Constantlywet

Yes, those diaper situations that we face from time to time certainly do make me buzz. I love having to change in a restroom and come out with my used nappy in my hand. The humiliation involved in that really does flick my switch. It's nice you've found a happy medium with your wife. I'm lucky, my fiance is a dl so she likes to play a part and see me in nappies. She wears herself too sometimes but she doesn't wear outside the bedroom. Thanks for sharing your views and thoughts though mark. ??? This sounds like my childhood. I got cought with used incontinence nappies under my bed too. My mother sent me to a psychologist who was really cool. He basically explained that I have a fetish and that I wasn't a bad person because I wore nappies. He did say that it wasn't good to wear and explained the social implications if my peers discovered it. Unfortunately my parents did not let me wear so I just worked harder at keeping it undercover. All the nurses and doctors I have come into contact with since I've been wearing and become nappy dependant have been nothing but amazing. Most nurses are really sympathetic and can't do enough for me. They even made sure I had the nappies I wanted when I had to go for camera up the urethra and they reassured me that I had nothing to be embarrassed about when I've had to get stripped down for exams and scans. I can't praise the medical professionals enough. Thanks for sharing your story too. ?? Thank you guys for sharing your stories, it's really nice to know I'm not alone in these strange feelings and thoughts. I really appreciate you taking the time to write. ???

Your story is very similar too mine. I understand exactly what you mean about the torment. Wearing 247 was the best decision I made and it sounds like it was the same for you. Glad to hear you've found the happiness too. ?? It sure does feel good. ?

It's a answer I don't think I'm ever going to know but one thing I can say is, since we decided that I was going to wear and lose control, I have been so much happier in my daily life. Keep with it if it's truly what you want, we found that the more I wore, the less control I had. Time served alone is enough to erode control after any significant amount of time. I do advise to be careful with your wife though. I think it's got to be all about compromise. I'm lucky with my fiance but I do make sure she feels happy and I will run around after her and make her feel special. ? It's nice to hear that in not the only one at least. . . Lol. . . It's nice that you have found your happy place too. I think it counts for allot when you truly find your happy medium, on matter where that may be. It's nice tm hear your on the same level. ??? Hahahaha. . . Erm, not last time I checked. . . Lol. . . . I think, ??

I really don't know why I love being incontinent. This is something I've always had a " thing " for, going as far back as I remember. It's like I've always had this thought that I should be in nappies. When I was younger and played around with nappies (much the same as we all did), I never saw myself as a little or ab, it was always about wearing medical style nappies and " pretending" to be incontinent. I would go to a town where no-one knew me and I would spend the day as if I was incontinent, i.e. changing in public toilets, carrying spare changing supplies wherever I went and kinda dealing with leaks and the embarrassment of being incontinent. It's always kinda been focused around the incontinence rather than the nappies themselves. So skip forward many years and I've managed to make myself dependant on nappies with the help of my fiance. I took allot of time and allot of work but we've done it and I couldn't be happier with the outcome. I've been wearing 247 for over 4 years and It has gotten to the stage where my nappies and incontinence are just the norm now. Even my vanilla friends know I need nappies. I love everything about my incontinence. The way I smell when I'm clean and dry, they way I smell when I'm wet. The way I smell my nappy when I wake up in the morning, The way I leak from time to time, the way I am always damp, the way I need to carry a change with me wherever I go. The way I wet down my legs when I change sometimes or when I get out the shower. The way I crinkle when I move and the way I feel a spurt of wee fill my nappy when I sneeze or heavy lift. I even love the embarrassment when some of the female members of our vanilla friends tell me if my bulge is showing and if they smell my wetness. I even like the way that when I leak, my friends brush it off and make it a small deal. I even like having my gp and hospital docs know I wear nappies. The nurses and docs are awesome and very professional. I have absolutely no idea why I am like this and after 40 years of trying to find the answers, I am still none the wiser. I suppose I am writhing all this to see if I am not the only one who has these feelings and thoughts. It would be awesome to hear stories from others who have similar feelings.

I leaked a week ago while I was out with friends. Luckily I was on my way home although I did leave a small damp patch in my friends car. It was a female friend and I'm pretty sure she could smell me but she never said anything. She is really sweet. I've leaked a couple times while out drinking with friends though and thought I had managed to conceal my incontinence from them but I've since found out that almost everyone knows a wear nappies now due to a conversation in the local the other day, but that's another story for another time. Lol. . .

Your story sounds similar to mine. I started wearing 247, 6 years ago and my only regret is I didn't do it sooner. . . It's not a decision to take lightly but for some, like myself, it's the right decision.

At the beginning of this journey, I had to concentrate really hard on keeping myself sphincter relaxed. It took some effort and lots of moments where I felt I wasn't getting anywhere, but after some time, it became second nature to keep things relaxed. So much so that if I did find myself clenching, it was actually very uncomfortable. I didn't use any reminders or alarms, I just worked hard at staying relaxed. . . And thank you very much. It took time but I got there in the end and now I wouldn't change my choices for the world. . . . Thank you. It's deffo awesome to have a supportive partner. No, I don't take nullo pal.

