Incontinent Jennifer Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 I go online, I share something positive that happened to me, and I tried to help some people. What I got back was crap. It didn't happen here on this message board, in fact, this is the only one where I was treated with kindness and respect. I need to go to bed, Link to comment
getinMyboxfox Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 I go online, I share something positive that happened to me, and I tried to help some people. What I got back was crap. It didn't happen here on this message board, in fact, this is the only one where I was treated with kindness and respect. I need to go to bed, well how nice that we were nice to someone Link to comment
belinda_sue_fox Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 I go online, I share something positive that happened to me, and I tried to help some people. What I got back was crap. It didn't happen here on this message board, in fact, this is the only one where I was treated with kindness and respect. I need to go to bed, Yes this is a nice forum, there a load of people who are the proverbial zimmer frame Link to comment
missyD Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 I go online, I share something positive that happened to me, and I tried to help some people. What I got back was crap. It didn't happen here on this message board, in fact, this is the only one where I was treated with kindness and respect. I need to go to bed, It is such a shame that people ARE jerks....I have stopped chatting because people just seem to want to hur others. It is too bad, because there are such lovely wonderful people out there too. Missy Link to comment
getinMyboxfox Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 It is such a shame that people ARE jerks....I have stopped chatting because people just seem to want to hur others. It is too bad, because there are such lovely wonderful people out there too.Missy thats a shame missy, I know a couple of classy people you could chat with Link to comment
Kanji Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 Man where was that message that she shared? I was obviously not around that day to share my jerkish jerkness. Link to comment
Ineedachangin Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 I go online, I share something positive that happened to me, and I tried to help some people. What I got back was crap. It didn't happen here on this message board, in fact, this is the only one where I was treated with kindness and respect. I need to go to bed, Jennifer....don't let it get you that upset. It's easy for people to bully others in a forum when they can hide behind a computer screen. It's nothing new on the WWW. One of the sites I visit every day is a drag racing site. It's easy for them to rip on a team and say unfounded things but when one of the owners comes on and calls them out... guess what????? They shrivle up and change thier tone. Hang in there, your friends will understand and the rest...well you are what you are, you can't change it. Link to comment
Diaper666 Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 I go online, I share something positive that happened to me, and I tried to help some people. What I got back was crap. It didn't happen here on this message board, in fact, this is the only one where I was treated with kindness and respect. I need to go to bed, man i do the same thing and i play a game called Magic The Gathering:Online and i try and help the new people on the server and every time i try and help them ill get these jerks that just start dissing us and make him or me mad so i know the felling you aint the only one thats had that to happen to Link to comment
Incontinent Jennifer Posted May 15, 2006 Author Share Posted May 15, 2006 man i do the same thing and i play a game called Magic The Gathering:Online and i try and help the new people on the server and every time i try and help them ill get these jerks that just start dissing us and make him or me mad so i know the felling you aint the only one thats had that to happen to I'm just not any good at letting it roll off my back. I read them to Jeff... After each one, he kissed me and said "I love you!" I feel safer here, with the "freaks" that the other message boards hate so much. Why do they hate you guys so much? They spend a LOT of time bad mouthing you guys. Link to comment
val onwheels Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 From what i see is everyone was happy for you after reading your post.It bought tears to my eyes.Because it reminded me of the times i had till i found an accpeting b/f. Link to comment
Kanji Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 Chat is pretty much evil... Even if people do care the others (Such as myself) are going to ruin it with talks of stuff that annoy them, trying to create drama. But you know what? Its a chat room, topics shouldn't be condensed to one subject. If I want to talk about how bull shit my day was, then I should. I'm a jerk, I know, but seriously I'm not out to offend others, others are just offended too easily. Link to comment
diaprbayb Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 I'm a jerk, I know, but seriously I'm not out to offend others, others are just offended too easily. How could you say something like That! I thought we were friends. Link to comment
digger58610 Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 hi jennifer its funny i came across your story on the incontinence board your speaking of. i saw some of the responces they left to you. ive seen them bash others the same way. dont let them bother you, they not only have to wear diapers,,, they have a stick up there asses too. on another thread, they ask "do we owe the ab/dl world anything?" as far as im concerned they do. almost everyone of them have visited a forum like this, that makes them hipocrits. the folks here dont seem to judge you, and are kind for the most part. theres lurkers on every board, so dont take it to heart. there are people in this world, that think there a step above everyone. Link to comment
dlsmd Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 hi jenniferits funny i came across your story on the incontinence board your speaking of. i saw some of the responces they left to you. ive seen them bash others the same way. dont let them bother you, they not only have to wear diapers,,, they have a stick up there asses too. on another thread, they ask "do we owe the ab/dl world anything?" as far as im concerned they do. almost everyone of them have visited a forum like this, that makes them hipocrits. the folks here dont seem to judge you, and are kind for the most part. theres lurkers on every board, so dont take it to heart. there are people in this world, that think there a step above everyone. varry true Link to comment
