Happy Ending?

[get_wet]

So one day, not too long ago, I left my new girlfriend, (of about a month,) in my home while I went to work. It turns out that she spent the entire day going through my room and reading my journals. That's fine, I guess. We are dating, and I guess she does want to know about my inner life, so I wasn't too pissed. Anyway, my previous girlfriend had done the same thing. The only thing is, she did a very thorough job of going through my room, and she found a package of diapers I had hidden in my closet. Now I guess I should backtrack a little. A few months earlier, when we were not officially bf & gf, but still practically dating, she had asked me about my fetishes. I was pretty reluctant to tell her. I told my last girlfriend I was in to diapers. She took it very well, but when we started making my fantasies reality, I got a little weirded out. This time around I decided I'd just keep it to myself, since vanilla sex is plenty good enough for me. I couldn't lie though, and when my girlfriend kept pressing me to tell her what I was in to, I cautiously replied: "age play. I like to be treated like a toddler. But we're not going to do that." Fair enough, I thought. I hadn't lied, but I didn't reveal more than I needed to, and I set some very clear boundaries. Anyway, back to the now. So I get a call from my girlfriend while I'm at work. "I found your Depends. What's that all about?" Poo, I thought. Not much I can do to get out of this one. "We'll talk about it when I get home." Now, as you can imagine, this isn't the sort of thing a girl just forgets about. She wasn't going to let it drop, and I new it. So I prepared to come out to her about being an AB/DL. When I got home she demanded I tell her everything, which I did, very uncomfortably. There, I thought, that should satisfy her. But she kept pressing me: "what do you like about it? What do you like to feel?" etc... So there I am, laying on my couch, her staring right at me while I tell her I like to be put in diapers and treated like a toddler because I like how thrilling and humiliating it is, and how at the same time I feel safe and comfortable. This was a pretty humiliating situation, and my penis, always knowing the right thing to do in any situation, decided to get an erection. "Super," I thought. My girlfriend was quite aware of my erection, and decided to let me know that she knew I was humiliated telling her this, and that she knew I liked it, and that she fully intends to put me in diapers. "No no no...really...it's ok," I said, to no avail. Since then, several times a week while we're being intimate, she talks to me like I'm a child, and tells me about how she's going to diaper me. I'm not sure how I feel. On one hand, it's definitely rare to find someone open minded enough to be accepting of this, and actually interested in doing it. On the other hand, I decided not to tell her for a reason, and I'm a little upset that something so personal is not being dealt with on my terms. Honestly though, she's probably doing the right thing, because I probably subconsciously want her to take control of the situation and force me in to diapers every now and again, which she seems intelligent and sensitive enough to pick up on. I guess I lucked out.

[hidden]

sounds like you got lucky in finding an accepting person!

also sounds like you need a lock for your room.

[momma.bear]

it's great that she's so accepting, it really is. but i would be concerned about anyone who went through my stuff after only 1 month of dating. that's just me, though.

[curiositykilledthecat]

defintely get a lock, or just go with it and see if she gets in on the act.

[sarah_ab]

i agree i would be very concerned that this woman went through all of your things, understanding or not, she invaded your privacy and then forced you to talk about things you were obviously keeping private... and now she is 'forcing' you to do things that you seem to not want to do. Just because you are getting an erection doesn't mean you want it. The body can be aroused while the mind is definitely not.

it sounds like she is slowly taking over your life... going through your things and now telling you when and where you will participate in your fetish which you were purposely keeping private..

just be careful.

[PampersPete]

I swear to God I'm going to purchase some extra pairs of balls and start handing them out to random people.

[babykeiff]

That woman, I'd be wary about - if she does that, I'd want to know why. Does she not trust you - obviously not - and if not, why. Usually a mistrusting person does not deserve trust - and I think that she is / was looking for something in order to protect herself - ie to find a reason to leave / break up with you and blame YOU for the breakup rather than admit to herself, and to you that she is afraid of commitment.

[Bettypooh]

....I guess I lucked out....

I guess you did, but only if you look at ut that way Seriously, us humans are strange creatures indeed. We fantasize about things, dream of how good it would be, then when the chance presents itself we chicken out So OK, if you think she's going to be around awhile I'd say you did 'luck out'so you ought to go ahead and see if your 'dream' is as good as you hoped. She seems to be ready to cooperate with you and is just waiting for you to say 'yes'- a situation most of us would give a lot to be in- and even though she's really nosy since she knows everything you don't have a lot of reason to say 'no'. I'm TG and my biggest regret in life is that I didn't share this with a certain girl many years ago. Later on I found out that the guy she married is a crossdresser so now I know she's OK with it but the chance for me is forever gone and I may not get another

Don't waste your chances. Take advantage of them for you too may not get another one like this!

Bettypooh

[BabyBat]

Get Wet it sounds like you are most definitive a bottom, and that your previous GF invaded your privacy also?

At first I was with the others and started down the 'Woooo.... watch out for the loony tunes' But then I remembered what you said about your previous GF.

Is it possible that you picked her for her dominance and her personality that she would do something like this if you set it up correctly? Could you have possibly dropped hints about your journals and maybe not hidden your depends as good as you could have? My wife knows and mine are locked up in the basement!

Just a thought.

[get_wet]

Thank you, everyone, for your input. I really appreciate it.

[Heven]

I swear to God I'm going to purchase some extra pairs of balls and start handing them out to random people.

