foreverdl

Yes I would think the state or ins will not give a crap if you pee the bed. If you can't control your pee and bowels out of the home you may have a slim chance to get some help.. But depending on the state you are in. Some state will pay for the cheap stuff,.. But I also agree with FretaBWet check in in new and let us know a little bit about you..

Well I am unfortunately old so I am on Medicare . if I had been disabled and not able to work for 40 plus yrs I may have had the better state medical . I was not disabled till I worked my back and neck to a horrible painful state, for rest of my life. So morphine is one of my normals . I worked to do what my bosses wanted and I pushed my back way too far. So I get to buy my stuff from the second hand stores . I get the money up once in a while to buy new stuff ??? But when the stuff on the DD site is for sale or free, the people here aren't able to ship it, due to there being more disabled than I am. And diapers are in big boxes and costly to ship. But thats life.. Ins etc is a depressing part of life.

I am still trying to master this, I don't chew gum because my teeth are gone due to cancer.But it is a hard thing to pee and walk. I will start to pee then walk and it will work, but stops or slows to a dribble , and I will stand still for a couple seconds then get started . I am hopeful this will keep getting easier . I has already over time. A few years ago I couldn't at all. I may contribute it to my relaxing more,? not sure.

I was told by my Dr that here at least in Ca Medicare will Not cover them. At least for urine . Maybe if you were fecal. Medicare is fairly good, with our secondary . In other states you may get diapers covered. But like Cruiser 03 says they will be cheap ones.

I have 2 places. a 5 gal bucket with water in it and a very small about 1/2 cup bleach. for my cloth. I have very cheap small trash bags I put my daily disposable diapers in , ai tie it up and toss it in the outside trash can.

I made a comment on this thread a few days ago But some of the comments I read gave me more Ideas , so I thank you. This is why we do all of this. Us old farts can learn old new tricks. See. I got soo used to my second hand stuff, that I was cutting off the trim and trusting one XL diaper to hold up all of my several layers . Well since I do have a large assortment of LG and MED, I am able to tape them up one at a time, and I have soo much less problem keeping it all up when I am soaked and 5 pounds heavy a diaper in the morning .

I like the Hypnosis files from these guys and others also, they have been helping me with the strong mental blocks I have from growing up where peeing beds pants etc are taboo , files from sarnoga, champtheotter, there are a lot of good files on warpmymind.com and others for help in many other issues . Sarnoga uses his own voice and he has a nice one. and champtheotter also has a good voice, both nice. If you want other things FEM etc they have a lot.

I have the 40 yr old tens and a few yrs ago I got one of the big tens type unit they used to use at the chiropractors,,, from eBay. I got it cheap about $40. I had to do repairs on it , it wasn't working when I bought it. But anyhow this unit is soo much more powerful that the little ones they sell, the small ones have to be safe enough for the public to use. Anyhow ,I made a 2 ft mat ( from a static Mat) so to speak with the real duct tape metal tape and I took an old metal butt vibrator that died a long time ago. I attached the big tens wires to the back pad and then to the metal butt insert, Now I haven't used it more than a few times, but I think it will work since laying on the back pad covers the whole back. This is reusable without paying for the stick pads over and over. Just be careful because the big 30 yr old unit is made to be used by a Dr so they don't have the limits built in like the pocket sized ones. I did do some experiments with putting a pad on the front above the crotch where you push on the bladder to make you pee. But I think it's better back and butt. I only have about the price of the nice butt probe in my setup . But I do think the list of parts that DAQ listed is a really good idea . If you don't want to take a chance on getting a non working large unit that needs repair, I had to replace a relay and do some soldering in mine.

I commented already , on this thread. But to add, my biggest thing back then and some part even now it pee and plastic and just laying in pe soaked in pee and sloshing around on a plastic mattress soaked in pee and just hump and enjoying it till I run out of time or I complete ........But I was sorry I didn't pee the bed at age 10 because I would have been able to sleep in the big king size bed my brother and step brother shared. That mattress was soooo good smelling and soaked all of the time I would get un dressed and play in the wet blankets and I was in Heaven .

I have a crib mattress I use at nite for my enema, what I do for a distraction is I pee a little on it and hump it. I won't go into details on this thread. I would talk more on a MM if you want. But I hav the mattress covers with a good plastic backing and I put it on with the plastic side up, its so nice, I use lube Also. But, I have a invocare hospital mattress also I will use for pee play, face down of course ....

