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@Brian Yes I agree that my next step would be Megamax.. I like their pink ones. They are also the most expensive diapers out there so I'm not quite willing to make that leap yet if I don't have to. I see on Amazon a product called Sunkiss Masterpiece pink that reviews compare to Megamax. I am ordering a pack of them just to see. They are $10 cheaper.

I'm a woman, and I can agree that it's easier to remain "in the closet" regarding our diaper use.. we get on diaper groups and then get hit on by men. Not what I want at all.. I love wearing diapers. Mine is kinda need-based but it's more convenience and comfort for me. I do feel turned on by wearing them but it's not really sexual.. hard to explain.. I'm sure someone gets it.

I can guarantee that Abenas have done just that.. reduced in quality and thickness! They were my usual diaper for night wear, and then Amazon went for a bit out of stock .. the next time I got to order them and got them in I noticed right away they were thinner and less absorbent. They used to not get fully soaked at night but now they easily get soaked, and leak some nights. I have NS Supreme now and I'm happy with them. More expensive, but also more reliable!

When I was 24/7, (quit in May and just restarted yesterday) I wore one day time diaper and pulled it down for BMs as necessary.. when I got home and if I was super wet, I was put in a cloth diaper for the evening if we were not going out, then a thicker night time diaper for bed. But most of the time I was using 2 a day(one day, one night).. Abenas were $60 a month and Tranquility was $40. So $100 a month. I'm upgrading this time so it will be more.

I work in property/casualty insurance, office setting.

Yep same here... mostly DL with some AB. I like white diapers best, but have worn prints also. I also like solid pink.

I like NS Supreme light or Tranquility for day use

I am ordering the pink one to try out! If you've tried them by now, please share your thoughts!

Another retraining update from me : I haven't even been on the DD site for so long it signed me out.. but I'm now out of diapers during night time too.. I really didn't think it was possible since I had been wearing for several years! But while staying overnight at my cousin's house and I didn't bring enough for every night that I stayed there, I had to go without and was successful both nights, so since I've been home, almost 2 weeks ago.. I haven't worn at night and have only had one night with accident. Getting up to go pee several times a night isn't fun, but at least I do wake up and go to the restroom first! I still have this deep desire to go back to 24/7 and maybe I will someday when my personal life gets back to normal. But until then I'll just keep it all bottled up inside.

Hello all, just an update on my retraining progress. It's taken me over two weeks but I think I'm retrained in daytime for the most part . I don't constantly worry about where the closest bathroom is but I do always know and make sure to go potty before I leave the house. I think my bladder is working again but I can't wait too long and drink much because that's a guarantee I will have an urge incontinence accident. Sometimes it feels full but when I go potty I don't think I empty completely and it feels weird.its still pretty sensitive. Night time is still diaper time and I don't really think I will ever retrain for that. My Abenas and me are best friends now.

I'm currently in the process of retraining in the daytime. I was 24/7 for 7 months before stopping this past weekend. It's so hard and kinda painful too. Learning to Hold It again is nerve wracking! I try to go to the bathroom every hour or two and hold it between those times. I make sure to know the location of the nearest bathroom at all times. I had to make the decision to stop daytime wearing because of the expense, as other bills have come up that are more important than my fetish. I am not retraining for night right now though, I have been wearing diapers at night for a few years and I don't believe I could go back without the fear of waking to a wet bed. That expense will have to remain.

I wear them to work on Fridays under jeans, I also work in an office. I usually wear thinner diapers like Abena 2 or North Shore Supreme Lite for day wear under office attire. I wouldn't mind doing 24/7 in Abena 4s but I would be self conscious that the thickness is detectable under my slacks.

I know this is an old post, but I also wanted to talk about Abena L4. This is my regular night diaper, I wear them every night and on Friday and Saturday day time also because I love them so much. I have had problems with the tapes on them the last two months of shipments. The backing comes up with the blue part of the tape or sometimes the blue part comes apart completely from the tape leaving the white part only. They still tape good, but I have started undoing the tapes and gently laying it back down so that when I put it on the backing won't come with the tape. It's frustrating to have to stop in the middle to fix the tapes. I've not had a problem with the plastic tearing though. Just the tapes.

