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Ahh ok cool, unfortunately I have not created a wiki since I was in college and can't remember which platform I used. But if I remember correctly most wiki providers all do the same thing and offer free subscriptions to some degree. I guess wait for others to throw out recommendations or just take a look on google to see whats out there and have a look at some of the already created wikis to see if they look like something you want to use

As a reader I tend to wait for a story to have a couple of chapters before I start reading if its from an Author I am not familiar with. But I have gone back and re read stories when new chapters are released if there has been a drought, well depending on the size haha, like if its hundreads of thousands of words deep then I probably would just do a quick recap. But when I do get around to writing things I tend to post as I go as I want feedback on the story which could possible lead me to change future posts. I guess its something you need to figure out what is the important thing for you, the feedback or the readers attention. If its feedback probably posting each chapter as you finish is the way to go. If its reader attention then probably the best thing to do is either finish the story or keep going until you lose momentum and start posting piece by piece

Scrivener is good at keeping track of things as there are different folders for everything, so you could have a character folder and then add subfolders if you wanted to group certain characters together. Miro is good for creating character maps, its essentially an online white board so you can create a load of different visual things and it is free for one user. If you are looking to make it public then yeah probably a wiki would be the easiest thing but the above two are handy tools for yourself. Miro does limit the amount of users you can have so if you wanted to share with people you would need to buy licenses but if just for you then its free

This really sucks and my heart an support goes out to anyone affected by this purge. I wonder is there any legal route artists can pursue as the actions of patreon have caused loss of earnings and other damages here. I am in no way a legal person but in college i did a couple of legal modules mainly around employment and avoiding getting sued (Business Degree). If I was affected I would definitely be seeking legal advice anyway. I truly am sorry you guys are going through this.

Ok I don't see what the big deal is, I guess it probably depends on your assumptions. I am assuming this was filmed when the person was in the store on their own when the store was closed I am assuming that they then sanitized the whipped cream dispenser I am also assuming that they then covered up their diaper and got on with their lives. So yeah I really don't see what the big deal is, well apart from libsoftiktok posting about it, but they are hate mongers so nothing they post really bothers me as in general from what I have seen the majority of their stuff is taken out of context to sow outrage. Back to the abdl person, I really don't see what they did as being a big deal. While that sort of thing is not for me, I don't see anyone being harmed by what they did. There was no one from the public present from what can be seen in the video, we can't tell if they used the whipped cream dispenser in peoples drinks without being sanitized and we can't tell if they then went on to serve people with their diaper visible. We also don't know where the video was originally posted and in what context. This could be revenge porn. Probably not due to the message in the screenshot of the social media post but we really don't know who that was viewable by or any of the context. I am not bothered by this at all really. Weird shit happens

I think it is awesome that you are going to counselling and feel comfortable discussing it online. High five my friend I am in counselling too and while its hard it is one of the better things I have done for myself. I think you have gotten the great advice that you need here and discuss it with your counsellor. Discuss whatever details you feel comfortable with but I would say that any counsellor worth their salt would not try and "cure " you of your kink, it would be the same as trying to "cure" you of being straight or gay. So I wouldn't feel like you can't tell the counsellor you're a dl. In terms of your question though I cant advise on how long to stay out of Nappies due to an addiction, but I do empathise with you. Addictions are scary. I have alcoholism in my family, but I am not the alcoholic. Despite that it is still terrifying for me to drink. (theres a long discussion here about why I do drink so not drinking is not the answer ) It is so scary how an addiction just rewires your brain. Al anon has been helping me with this but I do not know enough if there is a similar support group for someone in your situation.

