Mark84

Buntewindle made a Christmas themed diaper 6-7 years ago. I don’t really see the necessity of any holiday themed diaper. I kind of feel like most ABDL diaper companies have a hard enough time keeping their inventory stocked that doing a limited run type diaper like that wouldn’t really be worth it. Just my two cents.

For the sake of clarification, I don’t wear 24/7. We have an agreement for when and how often I actually wear diapers - usually just for special occasions. And that’s great, I’m so grateful to her for finding a compromise. As I mentioned, I would feel like I was being selfish by asking her to diaper me, so I’m not going to do that, because I don’t want her to feel that I’m taking for granted that she has found a way to meet me half way. But, yes, I completely agree.

Yeah, I don’t want to push my wife, either. She just became comfortable enough to be around me when I’m wearing diapers about a year ago. I know that’s a big deal, and I would feel incredibly selfish asking her to diaper me or change me (which, in part, I feel isn’t as big a deal as it might be for some spouses/partners because I don’t use my diapers). She knows that I would like her to do it, so I don’t think I will ask her to, but last year the first time I wore in front of her, she had said something to the effect of wanting “to be involved” or “participate” and I didn’t want to assume that she meant diapering me. But I never just asked her what she meant, so it came and went without me knowing. She may have just meant that she wanted to show me that she loves me even if I’m wearing diapers, but not that she wants to put me in them.

Have you ever had your vanilla partner diaper you or change your diaper? What was it like the first time? Was it everything you thought/hoped it would be? Was it weird for them? Was it weird for you? Mostly asking out of curiosity, but, also because I would love to have my wife diaper me. Part of me feels like I would love it, but part of me feels like it would end up being really weird.

I’ve gone as long as 2.5 years without wearing diapers, but I wouldn’t say that I didn’t want to wear them during that time.

So, I won a Twitter contest from Rearz and they’re sending me an adult-sized pacifier. I’m primarily a DL, but I have what I’d call AB “curiosities.” Either way, I’m pretty excited! ?

I lived with my parents when I first started getting into wearing diapers. I had to wait long stretches of time, but, eventually they’d go on vacation by themselves and I’d have the house to myself for about a week or so. I’d either go to a 24-hour pharmacy that was about 30 minutes from my house and buy some or I'd try to buy some online and time the shipping so they’d arrive the day my parents left or the day after.

Ohhh, that’s right! I never got a chance to try those, mostly because at the time, I was telling myself that I didn’t want babyish diapers, lol.

As was mentioned above, I think Bambino made the first printed ABDL diaper, but unless I’m mistaken, I think ABU was the first to introduce and “all-over” printed ABDL diaper with the Cushiez somewhere around 2009-2010. The first all-over printed diaper I ever tried was the Fabine Teddy. I wear diapers just for relaxation/fun, I don’t use them and it’s not a sexual thing for me. So when I first started buying diapers as an adult I told myself that enjoying wearing diapers was weird enough and I didn’t want “babyish” diapers. My, how the tables have turned! Now I only wear printed diapers! They’re so much more fun!

Now, I never stole diapers (in any condition) because I was terrified of being caught, so I can’t relate to that, but I do empathize to an extent. Having said that, if this, or anything, is taking over your life so much to the point that you can’t control your impulses, you need to seek help. I know that’s hard and may seem harsh, but it far outweighs the potential negatives. And of course they wanted to highlight his arrests and jail time. I’m shocked he agreed to do the show even though they hid his identity.

Has anyone ever gotten diaper rash from the OUTSIDE of their diaper? I’m pretty sure I do on my inner thigh.

Man, everything Tim & Eric do makes me uncomfortable - which is exactly why they do it.

I don’t know about any apps, but I actually just found out tonight that Spotify has all the “Rockabye Baby!” albums that consist lullaby versions of songs by different singers or bands.

I don’t quite get it, though, I suspect something may have been lost in translation?

I’m glad! My wife also requested that I keep my diapers covered, at least in bed. I think that’s the most important thing - finding a compromise that works for both of you. From there, who knows, maybe she’ll become accepting of more that you guys can grow into, but it will take time (I’m saying this as much to myself as I am to you).

My wife knew about my desire to wear diapers before we got married. That said, it took a little while before I even wore a diaper in front of her. The unfortunate part of the whole thing, for me, is that I wasn’t completely up-front with her from the get-go. So because of that, she didn’t fully understand why I liked to wear diapers. Just last year I finally realized that I had never explained to her that I’ve wanted to wear diapers since I was about 4 (I’m 33 now). I gave her a brief (no pun intended) history about many different moments in my life that cemented ABDL into my life. I also had her read up on BitterGrey’s “understanding infantilism” page, which was also very helpful for her (I’m mainly a DL, but I do have some AB tendencies, and I don’t use my diapers). That night I asked her if she would compromise with me find a way for me to wear - I had asked her a handful of times throughout our first year of marriage and she had always said no. A week later, she presented me with a compromise and I accepted! I never even thought about starting out with just plain, white diapers, but, I did show her pictures of the diapers I wanted (Tykables Overnights, Rearz Safari, and ABU Kiddo). She asked me why those diapers and I told her because I liked diapers that looked like diapers babies wore when I was a kid. She was okay with it, though, I know it still wasn’t easy for her. But I know she did it for me because she wanted me to know that she loves me no matter what - even if I like to wear diapers. As others have said, openness and honesty are the key.

It really is

Tykables Overnights, Rearz Safari, Abu Little Paws are all great and very thick when dry.

Really curious to know the back story about how this video came together. I mean, I’d guess if the director is an ABDL, the artist would have known?

I almost always wore diapers as a coping mechanism. Things weren’t going the way I wanted them to in life? I’d buy some diapers. Didn’t get a promotion? Girlfriend broke up with me? Diapers. Since I’ve been married and my wife and I found a compromise (she has slowly come to accept, if not embrace, my enjoyment of wearing diapers), I only wear them around positive events, like my birthday, and I love that she thought of that! I think it’s way better, for those of us who only wear occasionally, to connect it to positive things, rather than negative.

I used to dream about Jean Grey (Famke Janssen) from the first three X-Men movies putting me in diapers and babying me. Sarah Walker (Yvonne Strahovski) from CHUCK.

No matter how terrifying it seems, opening up is the best thing you could do, even if it doesn’t have the results that you hope and wish for. For me, I had reached a point in my life where I decided that I was never going to tell any friends, family, or girlfriend. That all changed 3 months into my engagement with my, now, wife. Long story short, she asked me if I knew that there were people who liked to wear diapers and dress and act like babies; in that moment I knew I needed to tell her. It was incredibly difficult for me to actually get the words out, but when I did, she only reaffirmed her love for me. Admittedly from there, it’s taken a long time - nearly two years for her to get to point where she was comfortable (and understood) with me wearing. I truly hope that if you can muster up the strength to tell her, that you have similar results. One last thing, I have a hard time understanding/believing that you secretly wear around her without her knowing. If you’ve worn diapers around her, I feel like she may already know?

Get this feeling in the pit of your stomach when you put a diaper on for the first time in a long time? Pure exhilaration. I discovered today that I get that same feeling when I smelled some Pampers baby fresh wipes that were in my wife’s car (she nannies from time to time).

My apologies!

How is that a “basic cheap white disposable?” There are clearly colored shapes on the white part and the sides are purple.