When are you too old?

[mavfan]

This may be off topic but here is a question. How old is too old for bottom anal sex? Is it always safe? Do people do it in their nineties?

[Snugglebear_69]

If you engage in proper prep and use enough lubricant than age is not an issue.

[ValentinesStuff]

8 hours ago, mavfan said:

This may be off topic but here is a question. How old is too old for bottom anal sex? Is it always safe? Do people do it in their nineties?

When you are dead!

[Young1]

Honestly age is just a number, but I agree with @Snugglebear_69. And if you got the drive and still got action in your soul then hey good for you! 

[bbtwin]

your never to old to bottom out.

 

[mavfan]

Thanks everyone for your reply. I turned 70 and although I am not very active (except for porn and my palm) , I do wonder if I get lucky some day, physically how safe is it? I don't want to tear my rectum from a nice cock fucking me. 

[Young1]

23 hours ago, mavfan said:

Thanks everyone for your reply. I turned 70 and although I am not very active (except for porn and my palm) , I do wonder if I get lucky some day, physically how safe is it? I don't want to tear my rectum from a nice cock fucking me. 

Well with enough lube, things shouldn't rip, but it could happen, and I would think its still pretty safe... as long as you clean out before hand I don't see any issues. 

[dondl2]

and if you think he is too big you can suck him

[Diapered Dave]

When he pulls out, and your colon come out too... Well then you might be to old. ?

[Mars.inDiapers]

Lol, there are people who are into that too. It even has a name, and is its own genre of pornography.

Rule 34 ..

[Rachel1]

Im bi  never been bottomed just used my dildo plenty lube but i supose the real thing is better.

[Snugglebear_69]

The real thing is sooooooo much better ?

[~Brian~]

On 2/26/2023 at 10:12 PM, Snugglebear_69 said:

The real thing is sooooooo much better ?

@Snugglebear_69

I would specifically agree with that statement! Anything that you can do that is real is more enjoyable because you can do it with your partner, and you feel the touch and you can interact with that person. If you cannot do it with a person, and you are living by yourself, then you can use other ways to be able to pleasure yourself. In my case, this is important because sometimes I get really really tight, and sometimes what happens is I start to lock up when i'm really tight so making sure that I have a way to be able to release is appropriate for me because it will help me to relax.

Also as I have told my late grandmother on many occasions when she was alive: you're only as old as you feel, And as far as I can tell, you are never too old to have have fun! you may have physical limitations as far as how you do that fun, but you're never too old to have fun!

Sometimes having a disability really stinks, because you don't have control over some of your bodily functions, or how your body reacts, but one of the things that I always try to do is to not let it bother me, because it's not something that I can control, and it's a part of my disability. many times when I have an issue, such as for example, my right hand will shake when i'm holding something. Sometimes the tremor goes all the way up my right arm and I'm sitting there holding something, and I can't control the shaking. The only way that I can mitigate that is to grab the object that I'm holding and hold it super tight, and then wait for the tremor to pass. 

Brian

[foreverdl]

On 2/19/2023 at 8:25 AM, Diapered Dave said:

When he pulls out, and your colon come out too... Well then you might be to old. ?

I would strongly agree with you , till then have fun. When safe

[foreverdl]

8 hours ago, Smores said:

I don’t think there is an age limit. Personally, I have always felt a certain attraction to other men. As long as I have that feeling, no shame and good intentions, I don't think it is ever a bad time to have a same sex partner and be romantic. 🙂

I did some experimentation way back when I was a teen, and then it was soo bad of a thing to even think about same sex, that I just said to myself I need to get rid of the desires to do any of that. I am now old and really have strong wants to have the experience , my wife of 28 yrs has not been able to have sex for over 15 yrs due to past cancer. As much as I really want it, all I can do is play and self pleasure, I would never want to hurt my wife, so I go in my play bedroom and play and imagine I have a guy with me. 

[Young1]

There are alot of straight men that have wanted to do things with men but never have the opportunity to or are married and have affairs. 

But there is no age limit to what you can and can't do, as long as your safe about it.

[foreverdl]

40 minutes ago, Smores said:

I think you're correct, at least for me. I have only had sex with women, however, I do find some guys extremely attractive/sexy but I have never gone all the way except when, unfortunately, I was raped as a kid by someone twice my age. I don't think that that experience made me "like" other guys. I am just not afraid to admit that another guy is attractive or cute when I see him! 🙃 For example, I called Joey Cuties a "cutie pie" teehee! 🤭

I have a medical background and know that sometimes these things happen. Please do not feel ashamed. You have a considerable circumstance and if not anyone else, I understand every word you wrote. All is well!

Thanks it's good to talk with others that understand me. I love this site. And I have found myself looking at guys more , I like a body for its shape, but I find myself thinking soo much more about what is between a guys legs. If I was a cheating type I would have already tried it. I am very sorry about you being raped that is not something anyone ever wants to go through .

[Young1]

Yeah being raped isn't good that's for sure and im sorry that happened to you, but don't let that define you, not all men are like that and you have the ability to control what happens, gay bars are a good way to just mingle and break out of your shell so to speak, and get comfortable around guys again, 

 

[Rue Rue]

God. I just realized I typed this and didn't answer your question directly. Please pardon me. I am kind of fresh here. It is too much if it hurts you or them to the point you'd rather get off yourself and they tell you the reason why is because you are hurting them. Or as some funny person said "Rip Out Their Colon" 😄 Crazy, lol

I don't think I would ever be too old. It is like vaginal sex. You never really are too old at a certain point when you are beyond Romeo & Juliet laws. I cannot talk about that here. We were both kids still, 13 and I was 14 so I was starting high school I was so scared of middle schoolers that I broke up with everyone who I knew from middle school except for another guy I was close with.  We were just experimenting with sexual activity. I am a late bloomer, but we were both like going through puberty. I was so confused with every rule and stuff, so I didn't tell anyone I had a boyfriend because it was easier than having a girl who's dad was always watching us. If you are both adults and somewhat close in age, there is no worry: Remember the Romeo and Juliet law... But when I was a teenager I didn't even know. I never knew about sex like that, and I was scared that even touching my girlfriend or boyfriend would make someone pregnant. We never really talked about sex in my house, and I never wanted to do sex either. But I learned about it over the years and developed certain feelings. I was never too old for sex. What happened is I waited a while. Till I was 23 to have the most exiting moment of my sexual life, with my boyfriend, and then a girlfriend. I told her before going in that I like men, a lot. So, I was a toy for a while tossing between both. I was not intending to be that way, but I felt like I prefer to have a child, but understand other guys better, and I still do. I never ran into that mindset, "Am I too Old". It is really up to what you would like to do with who you are with. Like, my last boyfriend, we never even planned to be on the floor, and it happened. I always planned with my girlfriend, so I stopped calling her, lol, planning was hard!

See, all that just to not even reach the point... But at least everyone knows a bit more about who I am, lol. 

Edited July 13, 2023 by Rue Rue
I am telling more about myself and acknowledge it is a bit off topic.