DiapergirlWB

I always wanted to wet the bed that was really the only form on "incontinence" I knew about until my 20's i guess (pre internet days). I always loved wearing diapers and wetting myself I never really thought about needing diapers until I heard about adult diapers and incontinence. I had known about like the elderly and diapers but not really yuounger people that needed to wear.

I'm thinking anything anything where you could not have access to a facility if you messed yourself but otherwise anything dealing with a lot of water or close in proximity with the public.

It's not really a secret but a mindset? I have had to deal with some conditions that have had pretty much constant effects and have learned to put them to the back of my mind. So that helps. Also you have to manage what you are looking to achieve. If you are looking for loss of control and not knowing when you wet the actual act of wetting has to become background. Taking great pleasure and focusing on the way the wetting feels the warmth the wetness spreading is going to prevent this it will keep it in the front of your mind you have to let that go in order attain the lack of not really control but of having it become subconcious and automatic.

Yes for a very long time now! I wish I could wet in my sleep but despite teh fact that during the day it would take effort not to wet myself as soon as I get into bed the waterworks stop. Even when I get woke up by a strong urge to pee it takes time and effort to wet myself while in bed...frustrating

congratulations! I am happy for your progress and a bit jealous lol

A diaper failure is also a possibility in a fresh or nearly fresh..an unnoticed tear or defect is always a possibility it's not jut wearing a too wet diaper.

I never did attempt it. So the answer is still a mystery to me.

I don't test. I find the idea to be counter productive. Kind of the 'The Game" if you think about it you lose (haha you lost) the idea is to not have it in your thoughts at all, to not be part of the decision making process. Testing keeps it in your mind which no matter what if you are thinking about it there becomes a choice.

Get yourself a bed pad either disposables or a reusable one. I full on diaper is not the only solution. You can also use more discrete form of daytime protection which will require more maintence and montoring. you can always use like a backpack or something to carry your supplies you don't need a 'diaper bag'

As I have gotten older I have found that my desire to be diapered has increased a lot. I am now comfortable being diapoered all the time and not being in a diaper is weird awkward nd causes stress.

depends on why you wear. If the point is to stay in one diaper as long as possible or changing isn' an option for a long period there is no such thing as too much. For practical use the 500ish range seems to e the biggest and still be able to function.

I am not dependent as much as trained. I wet freely and without any real notice most times. I can't pinpoint the exact moment I stopped noticing when i wet..it was over a period of time. there was a few months ago I remember going to bed thinking i didn't remember wetting at all that day. I can still hold though I don't intentionally do it but there are still some unintentional clenches I do not test the ability. the closest I have to a test was when I had to concentrate to keep my stump still during an mri because it moves involuntarily if my leg isnt on and when the mri was over i noticed that i had to pee and that i had been holding too.

I like stories with a slow decline into needing diapers

1-3 are fine no one not looking or diaper oriented would gice a second glance

I also am handicapped RBKA and need the bars to easily get off a toilet. You can't expect non handicapped people to never use the stall esp in a busy restroom. i wish when the saw a handicapped person they gave us preferential treatment for it but there is no rule.

I tend not to worry about it so much. T o completely putting it out of my mind is good enough. Right now I wet without noticing most times. I know i can still hold if i think about it but i don't think bout it. I notice bm's but they are pretty automatic but most times get plenty of notice unless the ibs is acting up then little to no notice. In my mind the more i think about it the more control I will retain. i don't test or anything like that because it reinforces control. as an addendum Bedwetting would be the ultimate goal for me. If i never got to wear a diaper at any other time i'd be able to be happy with it.

Ahh ok. Well i could use some times then

Are you saying incontinent folks never get diarrhea and have issues wit multiple uncontrolled messes?

I suffer from some IBS and am taking a medication that causes some digestive issues. I'm usually ok but once in a while i get constipated and the few days after are harsh.

I've gotten myself diapertrained to the point where i rarely notice wetting while awake. I still have not managed to wet the bed that block seems to be extra strong with me. So the first pee of the day is the only one i usually feel or notice. As for messing I am still very aware of it but It does happen without consent I have plenty of time to stop it if I would choose to do so. Except when I'm not feeling so great in the digestive track. occasionally I'd have sudden unexpected messy accidents but that was here and there well over the day and half I've just had a feeling of bloating and a constant feeling of having to go with a bit of stomach upset. I've messed myself 6 or 7 times with no warning or ability to stop it. 3 times have been outside my home as I had things I needed to do, including preparing for the snow storm that was supposed to dump a ton. I admit it was a little hard to deal with. To know that I was going to have a messy accident and still have to function in the outside world. It was distracting and a bit nerve wracking. It felt very similar to when I first started to have genuine wetting accidents, some apprehension and anxiety along with some excitement that I'm getting there. Questioning Is this what i really want? i have decided tht I am going to keep moving forwards on my journey that eventually being bowel IC is a bit scarier than being urinary IC i still want to remain dependant on my diapers going forwards.

I would just go through periods of 24/7 lasting from a few days to a couple of weeks but last time I just never stopped nd has now become my normal. nothing has ben said about it

There is noting to feel guilty over. You aren't hurting anyone.

I have told you my Reasons. I did try some AB experimentation I did not like it. I have no interest in it. I am a Dl with a diaper domination fantasy. Ypu are just so arrogant and ignorant that you cannot accept what i say because "you know me better than i know myself" since i know you wont understand i am not quoting you there I am paraphrasing with the quotes. i only have a play age cause when i filled out the profile i was still in the experimental stages of discovering myself and have made that journey. As for any further opinion you might have about who I am you can shove them where only the diaper sees.

@AngelBaby thanks you seem to understand where I am coming from. For some reason @Little BabyDoll Christine thinks she is the expert on my life and feelings and is bound and determined to force me into her box. She can spout all her stupid Ideas about who I am and they don't mean a damn thing. Her ego won't let her be wrong so just stop irritating yourself trying to argue with someone who "knows" everything.

No not AB. I don't like baby clothes, don't like baby talk, don't do bottles and binkies. Like I said I am into loss of control, I would like to be have someone else in control of my diapering more like a domination scenario. I don't think from my post that that was too difficult to understand, but obviously some people need every concept explained in minute detail for their comprehension