Strange (Ish) Fantasies..... Not A Description Just A Question

[ldatsea]

so i dont want to start a fantasy channel or go into details but i would like to know if others struggle with some fantasy they might have...

for me i have several sexual fantasies (involving diaper play) that when i am horny creep into my mind that really get me going so to speak (nothing illegal or demented) but still a bit racy i guess but the micro second i am not horny anymore my brain goes WTF? these are something i think i would like to experience but not sure given the chance would actually be able to do...

what about you?

[Missy Q]

i guess but the micro second i am not horny anymore my brain goes WTF?

Ah, the joys of the male refactory period.

Personally, I have enough fantasies that I could spend all day writing them all down.

Like you, I doubt any of my fantasies will ever see the light of day. It does not help that everyone I know who likes the same sort of stuff I do lives on the others side of the planet.

[Elfy]

I think its part of being human that we feel shame for enjoying something!

Sure I've had those sort of fantasies, even knowing that when I was finished "playing" I would feel bad about them... Didn't stop he fantasies though!

[LILJIM]

A friend said once "Sometimes living the Fantasy isnot as good as the thought of it." To me it depends on who helps you live out the Fantasy. There too depends on the "open mindness" of the people around you while your living your Fantasy. Maybe one day people will be more understanding. But till then we can dream.

[wetman]

Examples?

edit: Oops, you didn't want to describe. Sorry.

[BBB]

I stopped caring about how twisted my fantasies were. Yeah, some are out there, and most are left better as a fantasy. I used to fantasize alot about being with another guy, and then I did it. Better off as a fantasy for me. Nut Sacs just aren't appealing.

I figure im gonna like what I like.

As a side note, I got a 1/2 chub last night watching Human Centipede. I turned it off. That shit was gross. First time I've second guessed myself in 5 or 6 years.

[pampywamp]

im a firm beliver in giving things a go at least once if you dont experiment you will never know

[Elfy]

im a firm beliver in giving things a go at least once if you dont experiment you will never know

I try to keep the same motto!

[Marcuss]

I like to say half joking "dont do anything i only did once".

But yeh i think even the most saintly people have some weird or twisted things that pop into their head from time to time. Im sure a lot of people even come up with some stuff they know would be wrong and illegal. But as long as you know your not going to do it and maybe would not even want to do it your normal. Just look at some of the stories about being forced into diapers and incontinence. Some of them are pretty extreme it may be interesting to think about but doubt someone would actually want it or try to make it happen.

[Diapered Jason]

As a side note, I got a 1/2 chub last night watching Human Centipede. I turned it off. That shit was gross. First time I've second guessed myself in 5 or 6 years.

lol, wow, it does email and web browsing and shits in Kyle's mouth.

Anyways, the only thing I feel guilty about when it comes to my sexual activities is the money spent (diapers, supplies, sex toys, etc.), but then I remember that as long as it makes me happy, it is money well spent. Other than that I am pretty shameless about my activities as well as new ones that I am thinking of.

[Yvhuce]

I stopped caring about how twisted my fantasies were. Yeah, some are out there, and most are left better as a fantasy.

Ditto. Most of mine are so off the map that they tend to involve stuff like aliens, interdimensional travel, or androids. And, of course, anthropomorphic thylacine gals and female werewolves. I don't really care how odd those are, because they aren't even possible... At least, not yet...

im a firm beliver in giving things a go at least once if you dont experiment you will never know

I'm a firm believer in "I know what turns me on and what I find disgusting". No experimentation needed. I'm completely and utterly repulsed by the idea of being gay. I'm 100% straight. And still a virgin.

But yeh i think even the most saintly people have some weird or twisted things that pop into their head from time to time. Im sure a lot of people even come up with some stuff they know would be wrong and illegal. But as long as you know your not going to do it and maybe would not even want to do it your normal. Just look at some of the stories about being forced into diapers and incontinence. Some of them are pretty extreme it may be interesting to think about but doubt someone would actually want it or try to make it happen.

Oh yes, many a "saintly" person has some really messed up thoughts go through their heads... Humans are not sane. And the more we suppress our insanity, the more it finds its own ways out... It's the source of what they call "inner demons". And there are many a weird fetish out there... If you want a direct line to weird sexual fantasies, go look up stuff on "vore"...

