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Probably either swaddling/being swaddled, or lying on the bed hugging my stuffie as I get my diaper changed.

I've found that if you go a size up on any ABDL diaper you can get the same result pretty easily. It truly is amazing how we've gone from no ABDL disposable diapers, to one or two niche brands, to an absolute bevy of choices and patterns, that now someone such as yourself is saying "but what if our diapers were taller?" It's amazing how far the selection, choice, and options have come.

goop is the joke that never stops being funny. all those accoutrements for a product that's going to go in the trash after 2-3 hours. I bet they leak too.

@KPAXOR1987 yeah, if you're making or cleaning #2s in your pants, I can understand an adult wipe being more practical. I only do #1s when wearing so I don't have to worry about that. I wish ABU and Tykables would hurry up with their wipes brands, if they are even still making them at this point. I would trust an ABDL brand to make a properly-sized-up baby wipe the way the ABDL crowd would want them.

"Nappies" sounds so much cuter, but "diapers" is what I have always know as an American. That's why I'm glad we have the phrase "diapies" which is the best of both worlds ^^

You would be right. Internet Explorer is set to go defunct next month actually.

After the 2nd-3rd date, no later than the 5th. Best if you two talk about your turn-ons and turn-offs around that time, which you'll have to do eventually if the relationship is going well. You don't have to give her a lecture in ABDL, but like "I have a mommydom kink" or something like that and see how she takes it, even if that isn't the entire truth. You can explain more bit by bit. Unloading everything all at once can be overwhelming for you and for her.

Their wipes were usually so reliable despite being a generic brand. Horrible news

You couldn't be more right about it being a lonely secret. I hope you find this a good place to share this part of yourself. Welcome

Right now I really like Huggies Natural Care baby wipes and Seventh Generation baby wipes for everyday use. They are both very soft and soothing and great for all kinds of clean-ups. I think Seventh Generation is better because they are a little thicker, and I like the way the wipes are folded in the packages rather than the pop-up variety. I love the smell of a good scented baby wipe, but not like the flowery Bath & Body Works style scents that seem to be more popular. Target wipes used to have a great baby powder scent but that has changed, and now it seems Pampers changed their scent which I really thought would never happen. Pampers wipes have had one of the best most reliable scents since the 90s. If anyone knows of any brands, even generic store brands, that still have really good baby powder scents to their baby wipes, please let me know. I bought like 20 packs of the old Pampers wipes on clearance when they changed the scent, but I'm about halfway through my stockpile and I need to find a new baby wipe that smells the way a baby wipe should smell, and soon!

I'm thrilled for "The Northman" coming out at the end of the month. Robert Eggers is 2-for-2 in my book and I am more excited for this than anything else that's been announced for theaters this year.

More reasons to love Gura ^^

I appreciate your bravery to post this story. It's not the kind of diaper story that people come here for but it's a diaper story that we don't ever hear. Thank you.

This is bait, isn't it? The misogyny sprinkled throughout like a rancid dressing, the adoration of yourself, the threat to ban anyone who disagrees with one of your points? This is bait. I'm sad for you.

I think you could break up the paragraph, but other than that it has a lovely flow and is a very comforting read. More please!

In the beginning, there were diapers... well, no, not the "beginning" beginning, but everyone here started their first day on the planet in diapers. Diapers have been with us from our beginnings and hopefully they always will be with us

You could have just kept that to yourself. You didn't need to share it. Do you feel better about telling people you only look at pictures of women in the community as jack-off material? Tell me how it feels to have outed yourself as a creep? We're listening.

@PrincessPaciI can't say I've had a pregnancy scare (lol), but the indifference to the abdl lifestyle and the idea that you don't go as hard at it as you used to... I've been there, and I'm still there. When my husband (daddy) and I bought a house, we made the guest room a nursery for me and I used it a grand total of a year before I had an experience that kind of took me out of the ABDL groove. I had accomplished everything I wanted to do as an ABDL in full and with the checklist complete of the experiences and things that I wanted, it started to feel hollow. I still consider myself ABDL but after doing all the things I'd dreamed of doing, I don't crave the need to be in diapers 24/7 anymore. I still wear diapers occasionally, but mostly pull-ups, and I find it just easier to be myself incorporating the little things I like to incorporate (one-piece pajamas, stuffed animals) rather than feeling I need to be baby all the time. I don't think anyone who is ABDL can 100% just "get past" being ABDL. It's a psyche thing, it's a part of us, but I do think as we grow older, we recognize that while we still have this childish heart, our bodies, our relationships, and our priorities are changing, and we change with them.

That really was a great read. Thank you for posting it here ^_^

Congratulations on your enlightenment

The XL goodnites are the best. i wear them regularly. They can even handle a decent wetting shockingly enough.

Not as sensitive as you think. Despite it's secondary and more popular usage, magic wands are still billed primarily as physical health aids, especially the Hitachi brand itself. You can find them on Amazon or other health store sites. Of course, sex shops and 18+ toy sites sell them as well.

I agree with @ppdude. Be upfront about your needs. You may not *need* to be diapered, but you could explain that while you can try, there may be accidents. You don't know what your post-surgery state is going to be like. Do not expect though that a hired health aide is going to want to change your diapers. At the most, it would be reasonable if you are otherwise abled that you would be expected to change yourself with minimal assistance. Expecting or asking for anything more than that would be unethical.

Magic wands and diapers go together like peanut butter and jelly!

Ugly gray Depends that easily leaked ... when I got my first ABU SDK sample a few years later, it was like "THIS IS IT! THIS IS WHAT I'VE ALWAYS WANTED!"