Oh my god I cant believe I forgot the year haha. Sorry around here we just assume people know the last time we had nice weather was pre st swithens day 1953 🤣🤣🤣

I wish I had sun, I am in Ireland and it has been pretty much raining since saint swithens day 🤣🤣

Ok sounds like a plan. I respectfully agree to disagree. One last thing though, are you sure you are older than me? Looking at your profile it says you are 5-8 years old and I am like super old I am 16

Yes I agree, we definitely will need to keep things civil, and try to avoid highjacking the thread aswel. I had to resist the urge to use to full Cool Hand Luke quote as there was name calling in the quote but thought that might bring us down an uncivil road. Its a slippery slope especially when dealing with religion and politics. @Dee CeeI know this can sound sarcastic and goading especially when written down in text but I do welcome a spirited debate with you on this and I am treating this all in good humour and not personal. We definitely have polar opposite opinions on religion an politics but I look forward to discuss with you. Back to the actual thread topic. Recession's are completely natural but hopefully this recession will not be the same as what happened in the mid naughties I don't think anyone could handle that. I know I can't deal with another lengthy unemployed phase, although I am better educated and have more experience then I did then its still a very real fear. I think the only way to avoid catastrophic recessions would be to slightly tweak the capitalist end goal in decision making. I think the key word that needs to be changed is Profit and switched to wealth distribution. So instead of looking at a situation and making a decision that will maximise profit the decision should look at which option will maximise wealth distribution. I see this type of philosophy giving the best of both worlds as it will still allow entrepreneurs to make a sinful amount of money but will also allow for lower tier staff to earn a living wage and for products to be affordable. That's a very simplistic explanation of how I think the market should change and it would take a couple of generations to sink in. As far as it will affect my diaper purchasing power, it will remain to be seen, I don't consume too much normally just order a couple of sample packs every now and again. Although I am running light I do have some diapers that I bought almost ten years ago in my stash which will do in a pinch.

Interesting response, sounds like you have a handful of nothing. Sometimes nothing can be a real cool hand, although I don't think so in this case

Oh thats fascinating, I would love to see your research or anything you have published as from what I have observed there is no existence of a Abrahimic God and if there is it should be shunned and not worshipped so I would love to read your research for myself.

This story is..... wow. I love it, i have been reading it all day. I have ugly cried many many times which I think I needed. I dont really get into any type of little headspace but reading this story is definitely getting me into a little headspace...... well not really little but definitely a positive mental headspace which is actually amazing. I think everyone needs a Veronica, Jane, Brianna an Melodie in their lives. I am loving all the non romantic love in this story, when ser Brianna put on her sword and started her quest to save her big sibling I sobbed loudly, it was so beautiful. Then when I ha calmed down and read how worried everyone was that she was missing, yup started sobbing again because their concern an lover for Brianna was just so amazing. I am not sure if you meant this but when Melodie was transitioning I noticed that Brianna referred to them as she/her and then later in the chapter Melodie referred to themselves as she/her. I hope this was on purpose and not a typo as I thought it was kinda cool showing the journey that people can go on around gender and that incorrect pronoun usage can happen even internally, although I am not experienced in the subject I assume it happens. God I want to write more praising this story but honestly there is so much good in this that I cant put my thoughts all together on this. But I have mental health issues. I am pretty depressed an have an anxiety disorder that is still being diagnosed. One of my triggers is doing chores but after I read the chapter about Melodie doing all the house work and cooking for Rosa I was able to do a ton of chores, not just able to I wanted to. I did so much chores that literally if I had of thought of doing that amount of chores yesterday before I read this I would have had a massive anxiety attack an ended up on the ground in the fetal position hyperventilating. Sincerely thank you for writing and sharing this I am going to be blabbering about this story to my therapist next week Also mental health is a pain in the ass, we should be thought about this stuff in school, not the sciency bit but the managing stuff and being able to be a functional person. I would use that way more in my day to day live than I ever would use speaking Irish which I learned in school for what like 14 years, however long school is before college, or well for me geography or pretty much any subject except math an english I guess haha

