rubbersheetmike

I woke up with soaked sheets and pjs just like three other times in the last week. I got my disability cheque but had a big bill to pay so ran of of night diapers. But I have a refund for benefits expenses coming this week so will have to head out to the store and buy some new diapers.

Your probably right. I havent been to a pride parade or party for many years but it seemed to be pretty mainstream the last time I was there. Thats good for LGBTQ rights and acceptance but I sometimes wonder if people with fetishes or who don't fit easily into boxes get pushed more to the sidelines by generic gay acceptability? A gay friend of mine recently told me that LGBTQ risks becoming boring as it loses its edge.

I remember the bedwetters cabin. Back when I was young though there werent the kind of protection products there are today. When mom checked the bedwetting box we had to bring at least one extra sleeping bag and they hung the wet sleeping bags and pjs out to dry on a nylon rope behind the cabin every morning. At least the mattresses in the cabin were vinyl covered. But sometimes if it rained during the day the sleeping bags and pjs didn't get fully dry. There were usually a few accidents in the regular cabins and word about them got around the camp really fast. But the guys in the bedwetters or "special needs" cabin were usually treated differently like not being picked for teams. It wasn't fun.

Increased adrenaline from fear or excitement increases urine production. So I don't think the connection between being scared and having accidents is uncommon.

I dont know about getting stressed when I have to pee unless Im not wearing protection and worry that I cant get to a bathroom. Just feeling a full bladder doesnt usually stress me out. But being stressed can make me feel like I have to pee really bad. Being stressed increases adrenaline which can make you have to pee more or even feel desperate to urinate.

I was going back over older posts today and was surprised this topic didnt get more responses. For those of us who grew up bedwetting camping and sleepovers were a big concern. Maybe the memories are just too difficult for lots of people?

I think the laws vary in a lot of places but authorities probably don't want to tell parents how to raise and discipline their kids. While corporal punishments aren't common today in a lot of places they were for a long time. I remember getting picked up by the police when I was younger and listening to an officer tell my parents in the next room not to punish me severely at home. The assumption seemed to be that was what parents would do under the circumstances. But that was decades ago. They might tell parents the same thing today but would they enforce it?

I dont know that I ever described myself as actually gay. More like bisexual and nowdays more like asexual with mixed fantasies. A counselor once told me years ago that whatever your fantasies are more accurately reflect your sexuality than any actual lifestyle or label. I dont find some gay sex acts particularly interesting but once watersports becomes part of it then I get interested. I find hetero penetration sex stimulating with or without watersports though. I met the first guy I got into it with at a dive bar one night when I was in my 20s. He was maybe 10 years older than me and kept buying me beers and after I told him I should stop drinking or I would p*** the bed he said that turned him on and one thing lead to another. Over the years I found it easier to find other guys with these interests so looked more often for that I guess. One guy I used to meet up with showed me the a results of a study showing that about 6 percent of gay and bisexual males are attracted to watersports. I don't know the level for women but I suspect its not as high. I think we have little control over these things and just have to accept ourselves for what we are.

Ive gone both ways over the years. I started off in my teens with hetero relationships and thought that was just normal. But I kept my fetishes mainly to myself and in private. It was actually a guy I met at a bar one night in my early 20s who persuaded me that I could experience my fetishes with others and led me down that path. And I was on the road for years for work mostly staying in motels and had a few encounters mainly with other men even though I dated women at the time. Now Ive been alone for about a decade and I dont really think much about meeting people for sex or relationships. My sex life is mainly a fantasy life - again. I usually fantasize about female scenarios although I work my fetishes into these scenarios which I didnt experience when I was younger. I'm attracted enough to female plumbing that I can't give up on the idea of it. I also fantasize about MTF transsexuals. But I think fondly about some of the guys I met over the years too. My experience was that guys tended to be more open to experimenting with fetishes and sexuality than women who usually focused on relationships. Maybe thats not everybodys experience though.

I actually didnt like wetting the bed before puberty but then started to associate it with erotic stimulation. For the sake of keeping relationships I had to force myself to stop it with prescription meds and cutting down drinking in my 20s. But when it later restarted it bothered me at first until I got used to it.

Neat idea. I wasnt aware of it but wish I knew ahead of time. Maybe I wouldnt have done my usual precautions and just enjoyed.

I like the feeling of wetting my diaper too. If Im out and about and doing chores I avoid it because of the chafing and possible leakage. But if I'm on my way home or at a bar having a couple I sometimes think "why not" and just go. Its a kind of naughty thrill I guess.

My point is mainly that until the last four decades corporal punishment was more common and accepted than today both at home and at school. There was a "spare the rod, spoil the child" attitude that a lot of parents and schools seemed to agree with. Now corporal punishment is mainly banned at least where I live. I think the courts allow light parental corporal punishment but only to a certain point. I think a lot of younger people cant really understand the old culture because they never experienced it in any way.

