Spargano Posted January 17, 2014 Share Posted January 17, 2014 Wrong! I went to the doctor recently for a physical. I was scared when I saw my lab results and kidney issues so I talked to my mother-in-law. She and I are very close and I told her about my concerns about the kidney and wondered if they were related to my other problems. This was how I told her and came clean to her that I wear diapers. She was very supportive, but what she told me was very surprising. Link to comment
babyleanna75 Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 My mom had no idea when I came clean. She didnt know I was wearing them. Link to comment
DavidMW Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 Based on just a single data point, I don't think 3 Link to comment
rusty pins Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 I think it's more probable that someone close to you will know more than just a stranger in a store or on the street. Link to comment
Spargano Posted January 18, 2014 Author Share Posted January 18, 2014 I would not argue with any of your assessments, I simply meant there will be people who can tell. My question at the end of my post was what I was more interested in, people telling you they already knew when you tell them or people (rare) confronting you about it. Spargano Link to comment
rusty pins Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 I have a DL friend here who I first knew from messaging with him on a diaper site for a couple years. Link to comment
Nat Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 I could tell my ex boyfriend was wearing one the moment I saw him in person. But if I didn't know him, I may not have known and I would have just thought his huge butt and penis area is part of him being fat. People don't know unless they are expecting someone to wear one. Link to comment
ylowrvr Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 My wife can tell if I'm wearing a diaper when I'm sitting down. Link to comment
Dubious Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 Most people don't care and I don't care either I try to hide it as best as I can, but what happens, happens Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted January 18, 2014 Share Posted January 18, 2014 probably a better question to ask is 'how many people have you personally detected that were wearing a diaper?' Link to comment
Dubious Posted January 19, 2014 Share Posted January 19, 2014 I have never seen anyone wearing, excluding toddlers Link to comment
Nat Posted January 19, 2014 Share Posted January 19, 2014 I once suspected a six or seven year old girl wearing when I was thirteen. She was wearing tight shorts and her butt looked like something a toddler would have. I also noticed it more with elderlies. It's obvious when they are diapered and it's hard to not notice it. I have never suspected a younger adult wearing them. Link to comment
Spargano Posted January 19, 2014 Author Share Posted January 19, 2014 I mean no disrespect, but unless it's obvious on someone, I don't think we would notice in crowd, but people that are near to you or giving you the once over might , after all of the several million Americans wearing diapers I doubt a large percentage of them are wearing thick diapers like an abena m4 and b. of those I don't know that that many are ambulatory, so seeing someone diapered like us would be very rare I think. That doesn't make us invisible and one of the reason discreet diapers like tena are so nice. That was the first time my wife looked and me and said, arent you going to wear a diaper and I said, I am . Spargano Link to comment
Nat Posted January 20, 2014 Share Posted January 20, 2014 I keep reading about IC that a thinner diaper does not mean better diaper. So I assume most IC people would go for a thin diaper and then deal with leaks and more changes. I have never seen anyone with wet pants on their buttocks. Link to comment
Baby Drew Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 My girlfriend who changes my nappies for me on a fairly regular basis assures me that when I'm wearing under a pair of jeans that it's not noticeable. Whether she is just being nice or not I don't know, but I'd like to think she would tell the truth. Link to comment
babyleanna75 Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 The trick to wearing without someone knowing you are wearing a diaper is baggy pants or pants that are a little big on you and a tshirt that is a size or two larger than you actually wear. My mom had no Idea that I wore for iC and I had been wearing 3 years before I told her. She is IC to. And some of my friends that I told about my diapers didn't believe me when I told them that I wear diapers for IC untill I showed them the top of my diaper. It would take well trained I to even guess that I wear diapers. Link to comment
Midwest Babygirl Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 I keep reading about IC that a thinner diaper does not mean better diaper. So I assume most IC people would go for a thin diaper and then deal with leaks and more changes. I have never seen anyone with wet pants on their buttocks. Most IC people don't want to feel like a baby. Link to comment
Nat Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 The trick to wearing without someone knowing you are wearing a diaper is baggy pants or pants that are a little big on you and a tshirt that is a size or two larger than you actually wear. My mom had no Idea that I wore for iC and I had been wearing 3 years before I told her. She is IC to. And some of my friends that I told about my diapers didn't believe me when I told them that I wear diapers for IC untill I showed them the top of my diaper. It would take well trained I to even guess that I wear diapers. Does your mom wear them too? Link to comment
CanadianDL Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 Spargano, sounds like you have a really good MIL. Being IC I've gone through that exact thin diaper stage with leaks, trying to change every 2-3 hours, etc. I finally got tired of it and said this is silly and now I wear the plastic Molicare Super Pluses and man what a difference. Can you tell if you look closely, yup. But hey, if people want to look at my butt let them look, at least it won't be wet Link to comment
Little BabyDoll Christine Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 Big deal Link to comment
DavidMW Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 But hey, if people want to look at my butt let them look, at least it won't be wet Link to comment
babyleanna75 Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 Does your mom wear them too? she wears pullups Link to comment
Spargano Posted January 23, 2014 Author Share Posted January 23, 2014 Spargano, sounds like you have a really good MIL. Being IC I've gone through that exact thin diaper stage with leaks, trying to change every 2-3 hours, etc. I finally got tired of it and said this is silly and now I wear the plastic Molicare Super Pluses and man what a difference. Can you tell if you look closely, yup. But hey, if people want to look at my butt let them look, at least it won't be wet Exactly! It's about being comfortable in your own skin And yes I have a great MIL, a rarity but one I am aware of and appropriately grateful But she is very observant, my wife told me she asked her when we were dating, "have you noticed he never needs to go to the bathroom?" She's a little detective putting context clues and observations together to deduce I wore diapers. My wife said she could not tell even when I told her and as others have sAid most people cannot tell. My point originally was to say some people can and as others have pointed out, "who cares" I was looking for interesting stories of coming out or being discovered, not arguing whether we are invisible , still I am glad there is discussion Spargano Link to comment
Fulldiaper Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 Detecting a diaper bulge also depends on someones vocation. Take for example someone the works with special needs adults and changes briefs daily, they have a sixth sense. Medical personnel, nurses,CNA's etc. Link to comment
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