Does Anyone Have Any Real Life Friends That Know Your Secret?

[square_duck]

I keep this part of my life seperate from everything else. The people that know and are my friends are also AB/DL types anyways, so it's no biggie. The rest of the people in my 'regular' life have no need to know. most are conservative, so more then likely wouldn't understand, but I don't think they would judge me...just raise an eyebrow and be a bit curious....or amused Some might be more destructive with such info, so I just keep this part of my personal life to myself. Not that my underwear choices are anyone's business anyways

[Diaperfox792]

I have two very close friends who know. At one point I kind of regretted telling one of them because he claimed that he spilled the beans to his girlfriend's father (she is also my best friend of almost 30 years so I know her dad pretty well) but my best friend and I eventually figured that it was just "drunk-talk" from him and he didn't actually tell. Why the heck he would tell someone is beyond me when it's not his fetish and really not his job to be outing me. I told him not to ever do that for real because that would mean the end of our friendship. He took me seriously because he never mentions it any more. I wear around these two on a regular basis.

I have not told my family for fear of rejection/disaproval/disappointment by them. Also I have another friend who would never understand and she has no need to know. It's kind of funny in a way though because she has had problems in the past with "leaks" as she likes to say and has herself had to wear diapers to bed before. But she would never understand/approve of the DL part and I really have no excuse to wear around her if she should find out. She's on meds now that take care of her problem and wouldn't understand why someone would want to wear diapers instead of taking a pill to "fix" that kind of problem.

[Guest jeff142]

None of my friends have been told, but one good friend of my found a used diaper and sippy cup in my room, i was able to just change the topic.

The same friend also found this site in my history, i told him it was random. he dropped it..

The same friend read some text messages from me to by big (Daddy figure) , it was about buying a new pacifier, he never ask about it.

My parents both know, they don't like it, or support it, or want to see it, but they don't stop me.

[TheKid]

I suspect many of my ex room mates know though we never discussed it. Some hints were dropped - one room mate used diapers in place of widgets in an economic discussion, one lent me 'breakfast at tiffany's', one asked "do you wear depends?" To which I replied "Huh?" To which he replied "Nevermind." One friend dragged it out of me during a dinner discussion about fetishes - not my favorite admission to make in public. And I told one friend who said it was old hat had seen that long ago. My mom found one in the trash when I was younger and when I denied it, she dropped the subject. SO yeah...most people don't care to pursue the subject and I'm totally fine with that.

[babystevie]

I don't have any diaper friends and wish I did. It would be fun to just hang out with someone else in just our diapers. Male or female. Just to talk and watch TV or something.

[babystevie]

Oh, and my parents knew and even asked if I wanted them to diaper me for school & stuff. I always said no, and now I wish I had said yes.

[DLenforcer]

I've come out to more people than I probably should.

A good friend of mine from high school was the first find out. She's an "out there" kind I an artist anyway so I figured she'd be understanding. Then I told my fgirlfriend at the time and she was very open and understanding about it (at least for the first few years anyway). Then when that girlfriend and I broke up over diapers, there where a select few of my friends that I told why.

Since then, the number of people that know has snowballed to about 9. All (except for girlfriend #1) had no problem with it. No one has her brought it up with me again, but I have a feeling that instead of making things awkward by asking me questions, asking the Internet questions suffice

[Guest]

I wish I had people I could trust with this right now. It's admittedly pretty lonely. I'm just more used to that now than before so it doesn't hurt as much, but boy is it nice to imagine having an open relationship with an open minded girl about this.

Maaan, do I ever hear you on that...

My wife does know that I'm ''interested'' in diapers, but was and still is very negative about it and doesnt ever really bring it up anymore.

They don't realize how special they are to us to want to include them in on our secrets, or how happy it would make us. only good things would come from it...

[Gejoe]

There are many of my friends that know I wear diapers but none except my wife that knows of my fetish for them. My wife doesn't mine if I wear my cloth diapers or disposables to bed or anywhere but I don't do it openly around her. I do wear diapers every night and wet most of the time on purpose, she okay with that, she just doesn't want to find wet diapers laying around and will remind me if I have left one somewheres to take care of it.

[Guest darkknightindiapers]

My best friend found my unintentionaly pooped depend in the bathtub, i had went to my room to get a clean diaper and powder and he came home like 3 hours early from work. He was like what the hell ! I told him it was from being hit by the car 4 years before. He seemed to be ok if its a medical condition. He hasnt brought that day up since.

[SexyInDiapers1985]

Diapers are a sexy thing for me, so i wouldn't tell anyone that I wouldn't show my vibrator. So my ex knows, and my best friend/roommate knows. I don't think anyone else knows.

If I wore for incontinence reasons it would be a different story. Then it would just be underwear, and it would be much less embarrassing. I have been known to lift my skirt or drop my pants to show friends a cute new pair of panties, usually with some discretion but not always. It's just underwear, and even if some people get theirs in a bunch about mine, I like to show it off occasionally.

[square_duck]

Diapers are a sexy thing for me,

And I am sure you are very sexy in them!

[thick and dry]

When I was hitting puberty (13, I think)- it was hitting right back. My best friend (and still good friend) and I would just walk around, talking about stuff (no cell phones and boredom will do that, youngins!).

One night, the urge to talk about it was just killing me. I told him I liked to act like a baby (I was misguided, I simply like diapers and babying others ) He told me he thought my other friend did too, cause he acts like a goof! I thought to myself "There's no way I'm telling another friend!", so I never found out. I don't think he really understood, and doubt even more my other friend was into it.

