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https://www.xpmedical.com/xp-apc-19800-config-xp I can't speak to it being the softest but this is definitely one of the biggest that I know of. Tykables had a very soft booster. Full disclosure. I have not purchased them in their new configuration https://tykables.com/products/dubbler-booster-pads I would start with those.

First. The answer is always yes. and second, You can have things shipped to you via a UPS or FedEx location and no one you live with will ever know. I had 2 cases shipped to me that way in a pinch

@ValentinesStuffIf the request had come in pre covid I could have listed them up and down the stack, or at least into the high medical market. While the medical market has stay fairly even, the ABDL market has exploded in the last 4 years. I have lost track and lost count and there are several that I have not ever tried.

I didn't go out of my way to make one but I collected them as part of something I put together awhile back. I'm kinda with @Little Sherrion this one. ISO capacity after the 5 or 6k mark is nearly meaningless. Any diaper in that category will hold a ton and the fit and comfort will probably make a bigger difference than SAP/Fluff content.

I am frankly not upset about the discount or the way it works. I am upset that it was not stated. There was no small print to read. I wasn't mad that the diapers weren't discounted after buying boosters. I added 2 cases of diapers and 2 cases of boosters and both the cases of boosters were discounted. That is when I had to go look up what the T&C were and couldn't find them anywhere.

Do I need to keep talking just so you don't feel like you've won? The people I have called out are still horrible and I still can't understand this idea of why anyone who speaks out needs to be perfect or their argument is invalid.

What is wrong with traveling. She is famous for traveling by train whenever possible, the least carbon intensive way possible. I see this all the time, "you are protesting the wrong way." It's a really easy way to dismiss the argument without ever having to even consider it. So THAT is what you meant when you implied that she would poison polar bears! Clearly I am not smart enough to understand that this is a stand in for potential childhood exploitation and capitalizing on fame! I am sorry. I was not smart enough to see it! I've think I have finally figured ot why I found this entire thread abhorrent from start to finish. The very premise of looking for diapers on public figures strikes me with the same energy as people looking at "Trans watch" conspiracies. Why does it matter? What do you gain? Why is it your business? Furthermore if she is wearing a diaper now what? If she needs it medically you're a dick for making fun of a disabled person, if she is using it as a tool, you're a dick for wishing that people should suffer, and last but not least, hypothetically she is an abdl going into a stressful situation and it is comforting. I would HOPE that a bunch of people on an abdl forum could muster the tiniest bit of empathy. I have been disappointed. I'll stick to my original statement.

I couldn't find the T&C anywhere on the site and it will always discount the cheaper case. No big deal if you select 2 diaper cases where the difference is a couple bucks but it was a huge amount when I tried to add some boosters to my order. Only reason I noticed it was me being anal about it.

You people are all horrible. She has something she believes in and stands up for it. You question her motives, and you are suggesting murder. The media made her the icon she is. There are hundreds and thousands of climate activists but none of them will get any press if she shows up.

That looks like a now discontinued Bambino diaper, Carnival I think it's called. Yup. https://daynitecare.com/products/bambino-karnavalee?variant=44511795773755

The biggest flaw in your plan that I see is your hard stop point. I see one of two things happening. Given how fast you took to bedwetting, you spiral and end up fully incontinent way before you wish to, or because you have that hard stop your mind stops you from losing any control. I think the latter is more likely personally.

Frankly just weakening or partially disable the internal sphincter/bladder kneck should be enough to dramatically jump start incontinence training. As far as I know, adults, save those with severe nervous system dysfunction, have near complete control over their external sphincters, so relaxing thoseis easy. The problem has always been convincing the unconcious mind and it's control over the internal sphincter to relax and release. I could see two or three months of diminished or destroyed control in someone who already wants incontinence being enough to convince their subconscious to give up on clenching those muscles. The unconscious is lazy and if you are leaking anyway there wouldn't be a reason to try. And that amount of time would be plenty for a habit to set in.

