Shaven down below

[Dubious]

The biggest issue I have with hair removal is;  Where do you stop shaving?

I just don't shave anything anymore.
I trim my beard, and I trim my pubic area. 
I mainly got a beard cause I got fed up shaving, but I would like to be hairless down there, but its not worth the effort.

[Little Cub Pants]

51 minutes ago, Spiderman said:

Agreed working in retail doesn't give me the money to do such a thing

Why do YOU work in retail big buddy, I've ALWAYS wondered about that????☺️?♥️???????♥️?

[Spiderman]

1 hour ago, BabySpiderBoy said:

Why do YOU work in retail big buddy, I've ALWAYS wondered about that????☺️?♥️???????♥️?

I work there because it the moment it is the only job I feel I am qualified for and after 24 years of doing it the job I feel most comfortable in.

[Dubious]

11 minutes ago, Spiderman said:

I work there because it the moment it is the only job I feel I am qualified for and after 24 years of doing it the job I feel most comfortable in.

After 24 years you should have a decent/good salary, but often employees don't dare to ask for raises so they stay at minimum wage forever.

[Spiderman]

13 minutes ago, Dubious said:

After 24 years you should have a decent/good salary, but often employees don't dare to ask for raises so they stay at minimum wage forever.

Actually I was promoted to a manager after I moved here to Westmont.  That, and a apartment the costs 1,346 dollars will definitely not work on what they are paying people below management.

Well that and having my big sister co sign for the apartment.

[Little Cub Pants]

1 hour ago, Spiderman said:

I work there because it the moment it is the only job I feel I am qualified for and after 24 years of doing it the job I feel most comfortable in.

What do you MEAN it's the ONLY job you feel qualified for?! I'm sure there's other jobs you're MORE than qualified for buddy. You're a pretty smart guy.???☺️?♥️??♥️????????

[Spiderman]

11 minutes ago, BabySpiderBoy said:

What do you MEAN it's the ONLY job you feel qualified for?! I'm sure there's other jobs you're MORE than qualified for buddy. You're a pretty smart guy.???☺️?♥️??♥️????????

I appreciate the complete little buddy, but I am just not a smart guy.

[Little Cub Pants]

30 minutes ago, Spiderman said:

I appreciate the complete little buddy, but I am just not a smart guy.

What are you talking about Buddy?! yes you are! Don't let ANYBODY tell you otherwise!??☺️ Don't sell yourself short. And maybe it was your daddy's bitichy ex-girlfriend that told you that, but that's NOT TRUE! You're a smart guy buddy and I DON'T wanna see you settle for less when you DON'T have to. Don't let that bitchy ex-girlfriend take anymore away from you than she already has! I'd HATE to see that happen to you.????????☹️?

[rusty pins]

These days to get a top job you either have to work your way up over the years or have a degree in whatever profession you apply for.  That's the simple fact.  When you think of it, the management and higher paying jobs available will draw a lot of applicants and while I have seen college graduates with degrees know less than an experienced employee with years on the job, it really doesn't matter just how smart someone is when they have a huge pool of people with degrees all competing for the same job to choose from.  Without the degree, you stand little chance.

[~Brian~]

15 minutes ago, rusty pins said:

These days to get a top job you either have to work your way up over the years or have a degree in whatever profession you apply for.  That's the simple fact.  When you think of it, the management and higher paying jobs available will draw a lot of applicants and while I have seen college graduates with degrees know less than an experienced employee with years on the job, it really doesn't matter just how smart someone is when they have a huge pool of people with degrees all competing for the same job to choose from.  Without the degree, you stand little chance.

@rusty pins

I would agree with Rusty here: in the competitive job market, most of the people that have jobs that are higher level management have higher degrees. For example even, when I was a kid, physical therapist was a physical therapist. There was no physical therapy assistant, no doctor and physical therapy required, and there was not as much “specialization“ in the medical field as there is now. For example, a nurse can be an RN, with a specialization in pediatrics, an RN with a specialty in anesthesiology, an RN with a specialist classification in women’s Health, and the list goes on and on and on and on.

