How To Do I Weaken My Bowels

[Akhenaton]

Hello to you all, I am an AB/DL who has recently found a partner and I have several desires. She is a caretaker and will be taking care of my diaper needs once we have the money to move in together and starting this, I was curious not about becoming incontinent, but weakening my bowels to the point where I can hold it, but not for long. Either I must find a bathroom immediately or go in whatever I am wearing. Is there any way to do it?

[LuvsGurl]

Yeah, it's called having something large shoved up your ass over and over and over again. Butt plug, cock, zucchini, what have you. Eventually things stretch out and you won't be able to retain feces as well.

I would seriously advise not doing this. If your profile information is to be believed you are only 22. You've got a long life and career ahead of you and your current partner may not always be there to change your shitty pants.

Wearing diapers for fun, even 24/7, is one thing. But doing things to permanently degrade your ability to control yourself is another. Maybe you should seek mental help.

[Akhenaton]

My ass is well-stretched, thankyouverymuch. However I am not mentally ill. I only wish to have it weakened so I can make it to the bathroom during inconvenient times like at a job or if she leaves me.

[DiaperFriend]

Whatever you are going to do, you need to be carefull. It would be kinda nasty to notice one day that you have really become incontinent, if it's not what you want. XP =D

If nothing else, eat laxative. ='D That ought to have effect. XD

[Akhenaton]

Well if I do become incont, it's not the end of the world whether I get my continence back or not.

[LuvsGurl]

Well if I do become incont, it's not the end of the world whether I get my continence back or not.

Says the guy who is continent.

Why not try wearing diapers 24/7 for a week and using them for everything. That experience might just change your mind.

[belinda_sue_fox]

Raw onions will do it

[Akhenaton]

Says the guy who is continent.

Why not try wearing diapers 24/7 for a week and using them for everything. That experience might just change your mind.

I'll try it then.

[betahawk]

Stretching Ring

Try that instead.

[padded_husky]

In my opinion, going 24/7 for a week is not enough. I have gone way longer then two weeks and it was fun! (of course I don't and never went number 2 in my diaper) You need to not just go 24/7 but you need to just release no matter where you are. You need to poop your diaper in front of all of your friends, family, employers, teachers...everyone! They don't need to know that you are pooping your pants but you need to do it right in front of those you might not want to know. My reason for saying so is that is the reality of being incontinent. The reality is that once you are your body is not just gonna gain control temporarily because your embarrassed in front of a friend or your class mates or in front of your boss. Actually you should walk into your bosses office and ask for a raise! right after you ask him for a raise poop your diaper! If you can handle doing that uncontrollably in front of all those you care about or those your friends with then there you go. That is why I do not want that, because it is just as easy to do it when You want.

Good Luck!

Kato_pup ^=^

[Akhenaton]

Stretching Ring

Try that instead.

That thing is monstrous

[beallucanb]

If you can find a link to it, a company named tickleberry used to have a hollow butt plug the core was removeable.

They used to have it on there site but I can't seem to find it now.

[betahawk]

If you can find a link to it, a company named tickleberry used to have a hollow butt plug the core was removeable.

They used to have it on there site but I can't seem to find it now.

Tickleberry

[willow]

Yeah, it's called having something large shoved up your ass over and over and over again. Butt plug, cock, zucchini, what have you. Eventually things stretch out and you won't be able to retain feces as well.

I would seriously advise not doing this. If your profile information is to be believed you are only 22. You've got a long life and career ahead of you and your current partner may not always be there to change your shitty pants.

Wearing diapers for fun, even 24/7, is one thing. But doing things to permanently degrade your ability to control yourself is another. Maybe you should seek mental help.

Not really true.

If you stretch a muscle in the human body, it doesn't become floppy and useless, it just increases it's range. If you can do the splits, it doesn't impede you to standing up.

I can easily insert a plug that would make most people pass out from the thought, but I guarantee you I have great control.