I wear 3-4 diapers inside of an XL cheapest I can get. I trim off al of the tab paper on the front and back of each of the inside ones, I then just lay them down, I take one at a time and use sharp good pair of sizers and cut 2" slats down the bottom middle of each , just leave a 1" of diaper backing between each cut. And one by one stack them up, and I do add a very thin cotton cloth, (I use a 24" square thin baby blanket ) and make this be the top layer of the diaper. And it will be heavy , so when you get it taped up and on, I use girlly tights and thin almost see though mens underwear with a good elastic top, its to help hold it all up after a 12 hr night of peeing and peeing, it will weigh 5 pounds or more in the morning . I keep doing experiments and welcome any ideas to help hold it all up when I get up and try walking around in the morning , I Love it its a natural leg spreading diaper, and GOOD and Smelly when you take it off if you love the old diaper smells you will love it after 10-12 hrs.

I do appreciate it you trying to help a new person . I for one didn't know it was wrong to read and post in an older thread. I have learned a lot form the old ones. I do look to see if the people on that thread are still posting? or if they haven't posted in 10 yrs, then I may not make a comment . But if I read an old posting and I go and make a new thread of the same thing is this the way we do it? I can see if we want to start a new one up and get new people making comments on the new one. I also am only asking questions about what we should be doing to keep the site running 🏃 🏃‍♀️ smooth. Sorry if I am taking the thread the wrong direction , just wanted to know. Thanks

I think someone that owns the site is against or they were offended by an ABDL BUT that should be that ASS person problem not ours. But I say there Loss.

There's a lot of lawyers that take a case just like this and if you win they will get a part of it. Please don't give up , I would think 🤔 you may be able to get a lot less money up to just do the move to your parents house, then you might be at least in a safe house to go forward with the lawsuits , you maybe able to find a conversant place for a temporary housing also . Call a welfare to see if they can get you some emergency money, Red Cross may help also.

Is it only ABDL's or are they purging others off the site, I have followed a few people on that site, it sucks either way.

Hey if they want help I'm here?? LOL

Deffently not Approved by OSHA, Now I can see one of the OSHA inspectors wearing that LOL

I have a hard time peeing in any restroom even at home. It has has gotten worse with age in the past 5 years . I just have learned to make sure I have one of my nite rated pull-up on most every day, and carrying extra diapers. I am going the way I want as to peeing in my diaper when my inside is ready, and I don't have any notice of it, I just have to try to regulate the flow,,,,,, so I don't have a flood.. So I do say I have had shy bladder all of my life , as even yrs ago I would do my best to wait till I got home to pee. But back then I could hold my pee....

Way back then I remember the cloth diapers just barely because I wore them as a toddler also, the thing is I don't remember much about the plastic or latex pants, I think we walked around with only a diaper a lot, but that would mean a lot more diaper changes, because of leaks, but we didn't have carpet , I do remember hard floors, so must have been hard wood, that's what the houses in the east were from back then.

I get almost all of my disposable diapers form second hand and church sales, yard sales etc, so as cheap as possible . I build my nites stuff, with layers of cheap stuff . I use a cloth insert, and I wash about twice a week . So I do it as cheap as I think 🤔 💭 I can. I am open to ideas anytime ..

You can make a complaint to the administrator . And who ever has been hateful to you,, block them. I have only blocked a couple people . When you block a person you will not see anymore of there comments at all. It's a last resort to block in my opinion . But we do what we have to do, because this site is to be a safe place, and when someone is being hateful you do what you need to do.

I have to add to my other comment . This is soooo great. I was driving the cart at the store today and it was like an oh shit,,,,,,, I haven't peed very much in public , well I had to pee and it was a few seconds notice and I was peeing, I use the sit down driving ones or my own walking cart also. But anyhow I was driving and my wife walking , and I was almost panicked . I got all warm in my diaper, it was sooo nice, and warm. I didn't leak so that was very cool. I ended up finishing it full at home. But that's a huge thing I made pee wet diaper in a store,,,, so much progress . I am slowly loosing my pee control . But that's what I want............ This is so much of a breakthrough for me.

I do know I would give it a try. I think it would be fun

I was on a 5 year cycle , but the cancer Dr said I needed to do it because they saw something and had to get pictures . so it was 4 yrs. But it turned out ok. Anyhow I have been diapered my last few times, and they said it was fine just leave it on. And it is something they see all the time.