30 years ago, a person got their degree, and there was no specialization to the point that they have now. This is not to say that that was a bad thing today, because there are a lot of different individuals that go to school for a longer period of time, which requires a lot more study, which requires a lot more specifications, and a lot more to keep their certifications active legal and current. Even in my dad’s profession, 42 years ago, when he was a mechanic, he was going to school for different classifications:  He became ASE certified, and then there was a whole plethora of classification under that, such as air conditioning, engines, exhaust systems, and a whole bunch of different stuff. I’m not even sure if I’m right as far as the auto mechanics bit, but I know that my dad spent many a week or a month in school to be able to better himself in his job. My dad requested tired at about 65, And DAD will be 76 in November, so my dad will have probably been retired 11 years. I’m proud of every thing that my dad has been able to do for himself, and how he better himself, my dad now has issues of his own, but every day I see my dad, it makes me happy because I know that he is doing what he wants to do, even when he deals with his struggles.

I am a very very lucky man. Ever since I was born, I don’t think anyone ever thought that I would amount to a hill of beans. Of course, a parent will tell you that they love you, that they want the best for you, and they raise you and treat you with love and respect, and they help you, and do things for you, and support you. Or at least that’s what is supposed to happen. All through your schooling career, you do everything they ask you to, you end up running into bumps in the road, can you find a ways around it. Being that I am almost 50 myself this month coming up, I don’t think anybody ever expected me to be a graduate of elementary school, a graduate of high school, and a graduate of a bachelors program in general business. I am very proud of this degree, I worked my ass off for it, and I don’t care what someone says: Rusty: can you believe that my mother actually said to me and I quote “ you wasted four years of your life in college for your degree… What are you using it for??  I honestly felt like slapping my mom hard, because that was an insult to my ability to function as an individual: when you work your butt off all the way through school, and they tell you that you will get somewhere if You you try your best, push for your rewards, and work hard,  you get that type of Response and you wonder “what the hell?”

Through my life I’ve been told to excel: push to my extreme limit sometimes, and challenge to do things that might not be exactly easy, but they teach me a lot of things about how to function in life: I am very very lucky that I have had very good parents for 50 years of my life, and they’ve been there for me all the way down the line. Sometimes I wonder whether they think I made the right decision, but I know I made the decision that I wanted to make, and I am not nor would I, or will I allow someone to take that away from me!

The problem is, in the Working world, they always find a way to “blackball somebody” without actually giving a reason: they may say something like “you have a good résumé will keep you on file” and “give us a call in a week and we’ll see where we are”. While in the back of the interviewers mind he might say something like “this guys got Hazel eyes and brown hair or black hair, and I don’t like it “. Of course, they could not just refuse to hire me, and use that as an excuse, or they could get sued. But they could decide to hire me or not hire me for whatever cause they determine just, so long as they don’t state it if it was for something that was considered illegal. Being that I am disabled, I’ve always had trouble trying to get jobs, working for others, they try to put my skills to the best use possible: I’ve always tried to do the best I could, I’ve always had to start at the bottom and work up, or have menial job skills: people tell me that data entry work is “entry level“ work, but when I go back to my college, and have them work on my résumé, and they make it look like a professional looking document with cover letter, then I go back to the employment specialist, they cut my résumé down and take out 90% of the experience that I end up using, simply because I was not “paid“ for that experience.

If I had to “get paid” every single time that I had a job, for someone to “count it as an experience”, my life would suck. I have had so much fun with my computers, my websites, my server, helping people fix computers, and most of this work I do because I like it, I love it, I enjoy it, I understand it, and everybody else seems to think that the best jobs for me are the ones that are the lowest possible jobs on the totem pole, simply because I have large gaps in my résumé, it doesn’t look like I have experience. One thing that I wish people would do it still allow someone who they don’t think has experience, to be able to prove it, that they do have the experience, or be able to prove that they are willing to learn. I got a job with my family business at one point, Because I kept on turning it down, thinking I could do better, and guess what?: I couldn’t go in so I made a couple of requests, got them filled, and I worked for the company for two years, and then left because the company shut down: the only reason that I have a job now as a volunteer, is because the person who put me in that seat believes in my ability to do the job, Knows of how I do my job, knows I have integrity, and knows that I am honest and trustworthy- sometimes I wish that they would use some of those attributes as part of their decision making processes, rather than to worry about having a 30 year career, and how much time is between jobs. Some guys like me, we try hard, we try to knock on doors, and do the things that everybody else is done for the last 50 years, and guess what, I didn’t get a job that way: I got a job because I knew someone who wanted my skills, new of my skills, knew of my integrity, and knew that I could be trusted! They didn’t look at a résumé, and judge the distance or the amount of time between jobs: they knew what they wanted, they knew what they were getting, and we made things happen: I am very very focused when I am in working mode, and I don’t take prisoners!

