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I am 61 and yes the need to go gets worse as you age. add in any physical problems like BPH, diabetes. even some medications and the urge becomes worse. Them i have at least two types of neuropathy and am on diuretics for edema. I no longer worry about having a problem at my age. You do need to see a doctor and get checked for BPH and diabetes and to just get a good all around checkup. If you have had a leaking problem before as you age your muscles get weaker and the old problem may return. Diapers are the best way to exercise the muscles just start holding till you can not any more. if you are protected you will be able to do this more often.

In the US there are some and i was one of them many years ago. most Americans are to stuck up to even go to a nude beach. You have never been to a nude beach in Europe that are over run with kids i don't know what is worse.

i tend to agree with neurological the vagus nerve controls all these. tends to be pretty painful. this also sounds like the vagus nerve and may be a spasm of the nerve. Have you tried different temperatures of water. for me cold water is worse. A take a medication called Gabapentin for my neuropathy's and this seems to help with the symptoms i have like yours.

There are safe places to show off. Many nude beaches have a fetish hangout area. Even the regular nude beach is alright if you are just planing to get undressed to nude and don't care if someone sees that you are taking off a diaper instead of regular underwear. Just don't do it if kids are around. Then there is burning man festival where anything goes. I have done them all.

Under HIPAA the fact you were diapers for ANY reason up to you.. If it came out that you wear diapers the reason is still covered under HIPAA and you do not have to give a reason to anyone that you don't want to. If someone out side the medical profession finds out you can lie without them being able to prove you are. And you can question where they got the information in court if necessary. In court the judge would not even allow them to question you about if the information is true or not. If they don't get the idea bring up the laws under HIPAA In my case i don't need diapers but have urgency so they do come in handy. being a diabetic and having to pee often does not help ether. I have at least two types of neuropathy and if you do a google search "neuropathy incontinence" you find that you can have incontinence caused by neuropathy. For me its not a problem as its a great cover for being a DL. By the way i wear depends underwear to my doctors when i go in for treatment and if they ask i tell them its because of the urgency problem.

I loved to bait the Nigerians but they finely gave up on trying to scam me and i have not got anything from them in over a year. I could never get a photo of one in a diaper and i tried for years

I am on a c-pap and if you have sleep apnea use it as it beats a heart attack I was DXed just before i had my heart attack and got my c-pap while in the hospital recovering. its one of those this you can't live without if you have apnea. I have never wet while using it because of sleep apnea. But my other medical problems like insomnia, neuropathy. and diabetes cause me to have to get up 4 to 6 times a night. Its easier to just wear a diapers with stuffer and just go when i need to without even opening my eyes. Most people that bedwet because of sleep apnea stop when they go on a c-pap.

i used attends for many years till they changed to the cheap version right after paper pak sold out to later owners. i always liked was that they fit me perfect and being wider where needed i could put more stuffers in them. Now there is nothing really good all that is left has one problem or another. If i had a few million dollars i could grab a large share of the market with no problem.

Urgency can be caused by neuropathy and there are about 100 different types of neuropathy http://www.neuropathy.org/site/PageServer?pagename=About_NeuropathyTypes For me if i am driving or traveling i am alright till i get out of the car and stand up. Then sometime its i got to go right NOW. When you are some place where you don't know where the nearest restroom is and there is no time to look for one its easy to understand why a diaper is a good way to cope with the problem. The problem is neurological type Urgency is very hard to DX and most doctors will just try the meds that are used to treat overactive bladder, In many cases these medications will not help. They may try Bladder training Fluid and diet management.(if you are a diabetic this will cause problems) Or tricyclic antidepressants but for men these may cause BPH and make the problem worse. Surgery. to tighten the bladder muscles, Artificial urinary sphincter, these would work if its a muscle problem but not a nerve problem . think and research before you let your doctor go off half cocked and tries something that will make things worse

Due to insomnia, neuropathy, diabetes and sleep apnea i have to get up and pee 4 to 5 times a night. and if i do get out of bed it takes me 30 to 45 minutes to get back to sleep. as just by getting up to go i am then wide awake. But if i just wet my diaper i can get back to sleep in 5 to 10 minutes and don't even have to move except to roll over. I am hooked on using my diaper instead of getting up now as i do sleep a lot better.

I use to hang out at the fetish area of nude beaches. Just put out a towel and soak up the sun and diaper. You run into some strange people there. but they don't care as they are into there own fedishes. And you could tell that they noticed when you watched there eyes and where they looked while they were talking with you.

Where i live two thrift stores have disposable for sale for $3 a bag but most of the time they are mediums. I buy these and cut the tapes off and punch the backing with a paper punch. These make great booster pads and i have worn as many as 4 in a depends max or attends. Sometimes i even wear them that thick and don't care if anyone can tell. One time someone did notice but was a AB/DL himself. And knew i had to be a DL because it was so thick.