The problem comes when you cause damage from ripping/tearing something. Either way, if he wants a miserable no control experience I'd recommend castor oil

[allen476]

Hello to you all, I am an AB/DL who has recently found a partner and I have several desires. She is a caretaker and will be taking care of my diaper needs once we have the money to move in together and starting this, I was curious not about becoming incontinent, but weakening my bowels to the point where I can hold it, but not for long. Either I must find a bathroom immediately or go in whatever I am wearing. Is there any way to do it?

Well you could shovel a lot of wet, heavy snow using your back and hopefully rupture a disc at l5-s1 or l4-l5. That will make you incontinent (or maybe not depending where the rupture is).

You really DO NOT want bowel incon. I have the type of bowel problems that you are seeking and trust me it isn't fun. Luckily for me it only happens when I have diarrhea or soft to semi-hard stools and that part I can manage so that it doesn't happen very often. And a word of advice, by the time you realize that you have to go, you already are. There is no real warning that you only have a few seconds to get to the bathroom.

I have to agree with padded_husky on this. Wear 24/7 for 1 to 2 months and go only in your diaper. Get some Miralax or the nasty citrus stuff that you have to drink just before a colonoscopy. That will get you close to what you want. Then do that regimen for at least 2 weeks after you have been 24/7 for at least 2 weeks. If you aren't giving thanks that you are continent after that, then you really do need to get some mental help. And I also agree with p_h on going in front of everyone including family, friends, strangers, bosses, co-workers, church members, a crowded mall, a movie theater, public transportation (bus, subway, train, etc.), or a host of other locations that you will not be able to get out of quickly enough to go change. Everyone will know then.

Then to top it off, poop unlike pee, is not absorbed by the diaper, just contained. So leakage out of a diaper becomes a big problem if you aren't lucky enough to have the diaper contain it.

Allen

[gbw_dl]

you know whats funny, is when i was new on here, i had all of these desires of becoming incontinent, and actually making my passion for diapers practical. But i have come to terms that being incontinent means having NO choice whether you want to wear diapers or not. I salute the true incons out there and realize that it must be tough at times. I mean im not going to lie, i wish sometimes i would occasionally wet the bed when im wearing my diaper, but im not wanting to force anything to happen. Once you become medically incontinent, there is no going back.

[pampywamp]

i agree with gbw-dl it sounds great but is very different in reality

[padded_husky]

Also, it is wonderful that you found a caretaker and a girlfriend that is supportive but don't forget about her as well. I mean you don't want to force it on her. There is a difference between her playing caretaker and her being forced to be a caretaker. In another words, I say enjoy diaper play as a continent person instead of an incontinent person. it can be just as fun having control then not...actually I am sure it is more fun having control then not. But anyways, I hope things go well for yah and it is good you found someone who accepts your abdl side.

[Akhenaton]

Also, it is wonderful that you found a caretaker and a girlfriend that is supportive but don't forget about her as well. I mean you don't want to force it on her. There is a difference between her playing caretaker and her being forced to be a caretaker. In another words, I say enjoy diaper play as a continent person instead of an incontinent person. it can be just as fun having control then not...actually I am sure it is more fun having control then not. But anyways, I hope things go well for yah and it is good you found someone who accepts your abdl side.

Well she said that she wanted to do it all the time. I also know I can change myself if she doesn't want to.

[Infernus]

Yeah, it's called having something large shoved up your ass over and over and over again. Butt plug, cock, zucchini, what have you. Eventually things stretch out and you won't be able to retain feces as well.

I would seriously advise not doing this. If your profile information is to be believed you are only 22. You've got a long life and career ahead of you and your current partner may not always be there to change your shitty pants.

Wearing diapers for fun, even 24/7, is one thing. But doing things to permanently degrade your ability to control yourself is another. Maybe you should seek mental help.

Actually anal play strengthens the anal muscles, me and my fiance anal play with eachother regularly and have done for some time, but only gone as far as a fist.