I started reading this story yesterday and am already all caught up and have to wait for new chapters. Great story! 😭 😭

I would be interested in hearing how it goes. I have spent the last five+ months practicing hypnosis and self hypnosis virtually daily so I wonder how it would help someone who has not practiced hypnosis and the powerful visualizations and mental game that go along with it. I am writing a more in depth post re: the Parasympathetic Nervous System and how it pertains to what I think may be some of the mental blocks. If you want to do more research on your own look up Vagus Nerve Stimulation, The Parasympathetic Nervous System, and Interoception.

Do you find that you feel more open with imagining the catheter? I imagine that it is an unnatural feeling unless you are cath'ed frequently and even then the muscles are forced open.

Your internal sphincters are part of the Autonomic Nervous System or unconscious. These muscles are yours but not yours to control as it were. The good news is that the unconscious mind can help influence the ANS and the ANS can influence the unconscious mind. Try this, go without a diaper or get into a position that you usually have a difficult time going and do a reverse kegal. I am willing to bet money you will not wet yourself. That is because your potty training, so much of which is taught at the unconscious level before our conscious minds develop says that this is not the time or place to wet or mess and informing the ANS to clench and hold tight. Focusing on doing a reverse kegal is a behavioral action while the imagined wetting is a mental/psychological one. So I have started doing this recently. Instead of just “relaxing” my pelvic floor, I now imagine that I am wetting or messing without even thinking about my pelvic floor, clenching or relaxing the pelvic floor is not a normal action for a potty trained adult and is very difficult to do. Holding or going is much easier. I try to make the action of going as realistic in my mind as possible, focus on all the sensations that go along with it. I find that in doing this my pelvic floor is even more relaxed than if I directly tried to relax and it has the added benefit of training the unconscious mind that this is an appropriate place to go to the bathroom and work through that emotion and thoughts at the time. I think there is an additional benefit in that the mind is pushing the ANS along and unconsciously contracting the bladder and moving paristalsis of the bowels along. Try it next time you relax. Do a normal reverse kegal diapered or undiapered, and feel the drop, leave it for a few seconds and really take note of the sensations. Then imagine you are wetting and messing, it creates an even further drop for me and I have actually wet myself a few times in positions or times that I have had huge amounts of difficulty with in the past, such as in the car and in a diaper that I wasn't sure would or would not leak. Good luck and let me know if this works for you. Since diving deep into psychology I have become nigh obsessed with why some people spiral in a way that @Kaliborio has outlined and why other people like me can spend literally years making zero or even negative progress. I have several more ideas but this one is the most succinct and easiest to implement.

I like your #6 but may I propose a change or maybe it is different enough to warrant it's own number. Sharing your authentic self with others in the community, the broader ABDL community but also within people who are seeking incontinence. Last November I started going to ABDL meetups and that has helped reframe things significantly. But what has helped the most has been discussing this with people who are also on the journey. Talking with them has helped me in learning myself and different perspective has been fantastic.

It's a great start to build the habit of peeing often but you won't become incontinent by doing that alone.

TBF the sale last week was essentially the same. I picked up two cases of Mermaids for $149.

They've gone full Kohls. Just waiting for Bambino Bucks and a Bambino credit card. Maybe they should have never gone full Kohls.

The way back machine has most of the site archived. https://web.archive.org/web/20130322004148/http://www.foxtalestimes.com/

Only problem with that is many of those cause blood thinning. Is that a good idea while still recovering/bleeding?

You didn't correct him and say deliciously incontinent?

@BabySofia Thank you! Your post made me remember that I had actually written a story a number of years ago. I went back to reread it. Consider me inspired to start writing again!u

Interesting. I haven't had too much issue with tearing with them but they definitely feel like they stretch more than a standard plastic backed diaper. Not enough to make them unusable but enough to make mention of it.