CandiPiglet

It's true that a lot of the images you see from ABDL paid-content sites shared about are non-ABDL paid models, but across the entire internet, I would argue that there is a larger number of actual female ABDLs sharing photos of themselves in their entirety. Spend a few days on Tumblr and you'll understand what I mean. From experience I've noticed that women tend to be more courageous in that regard anyhow. Perhaps not a popular view in this community,

*raises hand* I've been trying to make friends here too!!!! if you other vegas babies wanna hang out, send me an email! Candi@lifestylelittle.com

I enjoy writing stories that would be ideal for what I would want to read in a story. I prefer a character with whom I can closely relate who is involved in a believable story line. I probably have had an easier time gaining acceptance as AB within my family and friends than most AB/DLs I know, so I'm sure that probably causes me to write outside of the realm of some people's perceivable possibility. Also, I don't ever write stories to be of any sexual nature, so my characters usually start in their childhood or adolescence and grow from there. I used to write stories that featured AB/DLs doing drugs and the like, mostly because I was able to relate closely to it. For about 18-months now, I've been clean of drugs and alcohol, so it's been much easier for me to abandon that stoner-ideal. Some people might like it, some not. If there was a demand for stoner AB/DL fiction, maybe I would return to it as somewhat of a nostalgic venture for myself, but for now I'm staying away from it. My favorite stories to read are ones where young people (boys or girls) willfully regress. Diapers are merely a transitional object in my realm of perception, but they add to the "littleness" just as thumb-sucking does. Anyone who knows me knows that those two things are ever-present in my life, baby and adult, except when I have non-professional sex, which is almost never. haha I don't like reading about people being forced into regressive situations generally, but if done right, I can enjoy it.

Depending on which walk of life you're from, advertising your ABDLness can certainly be asking for trouble. I've never found my advertising of my littleness to be a problem. The reason I don't see much of a need for a 'symbol' is that I'm identified as little by my lifestyle. Most people aren't comfortable doing it, but I think the fact that I have either a binkie or my thumb in my mouth at all times while holding Mommy's hand in public is probably enough of a dead give away to most who would be looking out for a 'symbol' anyway. I was interested in finding a symbol a few years ago before I fully realized my identity. I've never been shy about who I am and have always been on the lookout for people like me, in pretty much any aspect. I think people want to use a symbol be able to subtly identify others with whom they share common interests, in the same way someone might use a bumper sticker. Whether in public or on the internet, there are ways to identify yourself with enough subtlety that you won't be exposed, but that is left to your own discretion.

I'm learning more and more each day that not being relaxed while regressed is all part of it. For the first time ever today, Mommy gave me a rather severe punishment (compared to how I usually skate by with my puppy-dog eyes). We were getting ready to go shopping at Town Square (which is an upscale shopping center that I've never had the pleasure of visiting but she wasn't in a very good mood to begin with and asked me to do something which she'd asked me to do earlier in the day. I went in to do it and she continued on and on about how she has to ask me several times before I do the things she asks, and I got upset and left the room sniffling. She followed me and I basically talked back to her and grabbed my purse and my blankie and went down to my car. I didn't think she was going to follow me, because once I left her penthouse, she yelled down the hallway, "How DARE you speak to me like that young lady. You're grounded!" Embarrassed, I kept on for the elevator and took it to the ground floor and walked to my car, sniffling the whole way. When I got there, I simply sat in the passenger seat of my car, sniffling and sucking my thumb. About ten minutes later, I heard the gate crash closed. I looked up and saw Mommy reaching for my car door. She opened it, grabbed my blankie out of my hands, confiscated my phone, and firmly said, "March, Missy." When I got back to her penthouse, all of my blankies, stuffed animals, my computer; everything was gone. She instructed me to go to my room and think about what I had done. This was all reminiscent of my youth, and not necessarily something that I ever wanted to go back to. I'm not into it at all. I lay on the bed, sulking, crying, thinking about how I thought I was just defending myself from one of her bad moods like I'm supposed to... That was apparently not the case. I cried myself to sleep as she went grocery shopping without me. I awoke to a regular occurrence, Mommy checking me to see if I was wet. I fell asleep in my trainers (Goodnites, as opposed to the Bambinos or Dry 24/7s she usually puts me in when she puts me to sleep since I am a bedwetter)and when I woke up, they were soaked and had leaked through to the cut off jean shorts I had been wearing and onto the comforter on her bed. She consoled me and helped me to wake up so she could change me more easily. After she changed me, she could tell I was still a little upset. "It's okay Piglet. Little girls leak all the time. They do NOT talk back to their Mommies though. Understand?" she lectured. I nodded in reply. It took a few hours for me to get out of the sulking pit and to a state of mind where I actually wanted to go shopping again, and when I did, she made sure that we were both in good spirits when we went so it wouldn't happen again. I learned a valuable lesson today about my place as a little and how it's not always bottles and bows and happy cuddle-time. With taking on this role as a lifestyle, it's begun a lesson in taking the good with the bad in order for Mommy to play the role she needs to as well.

