ABU Europe edition booster pads are the biggest and softest in my opinion. And I don’t know what it is about them but they swell a CRAZY amount when you wet. I mean like they double in thickness. It’s ridiculous. I never buy anything else for boosters.
Sometimes I ask but I really don’t think I need to, she’s fine with me wearing. The times I don’t ask she doesn’t even blink. I think when I ask it’s more of a validation of her acceptance. Either way, it’s pretty cool to have a spouse that is pretty accepting.