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My wife wore her hooded unicorn sleeper to the grocery store recently. It was late at night. No diaper though. She was just feeling too lazy to get dressed.

I am pretty sure that you are not obligated to go through any treatment or test a doctor suggests simply be because they suggest it.

A+ trolling.

The restraints hold the wrists above the head. I’m entirely on the table. True that there may be additional restraints that wouldn’t get in the way of a diaper change, but (1) modifying the table to accommodate them would be problematic and damage the resale value, and (2) it’s taxing on a caregiver to deal with numerous restraints for every diaper change. A few times may be fun, but it would get old.

Those are wrist straps for keeping hands out of the way during diaper changes. Any additional restraints would hinder a diaper change.

Here’s the changing table at the foot of my bed. Mommy changes my diaper there, straps and all. I like it!

I’d be very surprised if it happens often enough to offset the cost involved with offering them.

Perhaps you should bring this up to her and ask what she meant? You shouldn’t make any assumptions but it sounds to me like she was standing at the open door and asking to come in. She may feel like you don’t want her to? My wife derives much relational value by being intimately involved in this part of me. Maybe bring it up to her and let her drive the conversation. See where it goes.

My wife was completely vanilla when we got married, and has changed the vast majority of my diapers since then (about 6.5 years). The only times she doesn’t change my diaper is when she physically can’t (e.g., she’s at work or out running errands). It was awkward and weird at first. It took time for her to learn all the nuances of both changing a diaper, and also changing my diaper, not to mention shifting diaper and booster brands, and all the related emotional complications that comes with this kind of thing. Nowadays, there is a diaper changing table in our bedroom complete with wrist restraints, I’m always kept in heavily boosted PeekABU diapers, and she’s a master diaper changer. She does it better than I do now. She tends to think something’s wrong if I’m not in a diaper, and won’t let me change myself. Heck, even if I ask to use the potty, if I’m fidgeting, she won’t let me. She says it’s easier to change my full diapers than trying to potty train me.

I mostly work at home, so being diapered at work is not hard. Though it does sometimes strike me as strange when I’m on a telecon talking serious business while sitting there in a thick PeekABU diaper and a shirt like this, with a pacifier clipped to it. I find it easier to not be diapered at the office, simply because it’s less distracting.

It is never, ever about understanding. It never will be. It can’t be. If they tell you it is, they’re lying. It’s only about taking advantage of suckers to make money.

Safari diapers from Rearz are very good. My favorite at the moment are PeekABUs.

Their capacity is not top end premium, but I believe characterizing them as “not that great” isn’t giving them enough credit. Perhaps that’d be true of cushies before Casey bought abu, but that was a long time ago now. Their listed capacity on abu’s website is 4500ml. I have used them (have 4 bags right now actually) and I have no problem with them. I boost them with Boost-Ups, but I boost all my diapers that way.

I’d probably say, “why do you ask?”

Lol I think your wife nailed why I’ve never been much of a fan of those. I’d like the prints to be more like the Amors.

From here: You should not use Boudreaux Butt Paste if you are allergic to zinc, dimethicone, lanolin, cod liver oil, petroleum jelly, parabens, mineral oil, or wax.

@horrorfan So I saw. But that can mean many things, and unless he is entirely incapable of luxury expenses (false because he can afford bad diapers) and totally unable to save (pretty sure he can), I’m going to urge him in that direction.

I urge you to go quality over quantity and go get some premium ABDL diapers from a place like ABUniverse if at all possible. Store brands are all garbage. Your experience with them will be worth it. PeekABUs are currently my reigning champion. For barrier cream I suggest Boudreaux's Butt Paste and having one of these helps a lot with the application.

I’d like to think they worked it out. Half the day was revenge and half was mostly pleasant, in exchange for six years of torture. They should have both came away with better perspective, but Penelope more so.

Chapter 3 is now out: https://www.deviantart.com/pieceofsoap/art/PERPETUAL-CHANGE-CHAPTER-3-756286287

Say you had access to a high-quality 3D printer. What kind of ABDL product(s) would you make? And if you found such an item for sale, produced in such a fashion, would you be interested in buying it?

I have many pairs of the firehose, and have worn them over a diaper to work many times.

@Yooo They are 16cm widest, 12.5cm narrowest (somewhat of an hourglass shape). They fit fine in the diapers I use: ABU SDK/Cushies/Kiddos Medium, ABU LittlePaws/Simple Medium, Rearz Safari Medium. Oh, and I have never had an issue with their adhesive. They always stay in place for me.

I use TotalDry Ultimate BoostUps in every diaper. They really bulk them up. I haven’t had any leak issues with them.

Whenever I’m in a diaper, my wife sees that diaper, because she’s the one who put me into it, and the only one who’s allowed to change it.