That's hilarious ??

This is me too exactly!!

I'm beginning to fall out of love with the ABDL diapers myself.. at this point I want functional and thick crinkly ABDL diapers aren't it. I loved the Rearz Splash but I've noticed they smell bad when they get wet now and I've had them leak a time or two when wearing at night. So I'm over them. Give me Abenas or North Shore Supreme anytime.

When not diapered and doing an air out time, I usually do put a pad in my underwear. I try to only go for an hour or so without..and can count on a wet spot at least. I make myself go to the bathroom every 30 minutes when not. Accidents while not Diapered after getting out of the shower happen regularly though, especially while water is running.

My goals too! I'm 6 months 24/7 almost now.. wondering what my body will be like at a year! I can't wait! Prayers for you in Australia dealing with the flooding.

While I don't understand the science behind it all, I am amazed everyday at my body's changing signs that I'm becoming incontinent or diaper dependent. My bladder no longer fills up that I'm aware of, i just go when it comes out or I get that slight urge that says "you're fixing to pee" and then it comes out. My brain does not register the fact that I have to go pee anymore, and to hold it until I get to a bathroom.. I just go with no forethought now. It's the coolest feeling ever that my body trusts my diapers to be there for it's needs. I've been 24/7 for almost 6 months now. Pee leaks out whenever it wants, diapered or not! And I don't stop it, like if I just got out of the shower and the urge hits (usually because of running water) I just let it go and clean up after.. it's awesome that I'm losing control completely now. I can usually count on leaking while seated as well (noticable when I move and it squirt's out LOL). Focusing on keeping completely open and relaxed in my sphincters has been the key to my untraining, to where I don't have to focus much anymore.

I know! I usually have one in reach all the time also. One in my purse, one in my lunchbox I carry to work, one in a kitchen drawer and several on my bedside table.

I guess I'm still relatively new at this, I'm 5 months in with 24/7 voluntary untraining. I don't consider it a hassle or anything yet.. putting on diapers and stuff has just become part of my routine and I still love the security and comfort they give me, I am thankful I have support in my wearing with my spouse..I've adapted my wardrobe with no problem and wear in public with no sense of shame or embarrassment. Sometimes I feel like I don't care if someone sees the top of my diaper or plastic pants peeking out above my jeans.. I enjoy the baby feeling that much. If I could get away with it I would bring my pacifier with me too ☺️

I've been voluntary untraining for 5 months now, wearing 24/7.. I can now say the hardest position I had to overcome wetting was sitting up like at my desk at work. I had no trouble wetting while driving, laying down (any position) standing, but I had to sit back in order to wet but now I'm learning how to while sitting also. And sometimes I cant tell now before I start wetting that it's coming. And that's exciting to me!

Laying down on the bed is easiest for me too. I spread the diaper out, that front half of the diaper hanging over the edge of the bed. I sit on the back part, make sure both sides are even and flat, then pull the backside up against my back, if it's high enough to cover my butt and touches my lower back then I'm good. I lay back and get a feel of where my sides are then tape both lower tapes then do both too tapes. Lastly I stand and pull it up as one does underwear to make sure it's snug against me. Standing up diaper changing is hard, but I found doing it in front of a full length mirror helps greatly.

I believe I would be too afraid to sleep in cloth diapers.. in case of overwetting and leaking out the plastic pants! I wet a lot more at night than I do in the day. I sure would love to though because they're so comfy!

As a fellow vijayjay owner, and 24/7 wearer who's voluntarily untraining as well, I can relate to all the issues on this post. I've been 24/7 for almost 4 MN this time (7mn Total). I used to really focus on staying relaxed and not ever clenching or holding and get mad at myself when I caught myself doing it. Now I don't think about it as much, I enjoy waking up wet in the mornings, and know I am losing control because I wet during the daytime just by moving.. I don't know it comes out but it like squirts into my diaper when I move. It's totally awesome and I love the untraining journey.