DaddyBabykins347 Posted April 23, 2013 Share Posted April 23, 2013 I think I am bi because I have fantasizes about having sex with dudes How did you guys know What did you do Link to comment
Zekent Posted April 23, 2013 Share Posted April 23, 2013 I know it's not this way for everyone but I knew that I liked girls even before I knew what sex was. There's never been a question in my mind if I was gay or not, for me it was just a natural progression to when I became a teenager and started dating I only ever dated women. I'd say that just accept yourself and see what comes. Don't limit yourself based on what other's say, your sexuality is your own. 1 Link to comment
thong5 Posted April 23, 2013 Share Posted April 23, 2013 I always knew that i liked both men and women but i did the straight route for a long time,married ,kids etc. When that marriage ended it gave me the oppertunity to explore my attraction to men which i did. I found myself to be happier both emotionally and sexually when i was with a man and realised that i am in fact gay. It was a big turning point in my life and i am much more at ease in myself and my life. Everyone has fantasies it is up to you weather you act on them or not. Explore and find out where your at and go from there then you will know . Link to comment
dressupDV Posted April 24, 2013 Share Posted April 24, 2013 I've always been attracted to women, and from an early age fantasized about being one. Link to comment
ForbiddenFruit Posted April 24, 2013 Share Posted April 24, 2013 I was a pretty awful closet case for years. I was still 'straight, just practicing' when I was fooling around with my friend, even when I was giving him oral. 1 Link to comment
gigglemuffinz Posted April 24, 2013 Share Posted April 24, 2013 This might sound a bit cliche, but I was one of those transgirls that just always knew she was in the wrong body. My earliest memory is literally of me being jealous of my sister's dress and throwing a fit about it. So I've never really experience a me that didn't know she was girly, but I think I buried the whole reason for my girlyness until I was about 9 when I first finally said "I feel like a girl, I wanna be a girl." to myself, and cried about it. It just felt the start of a tough journey, even then. Link to comment
Elfy Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 Although I often fantasised about 1 Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 My own 'revelation' was a long time in the making because I was in denial of my true self I didn't want to be who I was I used drinking and drugs to escape from this world not realizing that what I was really trying to escape from was me- and that you can't get away from yourself no matter how hard you try Once I came to terms with my being Trans and felt attractions to guys and girls both, I figured out what matters to me. I haven't 'made it' with a guy but if that is where I find love then I'm going for it I'm quite nearly asexual, so that part of a relationship hardly matters to me compared to most people but I am willing to try to make a partner happy that way for their sake since my happiness in tied in with theirs To tell my whole story so that you could understand it would take a book so I won't go there in this post. Just accept your feelings as valid and let your heart take you to the places where nothing else can 1 Link to comment
DavidMW Posted April 25, 2013 Share Posted April 25, 2013 I was overweight as a teen. Link to comment
littlehunter Posted May 5, 2013 Share Posted May 5, 2013 The power of suggestion is quite ahem.. powerful haha. That's why it took me ages to realise I was gay (I was 17), but looking back on it I've always liked other boys, even as a child when I knew hardly nothing about sex. Back then, of course I did not see it as anything sexual, nor did I have the word for it. I knew of gay people of course (my mum had briefly 'told me' about them when I was a kid (bless her). She said, "well, there are some men who like other men instead of women, and those men are called homosexuals". The funny thing is, because she didn't mention women I was convinced for a long time that homosexuality was something that could only "affect" men... Link to comment
Jennifer Funshine Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 I've always held an interest in both sexes, growing up. Predominantly, my interest was for women and I did my best to be a presentable "date" for the girls I was involved with. But ultimately my young, boy-ish looks and lack of self-confidence jeopardized my chances of maintaining a true girlfriend. At this time (around my late teens) I became instinctively aware of my desire to dress and be feminine in front of others guys, which I think was due to how often I was dismissed by the opposite sex. So I simply switched gender gears and accepted the cards fate had deault me to begin with. I am and will likely be a sissy baby for the rest of my life. Link to comment
Backindiapers Posted June 30, 2013 Share Posted June 30, 2013 So I'm the only one who got a certified letter in the mail stating my sexual orientation on my birth certificate? Link to comment
lilme` Posted July 29, 2013 Share Posted July 29, 2013 I figured it out when I hit puberty and girls didn't interest me in the least lol Link to comment
Backindiapers Posted July 29, 2013 Share Posted July 29, 2013 I figured it out when I hit puberty and girls didn't interest me in the least lol Link to comment
lilme` Posted July 29, 2013 Share Posted July 29, 2013 Not sure if this is prying or not but do you dress as a female in your every day life or is it only in the privacy of your home are you able to fully be yourself? Link to comment
LittleMissie Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 I always knew- one of my very first crushes was cheetarah from the Thundercats, and that Police Lady from the Gargoyles cartoon! It helped that I grew up across the street from a lesbian couple- their son was one of my childhood friends. I identify spiritually as bi-gender, but I have a female sex, and I am still almost exclusively attracted to women, so...I consider myself gay. When I came out one parent (mom) already knew, and the other (dad) was as happy as hell because he'd never have to worry about boys! 1 Link to comment
pax87 Posted November 6, 2013 Share Posted November 6, 2013 It's always been a part of me. I didn't really know until roughly 5th grade. I remember listening to what the girls paid attention to in guys. I'd look at guys only because I wanted to mimic things they did that caught a girls attention or dress the way the dressed, etc. But my interest in women was from very young. I stuck my head up a relatives shirt because I wanted to know what they had underneath. (Yes, I'm kind of into the whole chest area more than I often admit). But I realized that I looked at girls they way girls looked at guys. They'd talk about his eyes and all that, but I had never seen a guy in the same light, just girls. I guess that's the moment I had the epiphany you could say. But to answer your question, there wasn't one exact moment when I woke up and said 'ok, I'm gay'. It was a gradual understanding of who I was and realizing I prefer women. When I came out, my family was not surprised by the least. Link to comment
spankediapered Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 I was never totally sure until recently but I had suspected I was gay or bi since I was 13. While wrestling my hot jock friend Jason, I would start to get turned out but was (usually ) able to keep from gettin a hard-on. However, I vacillated back and forth for years... guys... girls... guys... girls... til' I said, "aw F*** it!! guess Link to comment
Little Girl Milly Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 I figured out I was bi when this lady became the highlight of my Saturday night TV viewings ^_^' Link to comment
nappy_on Posted January 25, 2014 Share Posted January 25, 2014 I figured out I was bi when this lady became the highlight of my Saturday night TV viewings ^_^' I have to say, I like your taste Link to comment
Jock1892 Posted January 25, 2014 Share Posted January 25, 2014 It was hard. But I am happy i did it. Link to comment
Codyboy Posted January 25, 2014 Share Posted January 25, 2014 I guess I discovered I was gay when I used to want to get my diapers changed in front of my male friends. Link to comment
Elfy Posted February 1, 2014 Share Posted February 1, 2014 I was always bi-curious for as long as i remember and then one day I did some experimenting and realised I like both Link to comment
TaliZorahFanGirl Posted February 3, 2014 Share Posted February 3, 2014 I never had an aha moment, and I still don't know. I do know one thing though. I don't care. I am in a same sex relationship right now, and I love my Abby. Before her, I was in a casual dating relationship with a guy who was awesome. I can't imagine someone being after Abby, but I do know that long before I even consider parts, I need to be attracted to the person, mind, body and soul. Link to comment
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