I am going to use the Wounded Warrior Security Program if i have to fly because i carry my medications and and c-pap equipment along with my carry on. I will not check my meds or c-pap period and its exempt from the one carry on rule. With me using this program i don't think they will worry about the diaper. http://www.marineparents.com/announcements/TSA-veterans.asp

When the company is run by a MBA. You know when you hear of a MBA running a company that the bottom line is company priority. MBA = Monkeys, Baboons, Apes. i still have no understanding of what the collages that teach MBA are thinking when the graduate these idiots

Depressed ??? no Stuck in a rut yes. Been through that doing a boring job that did not lead to future i wanted.. Is your trade one you could become your own boss?? I am 60 and have been disabled since 2002. As soon as i can finish clearing my fathers estate i plan to go back to collage.(i am the executor of the estate) I don't need to go back to collage for work but being disabled is boring boring boring. This time collage will be for training in something i have always wanted to do (gunsmithing) If after i finish it i can make a living at it good, If not it will give me something i enjoy as a hobby that may give me a few extra $ to help on top of my disability checks. I have about 10 years of collage over the last 45 years but never got a degree.

I have never been able to lose control using a tens unit but once started the flow becomes stronger if you find the right spot. The only time i have ever burned my self was when i put the electrodes to close together. I got my tens unit at a thrift store for $5 and i don't think many people know what they are or how to use them mine was brand new and still in the shipping box. I believe someone on medicare was given a script and never given instructions on how to use it so they never did. a couple weeks later i got a box of over 50 pad pairs still sealed. I have Fibromyalgia so mine gets used

I got a cheese pizza one time at a store and later looked at the ingredient list. Cheese was not on the ingredient list.

I got a cheese pizza one time at a store and later looked at the ingredient list. Cheese was not on the ingredient list.

I will give everyone one real good hint, stay away for anything with high fructose corn sugar the body does not need to process it and its so close to glucose that its a problem. Its not near as sweet as sugar so they use a lot more of it. Also you need to learn the right and wrong types of carbs. Some starches are just as bad as sugar. The best way to see how any carb is going to react with you is to fast for 4 to 6 hours then eat just the food you want to test. wait 2 hours and do a finger stick test. everyone has different bacteria in there gut to digest food and this to a part controls how much and how fast your body processes carbs. Using insulin alone to control your blood sugar is dangerous, Insulin is a toxic substance in amounts higher then you need to control your BS. So the less insulin you need because you are controlling your carb intake the longer you will live. i have been working with diabetics for 40 years as a EMT and am my self now a diabetic (ATC went to almost 8 before i got it under control with diet) I am glad you put it that way. once you are a diabetic you stay a diabetic no mater how you treat it, Weight loss, dietary control or medication are not cures they are controls. The only type diabetic that goes away is diabetes during pregnancy that resolves at the end of the pregnancy. And most likely they will become diabetics in another 10 to 20 years if they do not watch weight and diet.

What really get to me is the falsehoods about SSI/SSD You can earn up to $700.00 a month while collecting disability. I could never hold a regular job but i do buy idems from thrift stores and resell them on e-bay or craigslist. for 2 to 5 times what i got them for. I maybe average $200 a month over a year doing this reselling . The people complaining about Stanley have no idea what the real rules on disability are because they never looked the rules up to find out. Because the government has made it very hard to look up things like what money you can make and how you can make it.

i have always enjoyed changing wet diapers on girlfriends but alas they were always hard to find.

i don't know how the Incontinent group would place me as i am not incontinent but wear in part for medical reasons. i have severe sleep disorders that cause me a lot of problems. along with diabetes. I have to get up to pee every 2 hours at night and if i do get out of bed and go to the bathroom i usually take about two hours to get back to sleep.. Wearing a good stuffed diaper i wake, feel i need to go, and just let go and roll over and go right back to sleep within minutes I have got many many good nights sleep because i did not have to get out of bed that without diapers i would not have got.

Sleeping on your side is the most common cause of leaking. putting plastic pants over the disposable helps and a tight pair if underwear over the disposable then the plastic pants helps even more. ""It all started when I was starting to get up about 3 times a night to use the restroom."" Get checked for diabetes its one of the common causes for having to get up repeatedly at night . UTIs can also cause this problem and if you restrict you fluid intake that can make it worse because the bladder gets irritated and tried to flush the infection. i have diabetes and sometimes wake up 4 to 5 times a night to go. I also have a couple sleep disorders plus fibromyalgia and sleep apnea that make it hard to get back to sleep if i get up. so i just wear and roll over a go and go right back to sleep

If the worry about leaking is part of the problem get a water proof mattress cover and a mattress pad so it will not soak the mattress just your sheet and mattress pad. Then if it leak so what just change the sheet and pad.

I wear plastic pants over the cheaper disposable diapers and its a must when you put a couple stuffers in even the good older attends Many disposable diapers can and will split across your bottom and dump the filler down your leg. With the plastic pants you do not have to worry when doing this like getting into and out of cars that the diaper will split. I wear tarry undies over the disposable with 2 stuffers and plastic pants over the tarry undies at night so that i can pee at least 3 times without leaking.