Kayla_H

It was a couple days ago and wasn't wearing a diaper, but I woke up with a messy bottom. I was lucky that it wasn't anything more than a brown turtle and a mild rash. Since then I've been wearing 24/7 out of paranoia.

I too have experienced this pain, but I ended up suffering through it for two weeks! I always lose track of time when I'm at the junkyard. Lol

Your welcome :-) You can also find it at Dick's or Academy Sporting Goods

Look into a product called " Body Glide." It's what a few runner friends and myself use (they don't know I run in diapers/pullups.) It's kinda like chap stick in its feel and is absorbed without any kind of unwanted mess.

I'll try not to, but I will if I'm running late for something important. Sometimes the best way to hide the smell of pee and/ or poo is to keep it on until I have a chance to jump in the shower.

My wife knows along with most of her family. She outed me a few years ago, but not in a bad way. She has a nephew that gets bowel incontinence whenever he's under a lot of stress. He had a big accident one day and none of them could console him until she brought up my bladder & bowel incontinence whenever I'm incredibly stressed. He calmed down and she asked me to come over in one of my diapers to show and talk to him. There was no big drama, just a bunch of questions by everyone and especially him. Obviously we never mentioned that I enjoy wearing them.

There is a sorority where I live where a part of the hazing process is that the pledges have to wear pull ups/ goodnights the entire pledge process. It's a good laugh to see them running around campus while trying to cover up their pull ups. lol

I pooped myself helping my aunt move today. I woke up with some bad stomach rumblings, so I put on a Bambino Teddy just to be safe. Lo and behold, I squat down (correct form for lifting ) to pick up my half of a dresser and that rumbling comes screaming back! The next thing I know I'm filling my diaper while trying to lift and carry a heavy dresser into the back of a U-Haul truck. The worst part is that I had to help finish moving AND driving the stupid truck in a stinky squishy diaper. 6 HOURS!!! OMG!!! I never wanted to take a shower so bad in my life! If it weren't for the Febreeze, I think I would have thrown up. I'm gonna have one h*** of a rash

Electrolysis is expensive, but it's truly permanent. I'm in the process of finding someone who has experience doing that area.

I've been wearing for so long that my bladder does it's own thing once I'm taped up. Most of the time it's in little spurts, but there's always a flooding after going out to eat (DARN YOU SWEET TEA!!!) lol. I know the max capacity of MOST of my diapers, and how bulky they can get (I've been surprised a few times.) To keep bulkiness in check, I have to change more frequently if I'm wearing leggings, tight jeans, or (In summer) short shorts. I think that's why I enjoy wearing in winter more. I can wear a thicker diaper and flood it to the max with all the layers I have on and nobody notices.

I want to try cloth diapers but I don't know where or what to I need to be looking for. Suggestions?

The last time I went to the movies in a diaper was to see RUSH. Me, my wife, and several friends went.I went in a Bambino Bianco since they're a lot slimmer than the Teddys and Bellisimos. We we're a little concerned about it holding everything since I always get a large drink and it was a 2 hour movie. It barely held throughout the whole thing. When we got up to leave we had to be the last couple to walk out because the bulge was so noticeable. Great movie by the way. Ron Howard is one of my favorite directors :-)

So 2~3 day? That's amazingly fast delivery! Thanks! :-)

I'm getting ready to order my first case of Bellissimos, and I was wondering what everyone's average wait time is/ has been. The sample packs always take 2 days to get to my home, but I don't expect a case to be equally as fast of a delivery.

You can ALWAYS go in public. Your diaper just might get pretty bulky and show (if that even matters to you.)

I brought mine up to my wife before we were dating. We were talking alone one night about some of our biggest secrets and my need and desire to were diapers ended up being the 2nd or 3rd I brought up. We talked about it for about half an hour and then we moved on to another one of her secrets. Ever since then it's not really a big deal unless her mother is coming over and I'm wearing or haven't tucked them away in the closet.

I had heard of the "Fabine" brand when I was looking for something better than the store shelf brands. A lot of people on a forum I came across were going crazy waiting for them to be released. I completely forgot about them once I got my first order of Bambino Classico.