The only way I see diapers as being bad is in terms of the environment as a few people have brought up. To the two points above I think the issue with water "Waste" especially in textile manufacturing is not around the amount of water that is used to manufacture clothes or the amount of water that is use to care for them in the home. But rather the chemicals that go into the water. As far as I am aware the big use of water in textile manufacturing is to dye fabrics which use chemicals which then make the water that is used to dye the fabrics undrinkable and toxic if released back into the environment. Even white terry diapers get dyed so I think that would be the environmental impact in using them. But with that said everything that is produced today has some sort of environmental impact, even eco products. So I guess its a balancing act to try and keep the planet hospitable

I am so sad that WWE let Bray go and then stopped the Alexa Bliss gimick. What Bray an Alexa had been doing in 2020 was some of my favourite stuff to have happened in wrestling since the attitude era

I thought this might be an interesting discussion and not sure if it has been talked about recently. I want to add that this topic is meant as a fun discussion and I am not looking for definite answers or to invalidate anyone here so if you reply please take that sentiment into account, this is not meant to bash anyone or to incite any sort of hatred. The question I am putting out here is meant to spark conversation and friendship. So my question is what does it mean to be a sissy today? A bit of background to why I am asking. I have recently started doing the whole twitter thing which has caused a ton of DM's from scam mommies to come my way. It has kind of become a hobby for me now to waste their time and just annoy them. One of the conversations I had with one of these scam accounts we started talking about gender and I told them that sometimes I like to express my more feminine side by wearing pink diapers and being a bit of a princess. They then called me a sissy baby which didn't seem right to me and got me thinking about this topic. My whole understanding on this subculture is probably very misguided but I understood that there were two broad categories. Sissy's and Little Girls or LG's. But these terms are a bit dated now as when I was learning about all this it was in a time before identifying as a little was a thing and littlespace was not really spoken about. So my understanding in a nutshell was if you like the humiliation aspect you would be considered a Sissy but if you liked the cuteness of it all you would be considered an LG. But this definitely stems from a time when socially there was no distinction between gender and sex being made in mainstream conversation so you were either a man or a woman and then trans people were not really talked about, so it is a bit archaic now. At the time I did not do much research on it as most of the sissy stuff I was exposed too were coming from stories and humiliation was a big part of it. I am not into humiliation myself and it does spark some uncomfrotable feelings when I read sissy stories so I just figured this is not my thing and got on with my life. But over the last couple of years the conversation on gender identity I find fascinating so it has gotten me thinking on this a bit more. So with modern gender expression what does it mean to be a sissy today and how have the changes around gender identity affected the sissy sub culture. I would love to hear what it means to you personally and how the community thinks on the topic Also if I have offended anyone here it is down to my own ignorance on the topic so please tell me if I caused offence and why so I can learn

I love your flash fiction Anna, it always surprises me and I always get some sort of emotional reaction like I am a bit bummed out by this piece but I love it as you can so quickly make the reader feel things from a couple of short paragraphs

This sub topic that is going on about being tracked really makes me want to go off on a rant about hyper capitalism, but I think that would derail the topic even further and could cause an unhealthy debate But it is mental how cookies work and what info a company can get from them. I have worked in sales for tech companies for the last 15 years (I am not good at it though haha too honest) and some of the bigger companies that I worked for would generate cold leads for us to work through by grabbing the data off of anyone who accessed their site. If you clicked into the site the company would then look at you other cookies and pull you name, address, email, phone number and company you worked for. I have always been B2B so personal emails would not be put on my data list but christ it was mental what they could get. They could do this by the fact that most people when they log into a site will click accept all cookies so that gives "permission" There are ways to minimize what is captured about you such as what others have said like using duck duck go, and I think Firefox is a good one to keep you save but I think you need extensions to get the best out of it. Two big things I would recommend is if using anything google go into your google account and in security settings disable 3rd party cookies (These are the naughty ones) and then if you are ever prompted to accept cookies when you access a website don't hit accept all, you should be able to decide which ones to accept, there should be some option but the language changes. Anyway find the option to choose the cookies and disable 3rd party. The first party ones should be ok.