You do realize your picture has you sucking your thumb, and words "Mommy's Babykins" are written right underneath, right?

[PampersPete]

You do realize your picture has you sucking your thumb, and words "Mommy's Babykins" are written right underneath, right?

Exactly Like most people on here,I live two seperate lives. In the picture,I'm a helpless toddler"Mommy's Babykins". In real life,if someone were to rifle through my things,I'd break their fingers slooooooowly one at a time via On Deadly Ground. Remember the scene where the old guy gets his finger cut off with a pipe cutter? Yeah. Like that. I've got a pair of balls and I'm not afraid to use them.

[bookem]

At first I was with the others and started down the 'Woooo.... watch out for the loony tunes' But then I remembered what you said about your previous GF.

Is it possible that you picked her for her dominance and her personality that she would do something like this if you set it up correctly? Could you have possibly dropped hints about your journals and maybe not hidden your depends as good as you could have? My wife knows and mine are locked up in the basement!Just a thought.

I was thinking the same thing about the GF's snooping... Good point on GW picking girls that do things like that, you definitely opened my mind to a new perspective on the situation.

[PutInDiapers]

Lol - I can't believe some of these replies. Here's this woman, she is definitely very interested in what you are, she is eager to play, explore and understand. I think she really likes you and, being a giving person, wants to really, really make you happy. Not just, "here's a lollipop" happy, but "we are gonna see if everything you want to happen can come true" happy.

I would be coy and make her force the hand... diaper you somewhat non-consensually, but, um, if you can't tell, that's my personal prejudice.

And about the snooping. Humans are curious about stuff. It's natural.

Enjoy.

[Guest lucys junibug]

i think your lucky to find a girl like that....i know she looked trough your stuff...and although she shouldnt have...i think most girls have this flaw...

i admit i used to, to some degree but now i would not ever consider it, i believe some things are privet....for example i know lucy might want to talk to people about me, the annoying things i do, and i'm fine with that, i wouldn't try to find out what she said as i think she needs to vent....if she kept a diary i would not read it as i think that they are her thoughts and feelings, that changes daily, and she's entitled to have them privet...

i think you got a good girl there but tell her you don't appreciate her going trough you stuff...and that you'll tell her stuff that she needs to know....otherwise she may do it more!!

juniper

xxx

[PampersPete]

Trust is a better trait than love. In other words,I can't love someone who breaks my trust right off the bat. Maybe the guy's happy she rifled through his stuff so he can be humiliated someday. I don't know.

[FretaBWet]

I swear to God I'm going to purchase some extra pairs of balls and start handing them out to random people.

There's enough transgendered people here to keep you well supplied, just how much are you offering?

Hugs,

Freta

[sarah_ab]

you might get more money if you sell em separately.

[PampersPete]

We had Chinese take-out tonight. I fuckin' shit you not. This is exactly what my fortune cookie said:The ability to trust fuels the ability to love. Even the goddamned Chinese agree with me.

[OMFG]

Why is she going through your stuff? HIGHLY inappropriate. I am in my bf's room a fair amount alone when I fly out there because I am usually off Friday's while he works. We share the same fetish and were online friends for years, so I know virutally everything about him, and I STILL would not go through his things. You are entitled to your private thoughts, feelings, and space, and the fact that she is unable to respect this so early in the relationship would raise HUGE red flags for me.

[babyvr6]

We had Chinese take-out tonight. I fuckin' shit you not. This is exactly what my fortune cookie said:The ability to trust fuels the ability to love. Even the goddamned Chinese agree with me.

Nice, now everybody will be asking you for relationship advice.

-Enchanting theme music-

Announcer " We now return to Ask Dr. Pete"

"Dr. Pete my boyfriend went snooping through my stuff. What should I do?" -Pete slowly crosses the room and smacks the girl with the back of his hand- Pete then says " Grow some god damned balls and tell that fucker to GTFO! But first I would like you to liberate his fingers from his hand using some garden shears! Jesus Christ I swear common sense is a fucking super power thease days!"

Meh, I'd watch it. Can't be any worse than Dr. Phil. Accutaly it sounds pretty amusing. Pete hurry up and get a show.

[babykeiff]

Nice, now everybody will be asking you for relationship advice.

-Enchanting theme music-

Announcer " We now return to Ask Dr. Pete"

"Dr. Pete my boyfriend went snooping through my stuff. What should I do?" -Pete slowly crosses the room and smacks the girl with the back of his hand- Pete then says " Grow some god damned balls and tell that fucker to GTFO! But first I would like you to liberate his fingers from his hand using some garden shears! Jesus Christ I swear common sense is a fucking super power thease days!"

Meh, I'd watch it. Can't be any worse than Dr. Phil. Accutaly it sounds pretty amusing. Pete hurry up and get a show.

Yea Dr. PampersPete... that show would be some fun... but how long would it last before some self righteous person decides to ban it.

[ultrapampers]

I'll third that vote for the fuckin' PampersPete Show! It'd be fuckin' hilarious! I hope those fuckin' networks grow some fuckin' balls and give PampersPete a fuckin' show before he goes after 'em with the garden shears.

[pampers08]

Honestly,I'm happy about your situation if you are happy. I do agree with a another post saying that they would be concerned about a g/f b/f going through things after about a month,Tho i would probably be a little curious and want to peek to if i were them.

Secondly i would like to add that if i was in your situation that is almost exactly how i would have wanted it handled

good luck to you

Your pampered friend

[PampersPete]

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