I think trying to keep my bowel control did make the process longer I think. It took me quite a while to be able to differentiate the feeling between both but once you have identified what muscle is what, the process becomes allot easier. I met my fiance when I wasn't 247, although I did use to go for pronged stints of wearing full time, like weeks and maybe months. There would always be a reason why I had to stop, i.e. holidays, or family stuff and such like. I kinda decided I wanted to go full time and loose my control and my Mrs totally helped along the way. She would reward me for wearing in even the most pressured situation. After a year I had adjusted enough to wearing full time that we both knew it was just the way it was going to be. She likes me being in nappies.

It's allot easier if you do wear full time. I honestly haven't cheated, not even once. Even when I have been tired or ill, I have still got up and changed into a fresh nappy. I've leaked when I knew I could have simply just popped into a toilet and used it. I have carried a change with me at all times and taken a case full of supplies on holiday. I have wet myself on a sun lounger near the pool without a nappy on after I've been swimming. I have even brought adult swim nappies (although really not worth the money). Keeping your partner happy is a massive thing too though. I'm lucky in as much as my fiance has encouraged me to enjoy and follow what I want so I haven't had any problems there. Hell, she said the other day that now I'm bladder incontinent, why do I worry about getting to the toilet for my bowel moments. I had to explain that the smell would be too much. She suggested nullo and promptly said I smell anyway. Lol. . . Sounds like your well on the way to becoming incontinent. I never used the toilet but I know what you mean about the unpleasant feeling.

You've really got to want it but if you work for it and persevere, it will happen. One thing I will say is, don't beat yourself up when your are struggling to achieve it.I found that to be counter productive. You have to play a long game. Time, practice and perseverance, with a attitude of not caring is deffo the key. Positivity and praising yourself when you do wet is also a good help.

Thank you. ? It definitely helps when you are 100 % 247 I think. When I eventually started to identify as incontinent, the whole process became allot easier. That is a really good start. It took me a while to become so comfortable with my padding that I could just release without worry. One of the biggest turning points for me was being able to relax and let it flow even if my nappy was wet. Learning to accept that you may well leak and your nappy may well show or bulge was a massive milestone. Getting into the mindset of "I can't hold it" no matter where I was, who I was with or regardless of how wet I already was is something it took years to accept. Yes I have had leaks and yes my fiance has told me on many occasion I smell like pee but learning to not care is the biggest hurdle. That's a really good start. I didn't do that for nearly 2 years and like yourself, when I tried to, I couldn't stop the flow. I started to realise I was helplessly wetting myself and I couldn't stop it. I was like that for me for many years until I trained my mind to not pay too much attention to the feeling of needing to pee. I used to try and think about other things like work or hobbies. It soon became a natural thing to catch myself mid wee. Or feeling a the warmth spread around my bum when I was sitting down and not remembering feeling the need. That's one of the biggest turning points I would say. Bed wetting took the longest to achieve. It was like there was a mental block on me not wanting to leak in bed. I had to work hard to get myself into the mindset of it being ok if I leak through my nappies and wet the bed. My fiance brought a good washable pad to put under the bedding and although it took time, I began to feel like I didn't have to worry about leaks and if they happen, they happen. My fiance has been brilliant though this though. She will change the bed if I leak loads, but if it's just a small leak, she will won't change the bedding. She likes me to sleep in a slightly smelly bed sometimes as a reminder of my choices. Lol. . .

First of all, thank you. Secondly, no I haven't done a journal, and to be honest, I haven't had the time. But, I do think some tips I've learned along the way and absolutely no cheating has deffo helped. Trusting your nappy and losing any fear of what people will think helped too. Not caring about being wet, sometimes smelly, sometimes leaking, sometimes having to change when it's not always convenient, and just letting nature take its course. Living life like I need nappies. The mindset is everything. . . all the while totally focusing on staying relaxed in my sphincter area and just spurting out wee when ever or whatever I am doing. Had good good tips off here to be honest too. Been lurking for years and years on here, but only recently started posting. It's all about a mindset if nothing else and being truly comfortable with who you are. After a few years I began to notice I had deffo urge issues. I used to have stage fright front of family and friends and stuff. After time a began to realise I was wetting no matter who I was with, or what position I was in. When the urge hit I was wetting soon after. A bit further down the line a started realising, when I was occupied doing something like DIY at home or working, all of a sudden I realised my nappy was wet and didn't remember doing it. . .

I feel like the the guy from the life of Brian who had a massive beard, was naked and hadn't said a word for 15 years. Thanks guys.

Thanks guys. I'm so happy. . . Stick with it. . . It kinda sneaks up on you. It wasn't until I was near the end of the 3 year mark that I started to realise I couldn't hold my wee. . . I am only bladder incontinent. Although I have always had urge issues with my bowels. It wouldn't be an isolated incident where I didn't make it in time but it's not a regular occurrence. . .