Thanks guys for all the recommendations, I have my eye on a few now and I think my next pay day may all go on onesies

So I never ha a female partner who could lift me up but when I was a teenager I tried to be a pro wrestler. There was a woman in the training school who I used to train with who could throw me around the place and lift me up and hold me for a while. Granted I worked with her so I helped her out but I think she could have dead lifted me if she wanted. She was a little smaller than me but she was a power lifter in the gym so I have no doubt if she wanted to she would be able to do what ever she wanted with me At the time I was 6 ft 3 (Still am I guess) and 250 pounds (I wish I was still that weight haha). Women just like men come in all shapes and sizes, there is definitely a woman out there who could lift you up, try checking out different types of gyms to find them

Hey guys looking to pick your brains on what are good onesies for the more portly gentleman. I started a thread looking for advice on what us big boys (Body size anyway) should do to keep our diapers up and the advice was to get onesies. I have a onesie from the dotty diaper company and unfortunately the snaps irritate my legs as the positioning tends to scrape my skin. Does anyone have any recommendations on onesies that the snaps won't irritate the skin. I am interested in discreet looking onesies and also super cut kawaii or patterns

Ahh ok so I guess if I want to run around in just a Tshirt and a diaper and not worry about my diaper slipping around my ankles I will either need to lose the muffin top or invest in some onesies Not a bad problem to have I guess. I was going to ask for onesie recommendations but think I should start a new thread on that but thanks guys appreciate your input

Hey guys, I was wondering would anyone have any advice for putting a diaper on a bigger man? I am of the large variety and I have a weird body type, I have a muffin top which means that I can never really get a snug fit with the top tabs on a diaper. My diaper always seems to go loose and fall down with wear after a very short time. I have read a ton of advice but it always seems to centre around people who have a slimmer build or whos hips are wider than their belly. Would anyone have any advice or is it just a case that onesies will always be required until I work off the muffin top? Cheers guys

This is a really interesting topic, and I find it so interesting because of my knee jerk reaction. So I am pro euthanasia and pro abortion, I am also a trans ally. But my knee jerk reaction to this was "Oh hell no, damaging yourself for a fetish, get out of here" But as I started to think on why I thought this way I realised I was parroting a lot of the arguements that I am apposed to when it comes to body anatomy and then I realised that IC surgery is not right for me but why should I get to dictate what others do with their bodies. If anyone wants to be made incontinent more power to them. It is probably safer to allow doctors do this to people rather than having people trying to figure out how to damage themselves enough to become ic or to try home made methods. I started to think then what if people abuse the procedure or what if people are coerced or if the procedure is done under one of many unethical ways. But thinking on this I dont think that those hypothetical cases should be a reason to stop people from getting the surgery, more that it is something that should be safe guarded against the I think the medical community should figure out. I then started to think on is continence dysphoria actually a thing or is it an opportunistic argument being made at an opportune time. But the more I thought about it the more I think that it doesn't matter if its real or not. If someone wants to go through with the surgery then they should be able to, its their body, their life. You do you boo. Then I started thinking on whether or not the state should support them, or if going through with the surgery would mean they could get on welfare and again I'm sure people will abuse the surgery to try and get something out of the state but I think those type of people would find anyway to try and get on welfare so I dont think that people who want to get the surgery should suffer for this. I personally believe in universal health care so I think that it should be covered but I think that it should be treated as however elective cosmetic surgery is treated in your country. But with that said I don't know anything about continence dysphoria so I guess if that has enough of an impact on peoples lives then maybe it should be considered a life saving surgery, but I dont think who fronts the bill is an important point in this discussion. So in case it is not clear, I voted yes to this but I think it is very interesting what my knee jerk reaction was and then how it completely changed once I took a moment to think about this. I would love to hear from someone who has continence dysphoria as until this conversation I have never even heard of this so would be interested in hearing more on the subject