I wonder some days if guys like me, if I was 20 years younger, and had it to do over, whether I would be able to get the jobs I’ve held again, or if I would be able to have chances for different jobs. Part of the problem that I see it is, because of a disability, that can cause an issue for me. For example, @DailyDidoes his website, and other things to keep himself busy, and help himself support himself.  Just because he has a disability, does not mean that he does not have the smarts to be able to do what he does, because he does: I feel the same way: just because you’re disabled doesn’t mean that you’re not smart, and don’t have the skill: sometimes I think that a lot of the good people are passed over simply because of a disability, and not because they do not have the training or the experience – sometimes even the best candidate is one that does not have any experience, and is willing to learn the trade, which is what I tried to do a couple times myself – back in 1992 I finally decided that I was going to stop looking for work, because too hard for me, because I don’t have or didn’t have the experience necessary, and I need to get college underneath my belt. Even once that was complete, I never actually got a job anywhere other than in temporary agencies, even though temporary agencies are the best jobs I’ve had!

my parents used to say “don’t look a gift horse in the mouth“: and they are right: we are all special people, we have our strengths and our weaknesses, and we have things that make us special, and wanted, and needed.: Hopefully somebody will understand this and continue to understand it, because there are a lot of us that are out of work, and probably could go back to work, but for the fact that some of them are worried about maybe losing something, or something else.

I think the best type of an individual for a job is the one that wants to learn, shows an aptitude, has experience, or is just wanting to learn, and willing to learn a trade: this way, you can be trained in a specific way, learn from that, and once trained use that skill to be able to do your job better. Sometimes being trained by someone is a lot easier than having to study and worry about it, because you can learn from someone who understands: some of the best people that I know are ones that are willing to give it out shot, and ones that are willing to work hard!

my very favorite job that I’ve ever had other than my family business job: I was working for the state of Vermont in a professional regulation office in MONTPELIER VT.  We used to deal with licensing for different professions, and I met whole bunch of awesome investigators, state police officers, the state archivist, my boss, the Secretary of State, the The deputy secretaries of state, and had a awesome interaction with people at the state house, because I was able to interact with people coming in, and learn how to stay remote works. I even got a history lesson from the former state archivist, who taught me that wherever he goes, the state archives go - they are now in Middlesex Vermont, where the state archivist has his office and storage facilities.

what was your favorite job: what was your least favorite job: feel free to elaborate!

Brian

[Spiderman]

21 hours ago, BabySpiderBoy said:

What are you talking about Buddy?! yes you are! Don't let ANYBODY tell you otherwise!??☺️ Don't sell yourself short. And maybe it was your daddy's bitichy ex-girlfriend that told you that, but that's NOT TRUE! You're a smart guy buddy and I DON'T wanna see you settle for less when you DON'T have to. Don't let that bitchy ex-girlfriend take anymore away from you than she already has! I'd HATE to see that happen to you.????????☹️?

Yeah my mom says the same thing about being negative.

However, I think your referring to my abusive ex-step mom.  Who is one of the main reasons for my depression which in turn led to wearing diapers for a feeling of security.

Now as for my ex-girlfriend.  The only thing she is guilty of us not telling me she was still married.  Which was a really big thing because that ended the relationship because I don't want to be going out with a person I can't trust.

[Little Cub Pants]

7 hours ago, Spiderman said:

Yeah my mom says the same thing about being negative.

However, I think your referring to my abusive ex-step mom.  Who is one of the main reasons for my depression which in turn led to wearing diapers for a feeling of security.

Now as for my ex-girlfriend.  The only thing she is guilty of us not telling me she was still married.  Which was a really big thing because that ended the relationship because I don't want to be going out with a person I can't trust.

Yeah, Thanks for clarifying that. LOL! I was referring to your abusive stepmother, NOT your ex-girlfriend. LOL! That's a VERY important distinction. Anyway, I think you get my point. LOL!???????♥️?

Which by the way, I STILL am sorry that you went through that type of hell as a kid. I can't IMAGINE going through that. When I first hear that story, it made my blood boiled because I was SO mad. LOL!

