SoggySoCal

Almost got caught last night by my younger brother. We’re on a vacation in Moab and we are staying at an Airbnb. After a fun day on the trails we hit the pool. After that we were just going to chill at the house before bed so I figured I could pad up since it would only be an hour or so before bedtime. As I was putting my PeakABU on in my room my brother started to open my bedroom door to be funny and show me his Borat mankini. I was able to close the door with my foot before he got it open enough to see anything. I told him I was getting dressed and would be out in a second. Could have been quite the show had the bed been further from the door.

My mother and younger brother found my stash in my closet at 19. It was brought up at the dinner table, but I had no answer for them. I tossed everything the next day. It was only brought up about a week later by my mom who wanted to know where all my diapers went so she could give on as a gag gift for a friends birthday. I just told her I threw everything out and that was the end of it. I actually quit wearing for about a year and a half after that. I was 28 the second time I got caught. I was visiting my mom at her house and took off my night time diaper (well used M4) and like I normally did I tucked it under my bed sheets while I took a shower. Normally I grab it on the way out and toss it in the bin, but I forgot for whatever reason. She found it a day later after it started to stink up the room. She didn’t know what to make of it. She actually asked my brother if he was playing a joke on me a put a diaper in my bed. She didn’t ask me about it until the following week when I saw her again. I lied and said it wasn’t mine. However, later that day I came clean about everything and she was okey with it. A little surprised, but after I explained it she was of the impression it wasn’t hurting anyone so whatever floats your boat. Amazingly she had completely forgotten about finding my diapers in my closet at 19. I try to be discrete around her and she has never brought it up since. I did get busted a few months after coming clean. I woke up in the middle of the night in a soaked SDK and decided to change into a fresh one to avoid a possible leak. After changing I was a little parched so I went into the kitchen to grab a glass of water. It was just me and her at the house and it was around 0200 so I figured it would be safe. So I’m in the completely dark kitchen filling my glass when my mom pops around the corner and asked why I’m up. So I’m standing there wearing only a SDK and the only light source is from the fridge water despencer which is right at waist height. I just grabbed my glass and walked past he and said I was thirsty and that was the end of that. I was glad I had just changed though. Not quite sure why but being soaked vs dry seems like a worse way to get busted.

Wearing a ABU Simple Ultra. Going to change into a SDK or Bellissimo shortly.

I’m not recounting, but this was it the start of the year. I’ve used 371 diapers since then. Only restock has been a case of Cloudee, a 10 pack of Little Rawrs and I have a case of 80 on the way. Once ABU gets mediums back in stock I’m do for a restock on PeakABU’s, Kiddos and SDK’s. Inventory check. Not including the Peak ABU I just put on. I have.  Bambino: 39 Teddy, 245 Bellisimo and 10 Magnifico. ABU: 31 Little Paws, 18 Space, 106 Peak ABU’s, 45 Simple Ultras, 83 Cushies, 16 SDK V1’s, 235 SDK V2’s, 166 Kiddos, 95 Preschools, 16 Bair Bums. Rearz: 14 Safari Snuggies: 15 OG Waddler Overnight with adhesive tapes, 24 Galactic. Crinklez: 15 Original design, 49 Astronaut 37 Molicare Super Plus 44 Abena M4 69 Tena Slip Max 6 Depend Maximum Protection 134 Goodnights LX

These are starting to grow on me. This is the first diaper with none adhesive tapes that actual work for me. Now that I’ve figured out their capacity I haven’t had any problems. Super cute, great quality and the fit for me is excellent. I’ll be getting more.

These do seem to be more prone to press out than some of the other diapers in my collection. I know not to expect to get advertised capacity out of any diaper. I just think these are a little further off than some others. I wore a Simple Ultra right after I wore the Little Rawrs and that was 2.5 pounds heavier when I took it off before work and it still had room for more. Both are advertised around the same capacity and it has been my experience that the Simple Ultra/PeakABU’s simply outperform the little Rawrs by a notable amount.

Just wore my second one last night. Drank less and was full by morning with only a slight leak. I do like how they swell, but I think the 6000ml capacity is optimistic. Diaper was five pounds when I took it off with no dry areas left.

I tried my first one last night. Went heavy on fluid intake before bed and ended up leaking quite a bit. My peak ABU’s do better in that department. It was comfortable and swells nicely. I’m still not a fan of the hook and loop tabs. I like them but I doubt I’ll order more.

We know that Depends are garbage, but I think to most people Depend is what most people think of when they reference adult diapers. Kinda how Pull Ups has become the generic reference to pull on style training pants. These people were obviously just joking anyway.