I also told a middle school girlfriend later that year that I liked it. She was weirded out, didn't want anything to do with it.... I never found out what she was into, but we stayed together for awhile longer before we separated for outside reasons.

Besides that, my (long-term, very committed- over 2 years) girlfriend knows. She's an AB if you're curious... so we share in the fun together.

I think/ponder if either of them ever told their friends about my fetish. It used to bother me, because my old friend got really into partying, and I could just vision him telling a crowd of people while he was drunk/whatever. I worried about the ex telling her girlfriends, because well- they all talk about sex and stuff related.

I'm only adding this part as a warning to anyone thinking of telling a friend/girlfriend... it's kind of like posting a picture on the internet- once it's out, it's out for good. You can't take it back, you can only trust the person to keep your secret.. and if you ever get in a fight, or make them mad- it might stick in your head for awhile if they're 'getting back at you' by telling everyone. It's good to share your life, and even better if they want to hear about it- but you should tread lightly. There's no real way to be sure they'll keep it secret.

[battlemage]

A couple of my friends (and my roommates) know I wear because of my bedwetting, but no one (to my knowledge) knows of this side of it.

[blu4]

When I told a few really close friends that I was into BDSM that raised a few eyebrows but I don't think I would ever tell anyone about my nappy loving side, just tmi !!

[Diaper_Lover_HI]

Oh yeh have a dozen or more friends know that we like to wear diapers, it is really not a big deal anymore. It is just diapers....

[dlchemist]

I have about 4 people that know, 3 of them are ex-girlfriends, that I maintain a good friendship with. They are all into kinky stuff too so it really was no big deal. Although I have one that I'm much closer to, so much that we have even hung out while I'm wearing my diaper, even using them. I think as a rule of thumb, if they are cool with me having a butt plug, they probably will be ok with my ABDL stuff.

I'm actually about to tell me my girlfriend, she knows everything else about me, and is a very open minded person, I think it will go over well. I'm curious how involved she might become.

[gah!ghost]

When I told a few really close friends that I was into BDSM that raised a few eyebrows but I don't think I would ever tell anyone about my nappy loving side, just tmi !!

On that note I think most people I know know I'm into BDSM. I've talked about this before but BDSM is "cool" and no matter how much I want to tell myself I don't care what other people think of me I do damnit and it sucks. And the diaper fetish thing just isn't "cool" like BDSM is so it's not something I really care for people to know. When I was younger, like in my early 20s, I also used to just tell anyone that would listen all the weird shit about myself. As I got older I realized that was annoying and stupid so it's likely some of the people I have met more recently don't even know about the BDSM thing.

I've also cross dressed in public a fair bit, again when I was younger. That too always strikes me as "cool".

[Patience]

3 friends know about it and they even tried it, but stated they don't care about wearing diapers, but loved diapering me.

[binkydiaperboy]

My mommy is sure to tell everyone. It is not a matter of IF they know!!!!! Most of her friends find it humorous and will actually play along.

[~Pamperchu~]

All my real life friends, family and peole I worked with know that im an AB and wear diapers

[sidc92]

no and plan to keep it that way.

[Kayla_H]

Aside from my wife, I have 2 friends that know/ knew I wear diapers.

One is a best friend that has known about me wearing diapers and being a DL for several years now, she's seen me wearing girls Goodnights, Bambino Teddys, and Depends overnights. I told her while she was living with me when she going through a divorce and we would share the bed while I was wearing the Depends or Goodnights ( I hadn't thought about looking for ABDL diapers till in the past couple years.) She teases me about wearing diapers in the way best friends tease each other but is supportive and thinks that the girls Goodnights and Bambino Teddys look "WAY BETTER" on me than the Depends.

The other friend that I had told found out that I wore diapers one day when we were hanging out. I was trying on clothes she was getting rid of and I just decided to tell her that besides being transgender I also "needed" and liked wearing diapers. She was incredibly receptive to it and told me that she had to wear diapers and pull-ups until she was 10 and that she knew where I was coming from with enjoying wearing them. She told me that whenever I stay the night that she'd like that me to just wear my goodnights when we'd go to sleep. I never understood that part, but I was more than willing to do it. Not too long after, she started to push me to start wearing out in public and I eventually would wear my goodnights under the pants she gave me when we would go shopping or hang out with some of our other friends. Unfortunately she moved to Texas when she graduated high school and we lost touch with each other.

*side note: I can no longer wear the Goodnights thanks to my larger hips and butt. I wore the Teddys around my BF before the Bellisimos came out. I now wear the Bellisimos to bed every night and the Teddys, Biancos or Depends Silhouettes during the day... when I'm not in lady's underwear.

Hearts and love,

Kayla_H

[DocSissy]

Yes, my best friend, who lives nearby, knows about my fetish. I've even shared some of my stories with him. It's not really his thing, but at least I can discuss it openly with him.

[Eir]

I now have 3 friends that know about my ABDL side. One is very accepting, just asks me to keep the diaper talk toned down. The other two see it as a grey area. It is wrong when I endulge me cravings for images of diaper girls online, and get off on it. This is also my view as well. I have safe search on google. If I look, I can see diaper girl pics, but they are more cartoonish and really don't show anything. Ah, Cest La Vie. I have one New Years Resolution on cutting down on ABDL, WETLOOK, WAM "porn"