wetman

I, too must say that Abena (I use the plastic backed M4) has lost a bit of quality. While I have had no problems with the tapes, I had quite a few small leaks in the crotch/ middle back area. This seems to me because of a thinner or lower quality plastic, and the leaks coming up due to rubbing on the trousers inner seams; specially after getting out of a car, the leaks are in an embarrassing place, so wear something that doesn't show. I also had a pack that wasn't cut correctly. The right side had about 5 inches of plastic from the inner cuffs and the left side the nappy was practically cut right next to the cuff. Quite sad, really, but I'm thinking of going back to Molicare SuperPlus.

Of course the 'chat'* stays hidden until a mouse comes close, otherwise it would frighten it away. It's Caturday, you know. *First mentioned in France, by Felis 'Sam' Edi on the first of March '37.

...and it wasn't plastic,either.

And I thought it was 'Bettypooh' with two 't'...

You just can't, can you?

In the first posting? Optimistic, are we? But anyway: still 'Hello', and welcome!

The 'daring thing' was just forced on me last week: I was out for an 'all night nappy drive', as I sometimes do (I don't wear around the family, read my profile...), and had my last catheter in. All went more or less eventless, except that my abena M4 leaked earlier on and I got my trousers a bit wet. I changed at a service station and then took the trousers off in a lay-by. As I also crossdress (but I don't usually mix the two things), I had a few ladies things in the car, too. The most neutral thing to go over my nappy was a pair of leggings, so I wore them. And I got stopped by the police an hour later (I apparently was driving rather slow...). My nappy was sagging again quite a bit, and with the leggings on it must have looked quite toddler-ish. I had to step out of the car for an alco-test and the policeman looked at my lower regions several times in a rather amused way. I stayed neutral and nothing more happened. I think I might go for another drive this Friday; anyone want to join?

Number two first: I don't think that bacteria will migrate any faster on the retrieval string than usually on the inside of your urethra. Should be OK, there's a lot of flushing, too. Just keep the outside nice and clean, and don't poo when you play anything like this. Well, if the string breaks, you go to a doctor of your choice, tell him under confidence (should always be the case, right?) that you have been playing fetish-related games and that something went wrong and needs his attention. Explain, and then let him do his bit. He might send you to hospital, though. Or go to A&E straight away; they've seen everything before, and if not in your case, you have the honour to be the first! No need to tell them any 'little white lies' (This cola bottle got stuck in my anus when I stumbled and fell on it, really. - - - meh), they don't really care what brought it on, and will be more amused by your lying than the actual problem. Apart from that: This device does indeed look rather interesting and as if it would exactly to the job. The one-piece-stainless-steel construction also is, as lovable_guy wrote, easy to keep clean. What frightens me a bit is the diameter of the spheres, I don't think I could get those placed right now, it might involve some stretching and dilating first... I'd really like to see something like this made from a more flexible material, the chance of a full migration into the bladder when sitting down hard could be reduced...

That.

The Asda in Southampton city centre had a whole wall of Tena next to the pharmacy for the last year. I bought some Tena Comfort Maxi and a pack of Tena Slip Super there; worked both on the self-service and on the normal tills. I did ask at the pharmacy counter about the Slip Maxis, but the attendant seemed a bit clueless, so I assume that they're just placed next to the pharmacy, but belong to the general store stock. Strangely enough two other 24h Asda/ Walmart Supercentres (Haydon Wick, Swindon and Leigh Park, Portsmouth) didn't stock any.

Concerned: You could always put it on in the therapist's consulting room... that's not like wearing in public then. Now seriously: No one notices it if you wear a nappy, and if you're really afraid of wetting his couch, then wear. If you use it as an excuse to yourself to have to wear one while you're with someone who knows that you wear and reach out for a reaction, then don't. You would be: a.) dissappointed, because he doesn't really want to know all that much. b.) thinking too much about your nappy to pay attention. c.) somehow using the therapist as a fap-target, which is a little bit - - - odd. Your call now.

called Belinda-Sue. There, I fixed it for you. @ Suzuki2011: Write what you like. Someone will read it, and if it's good, you'll get a lot of good feedback. Fire at will!

You so completely missed the point, it's amazing that you posted in the same forum... SCNR

freswith: I wish I could add something useful or completory to your post. I can't, it's perfect as is. To lightning: I'd go and ask the professionals, or look there. Look what's laying around in the antenatal ward in the hospital, and then use that.

??? Erm, Brian, that wasn't me, I think.

Not at all, Whisko. It was purely misunderstanding on my part (and meant a bit humourous, too...): I understood 'pushing a silicon catheter through the skin' , as piercing the skin ('whichever skin?', I wondered) with the catheter. Now (after a considerable amount of consideration) I'm completely aware that you meant manipulating the catheter inside the urethra to proximal, through the skin (and, unavoidably, the corpus cavernosum p.). I should have really thought about that and feel quite a bit stupid. Go on, have a laugh on me!

Are you sure you're doing it right? Apart from that: I think the floss-as-a-retrieval-string idea is not too bad; I personally would give it 30 minutes in hypochloride solution (baby bottle cold steriliser) before use, but other than that, it's a good, strong material and half-way medical grade.

We can tell!

Don't use used fishing line.

Zander?

Oh, man. That was nowhere clean enough. He might get away with it, but not by design; rather by luck. Too many items involved, insecure fastening of the retrieval string, way too much groping and fiddling. I wouldn't recommend it.

Of course it was sarcasm, matey! If you include Boots's StayDry and Tena Pants Disceet in to the class of 'good nappies' then you are perfectly right: every Tesco, Sainsbury's and so on stocks something like that. I didn't rate them as such and Sigma wouldn't have asked, really... If you can tell me where to get Abriform M4, Lille Maxi medium or Molicare SuperPlus Medium in Winchester, Andover, Basingstoke, then there's a beer in it for you, including genuine apology.

@Zander, please accept my sincere apologies for spreading lies. @Sigma117: See, no problem at all. You must be doing something wrong.

And if the stone don't do you in, then surely will the medicine. Laudanum, was it?

Cher Monsieur Canard Carré, that was abysmal. Would you like to borrow a crowbar and a sledgehammer to knock it into shape?