Saw it today. My Peak ABU held strong. Funny part is while standing in line for concessions a couple in front of me was talking about how long the movie was and jokingly brought up needing to wear some Depends to get through it. If only they knew.

Under normal conditions my neighbors can only see into my backyard if they come up to the wall. I’m also on a corner lot so I only have one neighbor on the side and one to the rear. The neighbors house to the rear is oriented perpendicular to mine and rear of their garage faces my yard blocking any view they would have from the house. And both neighbors are retirees and old. I do a quick scan before I go out, but unless someone does something strange like going on a roof I should be fine.

Never from traditional use. I’ve had it happen after wearing in my pool and then sinning down on a hard surface afterwards.

I try to as discreet as possible. Work and some larger friend/family gatherings are the only time I’m not diapered. Once I realized everyone is busy with there own affairs and not at all interested with my choice of underwear it took the anxiety out of wearing in public. I’d almost say I’ve gotten to comfortable at home. I’ll walk out in my back yard in nothing but a diaper without hesitation. I have a reasonable expectation to a fair amount of privacy back there. That false comfort level probably got me busted my my neighbors solar panel installer a few weeks ago. The initial installers had finished with the install so I went out back to catch some sun on my patio swing. Right after I walk inside after about an hour or so chilling on the swing I see some dude walking on my neighbors roof. I think I timed it perfectly, but can’t say for sure. If the dude can spot me from a rooftop 200 feet away as I lay motionless while he is inspecting a solar install than it is what it is.

I think the OP just wants to know how to get the poop smell off his skin after messing. Is so, the first line of defense is using a cream to cover any area you think your poop might end up. Shaving down there helps. I also like to use wet wipes to clean up before hoping in the shower. Once in the shower use cold water and soap to rinse the area. Cold water keeps the pores closed so you don’t mash your poop in them while cleaning up. Once I’ve done a good job there I go to hot water to open the pores up and just use the shower head to rinse the area. Even with all the prior cleaning this is when I usually get a secondary poop smell as the hot water gets the remaining poop from you pores. This is what has given me the best results.

It’s not working for me.

So has luck been your side? Crisis averted?

The only reason my diaper comes off is because I have to go to work or a similar social gathering, and when it’s time for a change. My post playtime diaper guilt went away within a few months of being able to acquire and use diapers.

Can’t say I have had this happen. If time and my schedule permits I’m going to be diapered.

Not that worried about it. I’m not trying to flaunt it. If some plastic shows from time to time so be it.

I was pulling weeds in my front yard today. Had clothes on, but my diaper kept peaking out my jeans while bending over. Might have got busted by a couple taking a walk. I doubt they were paying too much attention, but they caught me off guard and I was exposed a bit. Even if they saw it I doubt they would immediately jump to the diaper conclusion. Cleaning while diapered has it risks I guess. At least outside.

1. When I had a messy blow out as I pulled into my driveway. Had been holding it in while at the store and let loose as I made it home. Way more that I expected and my kiddo couldn’t take it in the position I was in. I’m not incon so it was kinda funny to me have that happen. 2. The strangest would be when I wore to bed while sharing a hotel room with my mom. We each had our own bed and she was none the wiser to my knowledge but it was awkward and I was a little self conscious about the crinkles as I moved in bed. Fortunately SDK’s aren’t too bad for crinkle factor. She knows about my diapers but I don’t flaunt them around her. 3. This past Sunday I had to try on a rental tux for my brothers wedding. I had been fitted unpadded a few weeks prior. When the tux was ready my plan was to just pick it up and go, but the dude wanted me to try it on to make sure everything fit correctly. I had on a kiddo diaper with one good wetting under its belt so it wasn’t too swollen. He had me put on the pants, undershirt and shoes and then come out to try on the vest and jacket. I tucked in the shirt, not sure if the light green and white print over the top of the pants was visible through the white shirt. I couldn’t see it in the mirror. My crotch did look a little swollen in the mirror. He asked me how everything was fitting while I was changing. I said good and then came straight out and tried on the vest and jacket. Didn’t really give him much opportunity to analyze the outfit and kept him occupied with chit chat. Doubt he noticed. If he did, so be it.

I use the north shore wipes for messy diapers changes. If I’m staying home I’ll use about three wipes per change and then diaper back up. If I’m headed out I still use wipes to clean up, but I also hop in the shower after.

I agree that you will not hit the claimed absorbency volume, but I think the OP just wants his diaper wet from front to back with no dry spots. I regularly manage to do the latter.

Like everyone else has said it requires some orientation changes and controlled smaller wetings once the diaper is almost at capacity. That is if you don’t want leaks. At home this is easy, but I would not attempt this out in public unless you’re prepared to possibly have some wet pants.

I only kept track of how many diapers I used. 755