Well this is an issue I have been dealing with for many years... am incontinent due to a back injury from 1999 (long story made short) Fell off a trailer load of plastic pipe landed badly, broke my back, and neck, spent 18 Months in a wheelchair, and am now walking for the most part, some days are better than others, Weather changes affect me badly...
It;s a love hate relationship with my diapers, I need them, at times I like them other times I hate them... My wife is okay with it my doctor is fine with it, But... I have not had real good luck with a social life, I'm always concerned with am I going to leak, or smell... When I was a mechanic at a landfill in CO it was okay, but having to explain it to new employees was difficult, and some times embarrassing...
After I decided to go trucking again it seems to have gotten better, still have to worry about the leaks at times, but mostly I just don't care let people deal with it, as for me I'm happy, I'm healthy, and I wouldn't change a thing
Stay happy, Stay diapered, Drive Sane...