DaStickman

Well played... ???

Hi Oznl, Happy New Year. When I read this post my heart sank for you and the frustrating experience you’ve endured over the years of your marriage. Only for so long can you realistically block the urges that are the authentic you to please others - a girlfriend, spouse, partner or wife. Im glad you’ve approached this level headedly and are actively challenging her on the “issues” that she has with you wanting to wear. In your eyes - it hurts no one and it’s a mechanism for stress relief. How could that possibly cause harm? I’ve experienced a similar breakdown in understanding with my wife and had my own “line in the sand” moment. I’ve taken to being upfront, honest and my authentic self. There are differences in approach and reaction in our two stories but I’ll say that it’s helping strengthen our relationship. I wish you the best of luck. Cheers

Hey heatfreak32, I'm a Melbourne based ABDL and I can say with great confidence that there is a thriving a diverse community living and socialising in Melbourne.

@dl-kc

A very well written and concise article - thank you for the link!!

Yeah it's just a re-badged 15 stone babies...

OP, you posted the thread and within six hours from first to most recent post you've written off what most in the community consider a very reliable provider. I dread to imagine your stress if you dealt with AB Universe or Aww So Cute!! Relax... You will be responded to I'm sure of it.

There shouldn't be any reason why you can't contact Padding Plus, however they are a distributor of Snuggies and are based in Melbourne, Australia. I assume you live in Aus yes? They have a mobile advertised on the website which is almost always answered. Best of luck

I've spoken with the owner, he's posted on Fetlife over a number of groups that shipment cleared earlier than expected - thus making the availability a touch earlier...

Shipment in March? An Aussie based company PaddingPlus (Google will link you) is selling them, with deliveries and pickup available next week. Looking forward to my substantial order, will post a review and pics if time allows!

My one and only 'unintentional' poopy diaper came from some bad reaction to food the previous night. I was watching TV on the couch in an aww so cute (for me, these are quite restricted dips... Almost too tight in all areas) dip, suffice to say that I had what could truly be described as a blowout!! Unbeknownst to me at the moment of explosion, some had managed to push out from the side gathers and into my pants. It's fair to say, the next half hour or so was containment, management and a long hot shower. Had I been wearing an Abena M4 or even a Bambino or ABU, that may not have happened. I learned the true value of proper fitting dips!!

There are a number of groups on Fetlife which has had a number of recent ABDL meet ups - link here https://fetlife.com/groups/94265 which - which should get you interested. If not on there, add yourself and say hi... I'm on there as dastickman if you wanna add me

Hello! Is this meant to mean something? Welcome anyways!

I just had myself a messy diaper... Have got the day off work so have decided to pop myself in front of the xbox and play GTA5 whilst diapered... Might enjoy this a while yet!

Get in touch if you wanna do something!

Melbourne Boy here... You'd be surprised how many of us there are. I've been to a BBQ with ABDL's and also hosted a littles picnic last year... That was fun... If you want to know more, get in touch!

We've recently moved into our first home - I had a space setup in our spare room for all my dips. However we've since turned it into a guest bedroom and have had visitors stay quite regularly. So I've had to pop them back into our room. My wife doesn't mind that I use "my" shelf space in a shared cupboard - quick access she says!

Melbourne here!! Eltham specifically. If you don't use Fetlife - join up and join this group: https://fetlife.com/groups/72773 Might be worth both your while!

Tonga is in the Pacific... Not a bad place, close enough to Asia and linked culturally that it would make sense that Dr P diapers could be found there... Need to get out more and travel me thinks!

I've purchased so many times that encounters with the cashier are 'non event'. Then yesterday happened... I went to my local supply store, as I've walked in and requested my particular order the lady immediately looked me over and said: "Hi Brad, how are you?" - it took me a moment to realise and recognise this person as someone I'd regularly socialised with in my earlier years tenpin bowling. Now, luckily this lady no longer bowls nor does she keep in contact with my family or friends... BUT, none the less her presence threw me for a six. I turned the conversation back to current events, what I'm doing etc and the encounter was pleasant enough. So that now tallies two people who I know socially who I've encountered at various supply stores... Jeez!!

Oh my goodness I recognise those - only cause my late grandmother had them... At the time didn't realise they were incontinence products...

I've been married to my wife for just under a month, she was informed within a couple of weeks of us dating some 3 years ago. She was even interested enough to post in the family and friends section on here. Being a school teacher and sort of 'hard wired' to associate nappies and kids in one and the same and not as a kink - I've grown to phase the sexual element out. She fully understands and encourages the need to regress and wear nappies, she's happy to put me in them, changing is off the table. So I'm sort of transitioning from DL to AB. We are seeing a councillor to strengthen our relationship, it's working wonders and helping us to set boundaries and mutual goals, both sexual and non sexual. Me being completely open and honest was the key factor in her understanding. It also helps HEAPS that this ABDL life does not define who I am.

Jackass anyone???

As an Aussie I can vouch that it's not been as hot as usually expected. Well, Melbourne at least. We've had a couple of warmer days above 35c but have averaged 25ish so far. I'm a seasonal wearer, hot days are not fun at all especially those dry heat days... Phew!! Last time I padded up on a hot day, I lasted all of about 2 hours, it just became too much!