BedWetMark

I think I've gone from £140 per month to £200 per month thanks to the recent price rises. I need a cheaper habit, like class a drugs ... ?

You're welcome to join me on a walk over the hog's back any time!

I think you do this out of respect for someone - at least that's what I do. My home office has been relocated upstairs as I wanted a view, I sit there all week in a nappy, plastic pants and t-shirt. When my wife gets back I always pull my shorts up out of instinct and I think politeness. We recently went on a couples trip away just the two of us. We'd been out, I said I was getting ready for bed, so threw a snap crotch vest on and went to sit down, I got a "put some shorts on too", fair enough, so I did. Then I wanted to go down to the bar to get a last drink for us and was told to put a t-shirt on as well ... so if your other half is like mine, it's the reluctant acceptance, but just the need to make it more polite for them to look at. I do push the boundaries slightly further every so often, hence sitting down after an evening meal and drink in nappy, plastic pants and vest, but the "put the shorts on" comment was enough for me to know where the line was drawn. Fair enough. I'm happy, she's happy. On another note, one thing I have read of yours was sleeping with dummies / pacifiers. I was intrigued and bought one. I kept it hidden for a while in my top drawer next to the bed (my wife goes to sleep way before me). She was cleaning stuff and in the evening said "oh yes, I found a dummy, why? Is it yours?". I've no idea who else's it would be, so I said "yes, I like it". Left it at that. So now it's known about, I fell asleep with it and left it on the bedside table - next day it was tidied away, nicely. Honestly, I know this is a niche for most of the world, but I do feel lucky. Sorry @Little Sherri, taking over your thread, but I was on a roll!

I don't tell anyone, I just manage it on my own. You'll find a way to be discreet and just make sure if you drink heavily that you've got an extra layer of protection (i.e. plastic pants or even a towel)

Classic binge and purge cycle - we've all been through it, many times. My recommendation is to grin and bear it. If you feel like you can't be bothered, just lay a nappy out on the bed, lay down on it and do something else like read or play a game on your phone. Within a short while, you'll be taping up, even reluctantly and getting on with things again. In my experience, it's EXACTLY the same as running long distance when you hit that wall, you need to give yourself headspace and push on.

Agreed, I'm quite happy to stick to just number 1s as well - those 6 days were just too much, as well as the fact I was paranoid and kept smelling the same smells for ages in my skin. There is still something wonderful about being on video calls all day (I really am) and knowing you're in a nappy and freely weeing! I'm have a 3-a-day habit

Over Easter, my family went away with the in-laws and I took a couple of days off work to do some DIY. I actually had 6 days on my own, which was the longest time I've done that since about 2009. I made the decision to only wear nappies on my bottom half (t-shirt up top) as I was doing DIY and wasn't planning on people coming round or even leaving the house and also, no one can see in my house. I also made the decision to do _everything_ in my nappies, toilet was off limits. I've never done that before for that length of time, so wanted to see how it went. I must admit, after day 1 I was fed up with cleaning and thanking god I had control of my bowels, but I forced myself to stick with it. By day 6 I'd REALLY had enough, but it was fun for a while anyway.

Luckily they are a reputable company with the appropriate certification ;)

We have a fortnightly wheelie bin collection and mine gets pretty hefty. Only once have I noticed them struggle and nearly question it though. The guy went to move it, stalled as it was heavier than he expected, he looked under the lid, shrugged and hauled it to the bin lorry. I did wonder what was going to happen though. Once I missed putting the bin out. During the pandemic and the household waste centres were closed. I found a local company who would empty your wheelie bin for £20, so I called them, paid over the phone and felt happy it was going to be sorted. I expected said company to turn up with a bin lorry, but no, it was a van, not only was it a van, but the guy driving the van opened the wheelie bin and took out each bag one by one and placed into the van. Horrific. Clearly massive nappies on display, some prints too. But he just got on with it and drove away ... ugh.

The best success I had over the years of dating was just being honest about not only needing nappies, but LIKING nappies, fairly early on - obviously as you can't slip into bed and then spring it. The only time I've ever been thrown in my life, was when I started dated someone and we had one of those early relationship very late (very long) phone calls. This was someone I hadn't yet shared a bed with but we got onto the subject of fetishes, likes and dislikes. She went first and said "the only thing I don't like is adult baby boys", which threw me a bit, it was random and no one has ever said it that way. We talked a few mins longer and she said the same again. The relationship didn't really go far, I was thrown, but even now 15 years or so later, I often look back and wonder why that came up - "what about adult baby girls?" is one thing that comes to mind, was she trying to tell me something without telling me? Let's face it, it really is not an easy fetish to bring up, hence this thread. And yes, it still prays on my mind all this time later. So, just be honest.

In the UK at least you'd stand out a mile - too many people, conformist people in small areas.

On first look, I thought it was a thistle; https://www.scotsman.com/whats-on/arts-and-entertainment/why-thistle-national-emblem-scotland-1470743 However, even if it's a poppy seed head I still don't see the issue, many gardens have them in right now this time of year.

Plenty at ABU UK; https://uk.abuniverse.com/product/bdy/

Agreed - the design is brilliant, but the cloth backing and the tapes are not. I've stuck with normal plastic backed nappies after giving these a go - I think these are fine for playtime / messing around in or just general ABDL play, but they are nowhere near as good as plastic backed for someone who wets the bed most nights. They remind me of the reason I ditched Tena years ago when they switched to cloth.