[rusty pins]

Fantasy? I wish that I and all my friends, relatives and pets would live in perfect health for at least another 300 years! I also wish that we would all (friends and family) have an unlimited amout of money for the rest of our lives. If I wanted to buy a 5 million dollar mansion, I would instantly have that amount of money! Then if I wanted to turn around and buy a 200 million dollar private jet plane, I'd have that amount of money, too! I also wish I knew everything in the world that could be possibly known by someone. That means as soon as a new discovery would be made, I would instantly know all about it! Then I wish I could do anything that any man was able to do! Naturally, I wouldn't have to review in my mind everything, like a couple in New Mexico that I don't even know having had eggs and toast for breakfast on May 12th, 2003, for example, but if I ever wanted to know that, I would be able to! Anyway, that's a fantasy of mine.

[curiositykilledthecat]

I don't have any really deranged fantasies, however, I do have my moments where I suddenly look back and do the WTF.

[DprDJeff]

Humans, like other animals, have a basic need to procreate(without it, your species would quickly become extinct). The longer you go without 'spreading your seed', the more base your fantasies will become. It's your mind's way of building the desire to procreate. Once that desire has been satisfied, your conscious mind might regret what was necessary to make it happen. That regret is usually short lived.

I can't find the studies I read on this topic, but the last one I read had men abstain from any sexual relief for a long period of time and discuss the mental effects with a psychologist. The longer they went without release, the more 'bizarre' their sexual thoughts became. The majority of otherwise average men began to fantasize about brutal rape and torture near the end of the experiment and deeply regretted those thoughts after release was allowed.

Another thing they noticed was that every single man in the experiment became more passive and submissive the longer they were denied release, despite fantasizing about more aggressive activities. It is believed that this is an evolutionary response to hoping the alpha male of your group will show pity and allow you to procreate.

[Elfy]

Humans, like other animals, have a basic need to procreate(without it, your species would quickly become extinct). The longer you go without 'spreading your seed', the more base your fantasies will become. It's your mind's way of building the desire to procreate. Once that desire has been satisfied, your conscious mind might regret what was necessary to make it happen. That regret is usually short lived.

I can't find the studies I read on this topic, but the last one I read had men abstain from any sexual relief for a long period of time and discuss the mental effects with a psychologist. The longer they went without release, the more 'bizarre' their sexual thoughts became. The majority of otherwise average men began to fantasize about brutal rape and torture near the end of the experiment and deeply regretted those thoughts after release was allowed.

Another thing they noticed was that every single man in the experiment became more passive and submissive the longer they were denied release, despite fantasizing about more aggressive activities. It is believed that this is an evolutionary response to hoping the alpha male of your group will show pity and allow you to procreate.

Very interesting!

Being as I only just started engaging in sexual activities with someone else, might explain why I'm so passive and shy...

[Yvhuce]

Eh... I've never been sexually active, and if anything, my fantasies have diminished in extremity over time. Of course, I also fail to fit into a lot of psychological profiling stuff. So, it could just be the fact that I'm the 1 out of (number) who doesn't think a certain way. I have occasionally surprised my own shrink by demonstrating trains of thought counter to stuff he was taught, or patients with similar problems.

[sarah_ab]

of course in that study, most likely the men knew they were not to engage in sex, and that they were part of a study, thus they were extremely preoccupied with sexual thoughts.... because it was at the time a big focus of their life...

its different when you are just not engaging in sex because maybe you don't have a partner, or aren't ready to etc... in most instances, sex does not occupy your every thought again unless you are in certain situations...

as to fantasies.... i have lots of fantasies i will masturbate to, but i know that they are either completely unrealistic, or that i would not enjoy them if they happened for real. In your fantasies you don't feel the pain, you fantasize about being spanked, for example, but to be really spanked until you cry well, then you feel the pain. But in your fantasy, you don't feel it... you are just picturing a scenario. its almost like a free porn right in your head.

[froggy]

An open mind about meeting can allow one's fantasies to come true. I try to be open to things the playmate wants to do and hope for openness back for what I want to try.

[DprDJeff]

They weren't just abstaining from sex. They were abstaining from orgasm. No masturbation either. It's believed that the results are an insight into why masturbation is so incredibly common.

Of course, there are exceptions to everything. There are people that have no desire for any type of sexual stimulation at all and they would not likely be affected in the same way.