I never understood why anyone wanted to be incontinent. I had a run in with need a few years back. wetting and changing was never convenient. I beat the bad urges by changes in diet, exercise, weight loss. I was very happy getting back to having a choice.
I was about 30 when i finally decided to get into ABDL. This was in the early 1980s. I had long had n interest in vinyl and expanded into diapers. The first plastic pant purchase was at a surgical store. I found it very embarrassing. I got diapers to go with the plastic panties.
I do love wearing a dress or skirt in the home when it is warm enough. They are much cooler than shorts or long pants. Air is freer to circulate around the legs and diaper/plastic panties. I do not dress like this outside at home. The opportunity to humiliate is greater than shorts too.
One must be careful of sitting in shorts with wide legs too. Otherwise, diapers or undies will be visible when sitting down. I see England, I see France, I see ????'s undies!
Underwear showing and low waists have been common with teens for years. Sometimes 2 layers of undies, lowest one being pants waist. Crotch at knees. I never liked the look.