It's a great question @Little Sherri, generally it doesn't happen much these days, probably a mixture of busy lifestyles and waning desires as we approach mid-40s with so much going on. But when it does happen, it's normally spontaneous and during the day time, if I haven't disrobed already I get a "take everything off" command. So yes for me, removing a nappy is like removing a sock or any other underwear. Many years ago I did try to bring the nappy into play but got shot down. It doesn't work for her so I don't force the issue, I'm appreciative that my "at home" underwear choice is tolerated outside of night time!

So these are interesting. Having worn 2 now, I do like the design, but I don't like the cloth - never been a cloth disposable fan, but whilst they hold loads and just seem to keep on soaking up, I felt I had to keep adjusting to tighten at the waist, which is a typical cloth trait for me and annoying. I'll stick to PeekABUs or Simple Ultra - prefer the plastic backing. But these certainly do look the part - top marks on that count.

Tried my first one tonight, although I prefer plastic backed as that's what I grew up with, I was curious ... then imagine my annoyance when I ripped off the top left hand panel ... ARGH! I gorilla taped it on so as not to waste it, irritating though. I only ever seem to rip the sides off ABU nappies, never happens with Tykables or Rearz etc. Maybe I'm too heavy handed!?

I absolutely have this fantasy, whether it's something to really happen or not I'm unsure about, but it's a great fantasy. There are some seriously good stories on this forum about it.

Just reading the last couple of days of posts here made me chuckle ... just 3 hours ago, my wife paused the film I was watching. I moaned and she explained she needed a wee. I groaned. She then said "not all of us wear nappies" and walked off. I was stunned. I've worn at night all my life, but like many have expanded to wearing during the day, 24/7 since the start of pandemic, but this was pretty much the first time she acknowledged that she must know I never visit the loo ...

Talking of loud, I did something for the first time ever today - I've been wearing 24/7 as I've said before since the first lockdown, but as I've been going to the office once or twice a week recently, I've had to give up on those days; I don't have a large frame and I generally wear clothes that fit closely, so turning up in anything over-sized would look odd, it looks odd on me anyway. But anyway, I woke up, wet, par for the course most mornings, threw shorts on and a t-shirt, said bye to the family and settled down in my study ... ARGH ... I'd left my laptop charger in the office from the day before and as I'd been working for 4 hours the night before in the lounge, had chewed through much of my battery. So, I did something I've never done, swapped shorts for jeans and went to the office. I left my jeans low so they weren't pulled up (looked slovenly, but hid everything well enough), put my trainers on and a hoodie, jumped in the car for 10 mins, walked in, got my lead, walked out and back home. The office was fairly quiet anyway, but still, it was a huge first for me and I just felt like everyone could see me. In my mind, I may as well have just walked in wearing only my nappy, it was an ABU Peekabu, I could hear it in my head, I could see it without jeans, I just don't think I've EVER felt so self conscious, which probably makes it worse. Anyway, back home, jeans off, shorts on, spent the rest of the day merrily wearing that nappy that in my head EVERYONE HAD SEEN ME IN!

I think I've said this elsewhere, but I have made a Tykables Camelot last 24 hours. Granted I had the house to myself so I could "waddle" away unobserved, but the one thing that put me off was the overwhelming stench of ammonia. Even when I did one near to 24 hours (it was clean the night before, then changed just before bed the next night), even that was too ammonia like for me as well. Maybe it's the make up of my bodily fluids, but I can't go more than 12 hours personally. 2 nappies per day suits me fine - I've gone back to ABU Peekabu for this purpose as they are VERY slim, very comfortable and ridiculously absorbent.

I once had a few dates with someone who worked in a care home, she was my age, but refused to call them nappies. She had no issue with me wearing and messing around with them, but to her they were "pads". That seems to be the term most used here. Pads. What a crap, depressing term that is. Love it! It's another annoyance of mine.

There is this in London: http://adult-baby-club.com/Home.htm Personally not my cup of tea, but these things do exist.

Yep. I've stayed here a few times; https://www.melia.com/en/hotels/united-kingdom/london/me-london/index.htm - I have asked in advance and they are happy to offer extra mattress protection.

Exactly like you @Little Sherri, as new nappy designs have come out over the years I've been brave enough to buy them, but I've always tested the water. Over the last 9 or so years I've gone from plain plastic backed Tena Maxi, when that's pretty much all there really was that I was aware of, to discovering ABU, then Rearz and Tykables etc. I think my first printed nappy was an ABU one. I left one out ready to change into and had a comment something like "bloody hell, don't you feel ridiculous wearing those with the children's pictures" or something (I think it was ABU Cushies) and I muttered something about wanting to try different brands etc., nothing more was said. Since then, I've progressed to trying everything that exists and now even though (like you) I've had conversations with my wife whilst I'm wearing nothing but a nappy, I will make sure if that's going to happen then I'll wear something mostly white (ABU Peakabo is my go-to right now). I did order some pink plastic pants and nothing was said about those and genuinely I only ordered pink as nothing else was available in white - which I do prefer. The first time I wore a nappy and onesie (snap crotch vest thing) in front of her I was very self aware, but nothing was said and we had an adult conversation. But I could never wear a non-plain onesie, as much as I'd love to, I don't think that would go down well. Last week though we were on holiday and having got back to our holiday cottage after 7 hours of hiking, I showered and changed and got "ready for bed" (the 24/7 thing won't fly in my house, it's a no in front of other people, so I'm respecting that). But we were cooking in the cottage and didn't have any rice, so my wife, who was also in PJs asked me if I'd drive up to the local shop to get some. I'm wearing thin shorts, a thin t-shirt, thick Tykables and plastic pants. I said "like this?" and she was like "yes you're fine, don't worry". So off I plodded in shorts that I didn't think a good job of hiding what I was wearing, smelling of talc. I was actually kind of excited, but that's another thread ...