You can really only tell her the truth and hope for acceptance. Lying will come back bite you at some point, it almost always does.
That said, you can't make her accept it. She either will or won't and if you've been married awhile before now she may view you telling her only now as you not trusting her or worse a long standing lie of onission both of which can be very damaging to a relationship.
My Daddy and I are going glamping next weekend at an animal sanctuary. We rented a two room cabin that is in a big clearing and completely private. Daddy has already started packing the diaper bag, a suitcase of little clothes/toys and one of adult toys. It's going to be a 4 day weekend of Daddy/little fun 💖💖
Medical professionals have seen WAY more unusual things than a diaper with characters on it. Honestly, a patterned diaper wouldn't even crack the top 50 most unusual things for any medical professional.
Steve, not sure that spamming someone with multiple messages within one hour is going to get you a positive outcome. Honestly, more likely to drive someone away as it comes across aggressively desperate.
I'd offer you a list of paid professionals willing to contract for your desired fantasy and/or encourage you to connect with your local ABDL community to find someone willing to fulfill your fantasy.
My Daddy stroking my hair, kissing me on the forehead, patting His lap, Him pulling out a bottle, kids book or diaper, well . . . . I guess most things my Daddy does 💖💖
My start was a 730 call from the furnace installer. We got the fun, "your furnace needs to be replaced" assessment yesterday . . . Seven thousand dollars and almost 4 hours of work later and we're almost done with a new high efficiency furnace and thermostat.
There are actually quite a few folks in this community that don't like wet diapers, doesn't mean we don't belong, it just means we don't like wet diapers lol.
My Daddy ans I prefer onesies. Footed sleepers are often too hot for me and my Daddy likes how much easier it is to do diaper checks and changes with onesies.