BriGuy

I just ordered what I thought was the tena Flexi slip and I got this belted thing that has a cloth exterior? That can't be what you folks from Europe are talking about are you? ~Brian

Its by ground so I would suspect about a week or so. However I had something sent to me from NJ and it got here super quick. XP medical is really good about getting shipments out and you can track their progress via Fed Ex website. ~Brian

Woa what a heavy movie. Well done BRAVO! It really seems to sum up the feelings a lot of AB's who were abused feel. In the end all we want is to be loved... ~Brian

It depends on where you are geographically. Where do you live? XP medical is in Ventura Ca. Because I am in close proximity I get my stuff in a day or so. ~Brian

I'm all for double diapering and poking the holes will help with solving the gel mess. However, for what you are paying for two sets of diapers you can buy one high quality diaper and enjoy all of the absorption with none of the hasstle.

NOT THE DADDY! I just saw that blockbusters has the show on dvd in the television isle. Great show!

Life sure can be confusing..... I mean of all the weird things in life to be had we have this love for diapers.... WTF Right?? I have struggled with this feeling my whole cognitive life. There isn't a time where I have not wanted to wear a diaper.... Why? I got no freaking clue. Have I felt ashamed? Hell yes I have! Have I felt alone? Yes indeedy! That was until I found DPF and more recently DD and THANK GOD I am among the freeky few who share my feelings! I am so thankfull for all of you people who make me feel a little bit more normal. With time it may get easier to feel at peace with your diapered side. Sometimes I still feel a bit odd about it too but we can't change who we are. If we could would it be worth it? If I wasn't me than who would I be? We are good people so why change? Those people who excommunicate themselves from us because of a stupid kink what kind of people are they?

please excuse my off topic question, but what's a good age to start concerning one's self with prostate exams or prostate cancer?

I have found that a pair of jeans do a great job of creating discreet situation where crinkles cannot be heard. I found this out being the first done with an exam and leaving through a dead silent lecture hall. I could't imagine anyone hearing a diaper under normal clothing with normal background noise going on in the real world. So I hate to add gasoline to a fire but Witch is pretty much dead on with the real world not noticing. However if the extra peace of mind is worth the extra clothing by all means thank you for the discovery!

Ooooh. Im gonna give it a try!

They are not lumped into the term Christian because the person doing the lumping is un-familiar with the true term of Christianity. Christianity is the basic belief that Jesus died for your sins to give you an option to make it to heaven. I know Mormon's and Catholics believe that. Hell Catholics have a statue of Jesus hanging in church to remind you every time you go to worship. That is the basis for the religion of Christianity. The offshoots of Catholicism are known are the protestant religions. So basically if you are not Catholic but believe that Jesus died for the forgiveness of your sins then you are Christian and part of one of the protestant religions. We can thank Martin Luther for that one. I am unsure about Islam however because of their stout belief of Mohammad which overshadows Jesus... Although I could be wrong I am just beginning a book about Islam so I don't have much knowledge of the religion yet. As for me I am agnostic although I am a trite bit religious. I believe the book of the bible is generally good and the intentions of many organized religions are generally good. Unfortunately the Bible also says that the pathway to heaven is paved with good intentions. Organized religions as a whole scare me because it is always one persons interpretation on how I am supposed to live my life, not my interpretation. Not to mention all those multitudes of people who have died or killed in the name of their religion. It also bothers me that the head leaders of anyone said religion are busy getting fat off of their religion. It sticks in my throat when I hear and see those people bankrolling their religion. With all of the different walks of life on this earth and how awesome everything we see, hear, smell, touch, or explore are it; is hard to believe that God would be so narrow minded. How could god, the person who supposedly made all of this say..... "If you are not part of ONE religion then you are going to be cast down to hell." There are lots of decent people out there living good lives who are not Christian, so why would God, if he is so all knowing and caring cast those people down to the depths of hell? Ah, sorry for the rant! LOL I have spent some time studying religions and I'm going to have to say spirituality and or being a decent loving person is what they are all trying to teach. ~Brian