[Little Cub Pants]

On 4/22/2022 at 3:53 PM, ~Brian~ said:

@BabySpiderBoy

Yes, I can walk with a walker, but use my chair most times because of my legs and knees causing problems   I also do it for safety and peace of mind

Problem: and I am sure your Big Brother @Spiderman would agree:  It costs a LOT of money, and can sometimes NOT be as effective at removing all of the hair and keeping it off!

Brian

I wonder why, I ALWAYS thought it should be effective at removing all of your body hair, considering you're LITERALLY lasering all of It off and burning the hair follicles that create the hair. I have NO IDEA even with that surgery how the hair follicles manage to come back. LOL!?? especially considering that laser hair removal is a VERY expensive process. If what you say is true @~Brian~ then I can DEFINITELY say that it wouldn't be worth it.? Although, I WISH it was way more effective at getting rid of body hair, and it would ESPECIALLY be good for my big brother @Spiderman and make him WAY MORE babyish! And I think he would definitely like it, especially if he only had to get it one time, and one time only. And then he'd be like, "You're ABSOLUTELY right little buddy, I enjoyed that VERY much!"?☺️???♥️??????????♥️?????????♥️??✨?????

[Spiderman]

13 hours ago, BabySpiderBoy said:

I wonder why, I ALWAYS thought it should be effective at removing all of your body hair, considering you're LITERALLY lasering all of It off and burning the hair follicles that create the hair. I have NO IDEA even with that surgery how the hair follicles manage to come back. LOL!?? especially considering that laser hair removal is a VERY expensive process. If what you say is true @~Brian~ then I can DEFINITELY say that it wouldn't be worth it.? Although, I WISH it was way more effective at getting rid of body hair, and it would ESPECIALLY be good for my big brother @Spiderman and make him WAY MORE babyish! And I think he would definitely like it, especially if he only had to get it one time, and one time only. And then he'd be like, "You're ABSOLUTELY right little buddy, I enjoyed that VERY much!"?☺️???♥️??????????♥️?????????♥️??✨?????

Nah my wet and messy diaper but would still think it is to expensive.  Especially when my lease comes up.

[Little Cub Pants]

3 hours ago, Spiderman said:

Nah my wet and messy diaper but would still think it is to expensive.  Especially when my lease comes up.

When your sister cosigned for half of the apartment, DOESN'T that mean that she technically owns half of the apartment too?????♥️??

[Spiderman]

On 4/23/2022 at 10:16 AM, BabySpiderBoy said:

Why do YOU work in retail big buddy, I've ALWAYS wondered about that????☺️?♥️???????♥️?

In a way it means she is legally obligated to pay if on am default on the rent.  It is a way to guarantee that the rent will be paid because she has a better credit rating then me.

[Little Cub Pants]

2 minutes ago, Spiderman said:

In a way it means she is legally obligated to pay if on am default on the rent.  It is a way to guarantee that the rent will be paid because she has a better credit rating then me.

Why does she have a BETTER credit rating than you buddy????

[Spiderman]

She has a better job and since she is married the duel income helps.

[Little Cub Pants]

5 minutes ago, Spiderman said:

She has a better job and since she is married the duel income helps.

What does she do for a living????

[Spiderman]

6 minutes ago, BabySpiderBoy said:

What does she do for a living????

She is a manager at one of the banks in downtown Chicago. 

[Little Cub Pants]

4 minutes ago, Spiderman said:

She is a manager at one of the banks in downtown Chicago. 

Oh wow! That's VERY cool!?☺️?♥️???????♥️?

[gmcchamp99]

My Momma prefers that I remain baby smooth. It aids in clean up as well as goes hand in hand with me being her baby boy. It also makes wearing my chastity cage a breeze.

[Lost Little Neppy]

I usually trim down there, but have taken to shaving due to stress incontinence. And damn, does it itch.

[Dubious]

Hair itch too, but not as much as being shaven... so if you gonna shave, you have to shave at least every other day.

Pubic and facial is the hair that grow the fastest, from experience, not science. 

[babykuri]

I'm not shaven below the waist or my legs. Mostly because with my health issues I cant bend for long periods. I also have coarse hair so I get bad razor burn.   If I had a big willing to help I'd be okay being shaved.