So after 5 years of wearing nappies 247, I am now officially incontinent. I've had loads of tests by urology and the conclusion is, my internal sphincter is now jammed open all the time. I can safely say that I now wet the bed every night and no matter how hard I try, I simply cannot keep myself dry during the day. I even leak during sex and when I am changing. It's taken allot of time, and effort but I am loving every moment of having zero control. I feel like I have achieved a long time life goal and now I want to shout it from the roof tops. It feels wonderful to know that I simply cannot live without my nappies. It also feels good to say, yes, you can un train yourself, it is possible. I couldn't be happier right now. . . . . I still love everything about my incontinence. The sights, the smells, the feels. This was totally the right decision for me. The only regret I have is that I didn't do it sooner. I fully understand that it isn't for everyone, but for some (like me) it's how I was meant be and I feel totally comfortable with myself and my choices. . . . .

I always put my used nappies in the room bin. I do however always put them in a disposal bag, wrapped individually and they are always medical nappies. I don't want to cause the staff any problems but in the same breath, I don't want to be walking out the hotel with my used nappies under on arm so I'm afraid, it's the only choice. I don't really care what they say about me. Chances are, I'm never gonna see them again anyway.

Been incontinent most of my life, on and off, was in nappies full time for most of my childhood, kinda fumbled and lied my way through teens and early adult hood with drinking next to nothing and using women's sanitary towels, then after nearly killing myself though dehydration, I wore a nappy when I knew I wouldn't be near a toilet. Then 6 years ago, my fiance, who is an x nurse, helped me go 247. She helped me get through the concerns of being obvious to the world and now I wear a thick nappy, with a booster and plastic pants pretty much permanently. No-one has ever noticed, or if they have, they haven't said anything. . . .

I was fortunate enough to meet a very special lady 10 years ago on the internet who was at first a diaper sub but soon realised that she was more dom than sub and so the roles totally reversed. 10 years on, she is my mummy and I'm in nappies 247. . . It took me 30 years to find her and had 2 failed long term relationships before finding mummy. One of my failed relationships broke down because of the nappies and my kinks so it's not been plain sailing but I've got there in the end. You just gotta be honest with what you like from the outset with potential partners, well from my own experiences anyway.

When I'm tired, when mummy pats my bottom, when mummy changes me, and when mummy checks me. There the top 3, although there are many more things.

Very clearly. I was in nappies till I was nearly in secondary school. I wore really crinkley green coloured ones supplied to my mother by the nhs. I was bowel incontinent as well as urinary so I was always know as the smelly kid at school. I used to get teased because everyone knew I wore nappies. I remember being very embarrassed when I got changed for P.E and my nappy would show over my pants. I used to crinkle when I walked and I my teachers would sometimes change me because I had messed so bad. My mother would collect me at lunch times and take of home for a change but sometimes before or after that I would be too wet and messy. That's when the teachers used to step in. I remember on many occasions laying on my back in the toilets with my teacher changing me. My mother used to try her best to make me not obvious to others but at the same time, she would sometimes check me like a toddler. I was cured of bowel incontinence at 11 after an operation in the hospital but still had the odd accident in my pants. My wetting was always hit and miss so my mother would often put me in Terry towing, plastic trainer pants and it was nappies at night till I was well into my teens. I was never punished or told off accept when I messed my pants after my operation. My mother was always very understanding and sympathetic although I can remember getting changed at parks in very public settings like a toddler and in front of family till very late on in my childhood. I always remember the embarrassment when I would be playing at the country park and my mum would call me over, pull my nappy out at the back then tell me to lay down and she would proceed to change me there and then. She always would do it lovingly though. She would say it's time to get that stinky bum changed. I suppose that's where I get the fetish for public humiliation from. Lol.

My nappy starts to smell after a few hours. I wear plastic pants over my nappies when I'm out and about at work and with friends/family but even after short while I've been told I smell of pee. Mummy has on many occasions told me I need a change and she has either taken me off and changed me or if it's not been a suitable scenario (like in a vanilla setting) she has told me to go change. So the answer is, although You may not think you smell, actually you do.

It varies from county to county. . . I get tena slip maxi though my incontinence service.

I think I have too many to list then all but here's a few. . . . I've had my messy nappy changed on the back seat of the car in a car park while my mummy/fiance was talking to me like I was a toddler and cleaning me up with so much care and softness. There were people nearby but that never phased her. She lovingly gave me that change and made me feel like a very special little boy. I've been changed on a secluded beach, in fields, in a forest, in countless disabled toilets and changing places, and best of all, countless times on the back seat of our car. . .

My fiancee changes me regularly. She doesn't mind if I'm stinky either. She will often sniff my nappy to check if I smell and if we are out with family/friends she will discretely squeeze my crotch to see how wet I am. She will change me when I'm messy too but I don't mess that often. I wear nappies 247 and she will often tease me for being in nappies and she has no problem with the fact I am always wet and sometimes a bit smelly. I couldn't live without her. She has made sure that I am comfortable in nappies and years ago, she was the one who encouraged me to wear 247.