I was able to catch the episode on Megavideo and I'm really proud of Riley for her representation and portrayal of not only herself, but the AB community as well. The show did what they designed it to do and of course sensationalized the "weirdness" of it. Regardless of whatever spin was put on the lifestyle due to the nature of the show, Riley did a great job and I'm glad it was her representing the community this time rather than someone like those who have volunteered in the past. It seemed like James was being fed much of what he was saying. Aside from the actual aim of the show, she represented herself beautifully, confidently, and respectfully. What more could we ask for? <3

What a great story <3

http://caramelstgirls.com/?page_id=11682 Comments welcome!

I haven't really been too current on updating my living situation on DD, but I moved to Vegas in February, and I've found a few fellow ABDL's here, strictly through DD, but have only met one, and only once. I realize there are only a handful of involved ABDLs here, but I am interested in making friends here and am extremely outgoing. For those who don't know me, I'm a lifestyle baby who lives by myself in Summerlin South (SW side of town) and I have a full-time Mommy who lives closer to The Strip on the East side. She's an amazing mommy, but she's not into the scene at all, so I have been trying to meet people here so I can have some kind of connection to the scene, and maybe generate some interest here. I am a model/musician/porn actress and I only work roughly 12 hours a month, so I'm pretty flexible. I spend a lot of time with Mommy, but when I'm not with her, I'm usually at my condo. If anyone in Vegas is interested in meeting me for lunch or something, (dining out or in, I don't have a preference) let me know. I would like to set up a munch at some point if there is enough genuine interest to be worth my time. Send me a message! I'd love to hear from you

I just moved to Vegas a few months ago and I've met a couple of AB/DLs here, but it would be nice to make some friends here.

I'm moving to Las Vegas later this month and I've already decided on buying an AB crib for my nursery before I buy a bed for my bedroom. I am thinking about going with one from babyapparels.com, but if anyone has any suggestions, please let me know. (I'm NOT building one and price is not an issue)

umm, lawlz

God gave you eyelids. Do us all a favor and next time you don't wanna see something, try closing them. It's pretty cool what happens! All of a sudden, it's like, all black! try it out.

LOL fucking great.

hey guys, while you're at it, from now on if you're gonna make a movie, make sure you label which sexual orientation the major key demographic leans to, that way if one or two people who "aren't into" such content. That way they don't need to be troubled with the horrible image of something they "aren't into." I mean, you think I like seeing all the straight porn they got posted up all over this filthy, unkempt restroom we call an internet?! lol If you don't like it, hit the fucking 'back' button. Don't tell people to go out of their way because you're too insecure to handle it.

and to be quite honest, it's about time that we see some tasteful abdl boy-on-boy. YOU NEVER SEE IT!!!!!!

BabyCandi like Abrera said, if your SN is different on there from the one you have here, please let me know when you add me

Candi. (which is short for my real first name, which I'm not giving out because there's only a literal handful of people with my first name out of the 6bil we got here)

Looking forward to the seventh installation!!

I'm so proud of you Soph. You really are an inspiration!

WORD! lol This is an awesome story!

yeppers, same area here! In fact Max and I are friends

http://www.tvland.com/shows/hot-in-cleveland/full-episodes/good-neighbors

I would feel extremely uncomfortable if I knew there were real children accessing this site openly... and really pissed off. Obviously, they have the 'ability' to access the site by clicking the right links, but that's why it's always wise to watch what you say, no matter who you think is listening. and when i say "filthy," I'm not saying that our community is, but look at MOST other 18+ communities out there. that's all I'm gonna say. I wouldn't want my kids reading the story section, roleplay section, I mean come on. KIDS DON'T BELONG HERE. IF YOU THINK THEY DO, THEN YOU ARE SICK. Children are naive and they don't understand the way pervs work. Keeping them out is not treating them like they are inferior. #1, it's LAW. #2, it's protecting them from being victimized by pervs on our turf. as far as equality between teenagers and adults, be realistic. There is a level of maturity earned in adulthood that gives us the right to create communities like that. And teenagers are still children, I don't care what you say. If kids are allowed to enter the bulk of this site, then they will be pedophile fodder. Kids deserve to be PROPERLY and APPROPRIATELY informed. that's as far as their needs here go. This is an adult community.

For the purposes of this site and to prevent underagers from wandering the filthy streets of adult communities, I believe this is a great idea if information to be posted is submitted first to the Mods to ensure suitable screening for what information is possibly being given to those young people. This extends a hand and upholds the integrity of our community, that of which we are privileged to take such pride in. My favorite thing about this community is the general love and respect that most are able to maintain. It wouldn't be a bad thing to properly inform our young people and answer questions they ask, and the burden some may carry. I believe on one hand that they will find support here, to look forward to in the future certainly, but also to guide them in the right direction, most notably away from adult communities. Kind of a ramble here, but unsupervised kids are pretty much free to go anywhere they want on the internet just by clicking the right links. It's scary and I think the most effective way to protect them from unforseen dangers is to properly inform them and guide them, under strict moderation.