iowaincon Posted May 23, 2006 Share Posted May 23, 2006 When I became incontinent about 5 years ago, I was able to find more good information about what works on the AB/DL sites than on the incontinent sites. I find that most of the people on the incontinent sites just want to whine and cry about being incontinent, and not discuss real solutions to getting back to a normal life with incontinence. The incontinent people who have accepted that they are incon, and they aren't going to let it slow them down, can be found here, and on other AB/DL boards, because people talk to each other here, not just whine. I think that some people who are incontinent and can't deal with it are jealous of the people like us, who are incontinent, and just take it in stride, or the people who actually enjoy wearing diapers. It really make me mad when you go somewhere for support, and all you get is more abuse. I am sorry that you had to go through that, just hang out here where we are friendly, and stay away from whiny jerks. Link to comment
Ronaldwet Posted May 26, 2006 Share Posted May 26, 2006 I go online, I share something positive that happened to me, and I tried to help some people. What I got back was crap. It didn't happen here on this message board, in fact, this is the only one where I was treated with kindness and respect. I need to go to bed, You are family to most of us.I am your friend.Write me if you want. ronald.nechetsky@rcn.com Hang in there.I think your ok in my book.Ronald Link to comment
diaperedsub Posted May 27, 2006 Share Posted May 27, 2006 I wouln't worry about it to much Jennifer. Most of ther people who are jerks on-line are weaklings in real life. They only place they can be a "tough guy" is on-line where the only reprisal they have to worry about is someone typing at them. Link to comment
Mattj Posted May 27, 2006 Share Posted May 27, 2006 I go online, I share something positive that happened to me, and I tried to help some people. What I got back was crap. It didn't happen here on this message board, in fact, this is the only one where I was treated with kindness and respect. I need to go to bed, aaaw *hugs jennifer Link to comment
Guest Big Mike Posted June 1, 2006 Share Posted June 1, 2006 hi jennifer i notced u were venting my names mike and i know u got crap postin =g on depend i know im a member on there also well i fu wann chat im me on norm2782 on aim also what are u into well later Mike also im 21 and from boston ma well would like to chat more and get to know one another well night Link to comment
baby-dandan Posted June 14, 2006 Share Posted June 14, 2006 Hi Jennifer, Sorry to hear that you were treated poorly! I, like many people try to be as respectful as we can, but on the internet it is so hard to have people believe that they are being sincere and that they are who they really say are. I am not sure what to say to assure you that I'm the real deal, but I believe many people on this site are the real thing. After all, we all have come to this site for a little understanding and not to be judged or ridicualded by the "outside world". Many people would be flabergasted (I love that word) if they knew what we choose to do, but if "We" knew what other people where like we wouldn't be so quick to judge them because we know what it's like to be "different". Whether you're a DL\AB, Incontinent, Lesbian, Straight, Bedwetter, or Gay you should get the same respect as anyone! That is how I truly feel! Take Care Everyone! Link to comment
Toddler_BobbyP Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 The one thing I have learned from personal experience in chats is that it's a lot like flying a 747 with darkened windows: You don't get the whole picture. Sometimes people can launch an asinine remark and it falls back in their faces, or someone can offer a kind remark and it generates hostility. The one thing chats like this lack is the emphases on words that voice chat offers. There's not much colour to a bunch of text as there are spoken words. That's just text chat's shortcoming. Link to comment
kelley Posted June 21, 2006 Share Posted June 21, 2006 The one thing I have learned from personal experience in chats is that it's a lot like flying a 747 with darkened windows: You don't get the whole picture. Sometimes people can launch an asinine remark and it falls back in their faces, or someone can offer a kind remark and it generates hostility. The one thing chats like this lack is the emphases on words that voice chat offers. There's not much colour to a bunch of text as there are spoken words. That's just text chat's shortcoming.Yes, you are right on the money, bobby! Take for instance males who pose as females in this chat room. Give me a break! Grow some manhood and grow up. I understand the whole man trapped in the womans body thing but sheesh. Some people(you know who u are) are just milking the situation. Sissy's asside.- Do u actually get enjoyment out of posing as a wanta be female?(again u know who u are) grow some u know what and get a grip on reality!!! Link to comment
InDpnds Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 Jennifer, this is by far the best, most comprehensive site for discussion. And it's really the most user-friendly to post messages on. I have used this site for quite awhile, although my old computer died a long and painful death late May and I've had to wait to get this one. But I'm glad to see that there is still no bashing or name-calling here. You'll see many names over and over again, and thankfully, I haven't picked up any nasty vibes here. I also read the Depend site, and I think that one is pretty OK, too. I'll be looking forward to reading more of your stuff! Link to comment
Three Rivers Posted July 12, 2006 Share Posted July 12, 2006 Hang in their Jennifer, were here for you. Big Huggs Link to comment
:gremlin Posted July 13, 2006 Share Posted July 13, 2006 In the chat if some one is buging you turn off pm, and hit the Ignore button for there nick. once thay figer out thay cant mess with you thay will stop. just use the controls at the top. its simple and easy. If you do not know how to use all the controls in the chat. just ask there are ppl in the chat that will know how to use them. Link to comment
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