My family came across sometimes history on the computer or depends I hid a backpack in my room I use to print out stories and pictures back in the days of dial up. My parents thought it was gross and weird and asked me why I would like something like that.
I was shamed... I learned to hide it all the time sadly It took a while to come out to my spouse, years...,I had Hidden a few packages of abena and molicares in my attic and I was in fear of being discovered. one day I finally opened up to her and was accepted by her not everyone can be accepting