants and nothing was said about those and genuinely I only ordered pink as nothing else was available in white - which I do prefer. The first time I wore a nappy and onesie (snap crotch vest thing) in front of her I was very self aware, but nothing was said and we had an adult conversation. But I could never wear a non-plain onesie, as much as I'd love to, I don't think that would go down well. Last week though we were on holiday and having got back to our holiday cottage after 7 hours of hiking, I showered and changed and got "ready for bed" (the 24/7 thing won't fly in my house, it's a no in front of other people, so I'm respecting that). But we were cooking in the cottage and didn't have any rice, so my wife, who was also in PJs asked me if I'd drive up to the local shop to get some. I'm wearing thin shorts, a thin t-shirt, thick Tykables and plastic pants. I said "like this?" and she was like "yes you're fine, don't worry". So off I plodded in shorts that I didn't think a good job of hiding what I was wearing, smelling of talc. I was actually kind of excited, but that's another thread ...

To be honest, I've had fewer leaks with them (at night) than other nappies. They are all round very very good. Having said that, I think I must be a "front sleeper" as whenever I leak it's always out the top rather than the side? But I leak very infrequently with these I have to say. The only time these (camelots) leak for me is press out leaks during the day. Too much tea and coffee during the working day, sit down and bam, wet spots. Anticipating this, I always wee standing up after 3pm or so and make sure I stay standing for a while. As my team seem to call me a lot, it's easy to keep the headphones in, standing up, then run off to the shower around 6pm.

If you're in the UK, ABU use DPD as the shipping company, so you'll get the exact hour they will deliver and can track the delivery online so you know pretty much exactly when the driver will be outside. You'll get a largish box, with some brown tape over any writing, so no one will know what's inside. I order a lot from them and they are consistent. Only you know what's in there

They are awesome! You can undo the velcro tabs and do them back up many times - they work during the working day for me as I un-tape the lower tapes and pull the nappy down for a number 2, then pull up and tape back up. But they'll survive quite a few of these and the 'camelots' hold A LOT. Put one of them on before bed and you won't be changing it before you next go to bed if you want to do so. They'll be fat as f**k though, so pretty noticeable.

+1 to this! I like to wear them in the winter (Tykables are the best for me as the snaps are further forwards so are easier to do up), but I don't like the look of a 'vest' under a shirt when working (on video calls), so a v neck would be good. In fact sleeveless would be good too.

This happened to me last night, for the first time in a LONG time. Normally I just wake up wet (4 or 5 days out of 7), shrug it off and get on with me day. But last night I actually had a toilet dream where I was out (in the dream) doing something then had to run off to do a wee. I woke up VERY wet and had leaked. Just a random thought that I don't get many of those dreams anymore and used to have loads when younger. Anyone else still get them, even occasionally? It was just weird waking up and thinking "Oh I had a toilet dream" that's all!

Good call. I've never worn bambino so I can't comment on them at the moment, but I do think there is a gap for nappy simplification in terms of range. To clarify as a bedwetter I wear for need and during the day because I want to, but as a range, my view of 30 years or so along with reading comments on various forums, so leading to an actual product/market fit view point would be; 1. A plain white variant 2. A white variant but with a slight design (i.e. ABU Peekabu as an example) 3. A directly plagiarised copy of current Pampers (I keep seeing this as a requirement) With the requirements of; 1. For daytime wear thin and absorbent (again, ABU peekabu style) 2. Good sizing. Northshore Megamax are FAR too big (ridiculously so) and ABU border on being just acceptable. Rearz InControl do a decent sizing. 3. A CHOICE of sticky tabs vs hook and loop. I love the Tykables hook and loop system during the day, but sometimes you just want a sticky tab. 4. Plastic backed. I think that covers it. I make that 6 different styles, which cover most bases and achieves product/market fit.

This is amazing as it's so similar to me, it's uncanny how the mind works. If I get some time alone (maybe 2-3 days) I plan to go totally over the top, ban myself from the toilet totally and everything listed above. Then the time comes round and I'll have a sh*t day at work which makes me angry and not in the right frame of mind, or just generally the feelings I had of excitement are just completely gone. Every. Time. Without. Fail. So frustrating. Maybe one day the stars will align and I'll be in the right frame of mind when the time comes.

Absolutely, I find the fit of the mediums too weird for me. I bought a couple of cases now they're available in the UK and having heard the hype, I put the first one on and my reaction was "what the f***, weird fit". They just don't feel as secure to me as a Tykables, Rearz or ABU medium. Too big. So both cases have been consigned to the bottom of the pile and I won't bother again. Will stick with ABU and Tykables.