I use a fitted plastic cover on my mattrass with a fitted absorbing pad and sheets and a lightweight blanket on top of that. When I wet the bed especially without a diaper I just strip everything off and put it all in the plastic hamper until I can get it to the washing machine. I have three changes for my bed. Its a system that usually works for me and not too much work.

No it didnt last. Not a big surprise I guess. She wasnt a big fan of my fetishes and it was partly my fault too because back then I fooled around. What I couldnt get in the relationship I looked for with other people and that never helps a relationship I think.

Interesting incident. I think we always remember our own desparation accidents really well. I remember peeing in my snow pants at a snowmobile race contest when I was in my 20s. We were drinking a lot and I stayed behind to watch our gear when the others with me left to get some food. We were sitting on some wooden planks held up on each end by sturdy plastic crates. I thought of running to the portable toilets but they were a distance away and I didnt want to leave our stuff or give up our bench. So I let it flow into my pants and as much as possible go through the large crack between the planks. My girlfriend at the time was upset when I got home when she found out I wet myself. She wouldnt let me get over it for a couple weeks. And I had to get my stuff washed on my own.

I prefer to be spanked otk with a lather paddle or the back of a hairbrush for misbehaving like wetting my pants or bed without putting on a diaper. I like hard punishment along with verbal scolding. I prefer my cheeks to be candy red when finished but not with welts.

I did it once near the end of my last year in high school. I was a year older than most of the other students because I lost a year in school in grade 10 but thats a long story. We didnt ware uniforms in high school so I was waring jeans. A bunch of us went to a friends place at lunch and partied. I had two classes left that afternoon and was bursting near the end of the second one. I was still stoned and a bit drunk though and was paranoid that I would be caught and suspended or expelled because of the zero tolerance policy. I tried to make it but was in agony and my bladder gave out with about 10 minutes or less left. I shifted to the front of the seat and tried to avoid any splashing sound but once it started it wasnt easy to control although the sense of relief was amazing at least a first. I sat at the back of the classroom near the window to not get noticed and once I finished peeing myself my biggest fear was that the puddle would flow to a nearby desk but luckily it didnt. I waited for the rest of the class to leave after the bell rang and then ran fast to my locker and ducked into a bathroom stall and changed into my track pants that were in my gym bag. I waited to be called to the office the next day but nothing happened.

I dont know if others have this fetish but for years Ive had a fetish for seeing other people have public wetting accidents or incidents. I remember once when waiting in a slow line to get into a heavy metal bar in the 1980s witnessing a very attractive young woman wet herself. And I recall a mate who got very drunk when we were drinking at a dive bar one evening who started to fall asleep at the table and then wet himself like a waterfall onto the floor below. It got us kicked out of the bar. Ive witnessed a few such incidents over the years and store them in my memory where my recollections of these incidents is very clear.

I think your quite young for daytime IC issues unless they are caused by medical issues. I didnt develop daytime urge IC until a few years ago and especially the last four or five years. Pullups are definitely a help and a security factor for me even though Im now on a med. I think it can be caused by other things like medications too. And also can be caused by heavy alcohol use for people with bladder control issues. I dont know for sure but I suspect people who did overage bedwetting when younger might be more likely to have it when their adults. And I read its more common for diabetics too. So I think theres a range of causes. Ive taken medications especially in the past for psychiatric illness that caused it or at least made it worse.

My experience is that pullups are more discreet. Diapers are quite bulky. Fewer people notice pullups and they dont make as much noise. I started wearing them for urge IC although Im on a med now that reduces this. When I wear them and need to use a bathroom I just find a stall and there easy to pull down while standing up. Even though I dont need them as much now I still wear them. I guess its a psychologic attachment or security they create.

As long as theres protection on the bed its not such a hardship. Some people go to a lot of trouble to be completely dry except for the diaper. But it seems to me that washing a sheet and absorbing pad isn't any more work and maybe easier than washing cloth diapers and cleaning rubber or plastic pants. Maybe Im just lazy? Oh well.

Oh to be so young. Back in the old days corporal punishment was pretty common. We got it at home and at school. And sometimes at home because we got it at school. Was it better than todays philosophy that seems to rely on negotiations and reasoning? It was probably cruel and had some bad psychologic impacts. But it was probably effective too. I remember sitting in large classes of maybe 35 to 40 other students at school and you could hear a pin drop in the classroom after the teacher called "Class." Being sent for a reckoning in the principals office was something we avoided after learning the consequences the hard way.

If he knew what he was delivering he probably wasn't too worried. When it happened to me it was a friend from out of town sending me an appliance I asked him to order from work where he could get it for a lot less money. It was a bigger box though and heavier than I realize and I never expected the delivery that early in the morning so I was pretty bleary. And Im hardly ever up before 8:30 in the morning especially since I don't have to get up to go to the bathroom if you know what I mean.

Im not sure the word wetting excites me. When I was younger my parents used to use the words pee and peeing more often, like in "did you pee your bed again" or "when will you ever stop peeing the bed." Maybe because it made me embarassed and bad it has a lot more emotional impact years later.