Ive seen 'toys' far bigger, and although i still dont think these will reduce your abilty to hold your poop, your ass will stretch out and wont exactly look aesthetically pleasing.

I believe wearing a large hollow butt plug for long extented periods of time will reduce your abilty to hold poop, though i wouldnt want to try this myself.

[Bettypooh]

i agree with gbw-dl it sounds great but is very different in reality

Ditto and Aaaaaaay-men! Many of those new to diapers do seem to think it would be fun or pleasant having incontinence; and I did too but few of those who accomplish it want to remain that way Kudos to those who do- everyone should pursue their goals If you want a better understanding at little risk, do the following- and no cheating:

Wherever you go, take a diaper and whatever else you need for a change. Not a substitute, the real things only If your stay is long, bring enough diapers for that. Plan on changing every 3-4 hours or more to keep odors and rashes minimized Every time you'd need a change, go to where you would handle that and spend 4-5 minutes there. While you're doing that, also simulate disposal of the used diaper- you might not find that quite as easy as you think Figure out how much being 24/7 is going to cost you, then pull that much from your budget- once again, no cheating. If you need that money for a mechanic to fix your car, you walk until you can pay for the repairs- that 'extra' money no longer exists and never will again If you go that long, about once a month in the morning choose a word you might hear later that day. Upon hearing anyone say that word you must go change your pants immediately just as you would have to do if you leaked- which you are certainly going to do in real life If that causes you to miss the bus going to work, then too bad- get over it. Remember, you wanted it this way Every couple weeks do something that embarrasses the heck out of you to simulate what you're going to feel like if someone figures out that you're voiding right there in front of them. Use a chosen word to time this just as mentioned above- you are no longer in control, remember? Do it even if it's someone you're trying to date Get the picture now? If it still appeals to you then go for it

Everyone should do the things which make them happy and this might be your bliss But to many, it's more like a nightmare that has no end and no options, and to others like myself whose urinary leakage is small diapers are just the underwear you put on in the morning- nice, but no longer 'special'. The initial appeal of wearing diapers for need can go away quickly when reality sets in

In everything you do or try, do it carefully and sensibly and the odds are that things will work out for the best in the end, and if not then don't worry about that- you know you gave it your best and that's all anyone can do

Bettypooh

[Akhenaton]

Do it even if it's someone you're trying to date

The person I'm dating would take care of me even if I lost all control.

[diaperedmedic]

If you look at from an anatomical standpoint being fecal incontinent is not that tough. You have two muscles that control your anus from releasing poop. The internal sphincter is involuntary and opens when the colon becomes full, which then stimulates a response sent to your brain saying you have to go. The second muscle, the external sphincter is under voluntary control, and only opens when you want it too. So when you feel the urge to go #2 just relax immediately and go. After a while when you have to go, it will just want to slide on out immediately. I have tried this and it works, I will poop my diaper without very little thought, unless I decide to hold it. It is more of a mental block/training than anything.

[d_drew12]

Just curious as to how you get to the fisting part. How long does it take? What's the process. I've always enjoyed seeing anal gapes. I've heard that the whole incontinence thing from that is false. Think about it, a ton of porn stars would all be incontinent. Not likely.

[InconJane]

In my opinion, going 24/7 for a week is not enough. I have gone way longer then two weeks and it was fun! (of course I don't and never went number 2 in my diaper) You need to not just go 24/7 but you need to just release no matter where you are. You need to poop your diaper in front of all of your friends, family, employers, teachers...everyone! They don't need to know that you are pooping your pants but you need to do it right in front of those you might not want to know. My reason for saying so is that is the reality of being incontinent. The reality is that once you are your body is not just gonna gain control temporarily because your embarrassed in front of a friend or your class mates or in front of your boss. Actually you should walk into your bosses office and ask for a raise! right after you ask him for a raise poop your diaper! If you can handle doing that uncontrollably in front of all those you care about or those your friends with then there you go. That is why I do not want that, because it is just as easy to do it when You want.

Good Luck!