I wear in public almost every day. Being exposed is going to eventually happen. One of the most recent "exposures" I had was when I was shopping at the mall. I was trying on a really cute pair of jeans at Macy's when the door to the dressing room I'm in flings wide open by this girl in her late 20's with my diaper (Bambino Teddy's) fully exposed. Her face turned beet red and she slammed the door immediately and started apologizing through the door. I was scared at first, but hearing the way the poor girl was freaking out just made me laugh. We ended up talking afterwards and I explained to her that I have to wear diapers due to a car accident that made me incontinent and that the Bambinos were a specialty brand that held a lot better than the ones in stores. This was a bold face lie, but it helped calm her nerves and that's all I really cared about after seeing how badly she freaked out.

Outside of falling asleep a little tipsy, I didn't really have an issue with nighttime wetting. That is until I decided that I would wear diapers 24/7 all of last year. I would wake up to a dry diaper for a couple moths, then out of nowhere I would wake up in the morning to a mildly wet and sometimes messy diaper. It bothered me at first, but then my wife reassured me that it was ok and that it's expected "After all, you are wearing a diaper to bed". The messing was the only real issue I had since it took so long to clean off (I ended up just jumping in the shower after a while).

I've been wearing diapers for the majority of my life so using one for it's intended purposes has never been a major issue for me. It's just that something has changed this past year that has triggered this response and it's nerve racking to know that when I have to desperately go I CAN'T because I'm not wearing a diaper at that time.I know I used to fantasize about being in diapers 24/7 when I was younger, and I did for the longest time when I got my first place, but now it's becoming difficult to cope with having to spend 5 minutes in the bathroom just trying to get pee to trickle out. Today, I was thinking about wearing cloth diapers under my "normal" underwear to see if I can train myself back to using the bathroom like "normal" people do. I cant really explain my thinking about how it may work, but the assumption goes that if I'm wearing a cloth diaper and plastic panties under my "normal" underwear that I will be able to blend the association and eventually "relearn" to use the bathroom as easily as I used to. Otherwise I'm going to talk to an urologist and see what they have to say. I've already talked to my therapist about whats going on and she said I have three basic routes that I can go. The first is to (joyously) abandon using the restroom and live in my diapers 24/7. The second is to cut down on wearing diapers, "like to once or twice a month." And the third is to stay where I'm at. Now as much as I LOVE the idea of finally wearing 24/7, there is a major setback in that I'm around my in-laws A LOT and they aren't the most understanding people on this blue & green ball. My father-in-law has 3 doctorate degrees. One in General Medicine, Another in Education, and the Third is in Mental Health Psychiatry. If he were to find out, I would get a full physical and psychological exam within the day... and he would tell his friends about me when they get drunk. I can hear the slurred insults already. My mother-in-law would freak the f*** out knowing that her daughter is with someone who wears diapers. (It's bad enough that she was traumatized from accidentally feeling and unsnapping my bra after hugging me a couple years ago. My Sister-in-law would think it's "horrid" and then she'd wanna try one on. She's the weird one. My brother-in-law would just think its funny and make some stupid jokes and move on. I don't know how effective cutting down on my time in diapers would help, but I may take it into consideration since work has slowed down a bit.

Yeah that's a problem I had earlier his year. I would wear for a few days at work and then stop on a sporadic day and it took all I had not to wet or mess myself. Now since I've been wearing almost 24/7 since June , due to the massive increase in work hours and too few breaks, I think I've become accustomed to wearing them, and when I'm not wearing a diaper or pullup my mind is freaking out and won't let me go. I dunno... anyone else have any experience with something like this happening?

I've recently ran into an issue with going to use the bathroom when I'm not wearing a diaper. I wanna go, but my body has a hard time letting me. Now when I am wearing a diaper, I have no problems using it. Am I starting to untrain myself subconsciously?

I work in a manufacturing plant and I move in every single direction you can think of pretty often. I have tried several different diapers that would give me adequate protection without exposing me. The best one I have come across are the new Depends Silhouette for women and the Real Fit for men. They're the same basic thing, just different color and absorbancy zone I think. But they're very discrete and can hold a surprisingly large amount of fluid. The cover is cloth so there is no tell-tell crinkle, which is GREAT! The only downside I've come across is that I have to fold over the rather large cloth wasteband to keep it from showing up when I bend over enough for me to be exposed, but other than that they have worked great for me and my situation. Something to consider...