Kato_pup ^=^

Well you could shovel a lot of wet, heavy snow using your back and hopefully rupture a disc at l5-s1 or l4-l5. That will make you incontinent (or maybe not depending where the rupture is).

You really DO NOT want bowel incon. I have the type of bowel problems that you are seeking and trust me it isn't fun. Luckily for me it only happens when I have diarrhea or soft to semi-hard stools and that part I can manage so that it doesn't happen very often. And a word of advice, by the time you realize that you have to go, you already are. There is no real warning that you only have a few seconds to get to the bathroom.

I have to agree with padded_husky on this. Wear 24/7 for 1 to 2 months and go only in your diaper. Get some Miralax or the nasty citrus stuff that you have to drink just before a colonoscopy. That will get you close to what you want. Then do that regimen for at least 2 weeks after you have been 24/7 for at least 2 weeks. If you aren't giving thanks that you are continent after that, then you really do need to get some mental help. And I also agree with p_h on going in front of everyone including family, friends, strangers, bosses, co-workers, church members, a crowded mall, a movie theater, public transportation (bus, subway, train, etc.), or a host of other locations that you will not be able to get out of quickly enough to go change. Everyone will know then.

Then to top it off, poop unlike pee, is not absorbed by the diaper, just contained. So leakage out of a diaper becomes a big problem if you aren't lucky enough to have the diaper contain it.

Allen

Ditto and Aaaaaaay-men! Many of those new to diapers do seem to think it would be fun or pleasant having incontinence; and I did too but few of those who accomplish it want to remain that way Kudos to those who do- everyone should pursue their goals If you want a better understanding at little risk, do the following- and no cheating:

Wherever you go, take a diaper and whatever else you need for a change. Not a substitute, the real things only If your stay is long, bring enough diapers for that. Plan on changing every 3-4 hours or more to keep odors and rashes minimized Every time you'd need a change, go to where you would handle that and spend 4-5 minutes there. While you're doing that, also simulate disposal of the used diaper- you might not find that quite as easy as you think Figure out how much being 24/7 is going to cost you, then pull that much from your budget- once again, no cheating. If you need that money for a mechanic to fix your car, you walk until you can pay for the repairs- that 'extra' money no longer exists and never will again If you go that long, about once a month in the morning choose a word you might hear later that day. Upon hearing anyone say that word you must go change your pants immediately just as you would have to do if you leaked- which you are certainly going to do in real life If that causes you to miss the bus going to work, then too bad- get over it. Remember, you wanted it this way Every couple weeks do something that embarrasses the heck out of you to simulate what you're going to feel like if someone figures out that you're voiding right there in front of them. Use a chosen word to time this just as mentioned above- you are no longer in control, remember? Do it even if it's someone you're trying to date Get the picture now? If it still appeals to you then go for it

Everyone should do the things which make them happy and this might be your bliss But to many, it's more like a nightmare that has no end and no options, and to others like myself whose urinary leakage is small diapers are just the underwear you put on in the morning- nice, but no longer 'special'. The initial appeal of wearing diapers for need can go away quickly when reality sets in

In everything you do or try, do it carefully and sensibly and the odds are that things will work out for the best in the end, and if not then don't worry about that- you know you gave it your best and that's all anyone can do

Bettypooh

Akhenaton,

As someone who is medically incontinent due to spinal injury, I implore you to listen to the very wise words being offered to you by padded_husky, Allen and Bettypooh.

Having bowel incontinence is not fun. You may enjoy pooping in your diapers at convenient times, but not having control over your bowels is a completely different situation. As Bettypooh pointed out, it is also very very expensive. Unlike wet diapers that you might be able to stay in for a little time, you have to change a poopy diaper as soon as possible, otherwise you will have serious problems and will cause distress to all the people around you. You will also find that it impacts on your activities.

If you want to simulate bowel incontinence through laxatives when you are in control of the situation then that is one thing, but to voluntarility cause yourself permanent physiological harm is not a good idea.

Jane