I would have to say that the feeling of a full bladder and then letting it go once you start the water is just a full bladder. Urge incontinence is a little bit different than that. If you hold it long enough your body will void on its own and about a full nights sleep is a long time to be holding it. I'm a proponent of honesty is the best policy but what do I know? ~Brian

I live in the central coast of california so it doesn't get very hot out here. I have no intention of forced incontinence or anything. just wanted to give 24 7 a try and see what happens

How long did it take for you to start voiding without noticing it? Or knowing? Also, for those who go to the gym what kind of diapers do you find are good for gym workouts? I am guessing my abriforms will not hold up to that sort of abuse nor will they be that comfortable.... Thanks! ~Brian

I have been talking with my wife about going 24/7 to see what happens but I have a couple of questions to those who have gone 24?7. First what brand of diaper are you using? I usually buy abriforms but find that the taping system is no good so I always re-enforce it with tape and that can be time consuming. I go through about 1 abri form a day but it is pretty soaked by the end of the day. How many are you folks going through daily? I use a stuffer at night and don't have to change at night. This morning I actually woke up wet! WOA! It tripped me out as that never happens to me. What are you folks doing for skin care? I have been using desitin as a barrier when I am diapered. I have worn attends and as much as I love their taping system they have become so thin that they leak pretty quickly for me. I am thinking that the taping system on the abri forms might be giving me troubles because I am in between sizes right now. I am going from a large to a medium and the larges are quite baggy so maybe that is my troubles... I donno. Anyway and thoughts would be great! ~Brian

Guilt is what my father used and still tries to use to get me to do stuff for him or to act a certain way. that guilt led to a lot of personal shame and self loathing. I used to loathe my diapers untill with in the last couple of years. Its been very difficult for me to handle and deal with at times. It was because of my wife that I started to accept my fetish. She has been a pillar of support in my life. Recently I have decided to go 24/7 and she has supported my decision. Luck and happiness doesn't come close to how I feel. The one thing I have learned about shame is we create it from within. There is nothing for us to be shamefull about. We are good people and our fetish isn't bad. If anything people should get more in touch with their softer side. ~Brian

thats an easy one. J and J all the way! ~Brian

I have three hand guns, two shot guns, 3 rifles and one pellet gun. I need to get myself a safe! I want more too. I love guns. They are great. Go shooting with a diaper and you scare the poop out of yourself with a good gun your covered! No mess in the pants! lol ~Brian

george, in america our health care motto is don't get sick. If one does not have insurance and ring up a high medical bill the hospital can put that bill on a house the person may own.... then in you are an enterprising person you can pay that bill and take said persons home from them.... I don't know the frequency this happens but it has. Our healthcare system needs serious reform. not to say we have bad doctors and what not... Its driven by corporate healthcare and that is motivated by corporate america. My intention isn't to start a political flame so ill stop while I'm ahead. LoL. It needs help and ill leave it at that.

Rates run anywhere from a couple hundred a month to about 1500 or more for private insurance. My issue is not the monthly fee but the unwillingness for the insurance to help when they are supposed to. Because fraud is so rapant they make us jump through hoops to get what we need. Also, because my wife is diabetic we cannot get private insurance we have to get what is offered through work which isn't always best. The reason you struck a nerve in all of us is because fraud is wrong. Convincing your government to pay for your fetish isn't acceptable. What goes on in your country is your business. If you want to commit fraud then that is your business. However coming here and asking for our help is where you went wrong. We don't want to be an accessory to your behavior nor do we want to promote that sort of thing. The more it is promoted the more people think its ok to de fraud the government, the more the honest people get screwed. So what if your government is messed up. Try living in california where my taxes pay for the illegals out here. You're not the only person in a country with issues. Your right people should stand up for what people deserve and people don't deserve to get ripped off nor pay for your fetish. If you don't get the point yet maybe you should listen in your university classes and learn some empathy. Its not all about you and your diaper fetish.

I have to agree with Jennie on this one. She pretty much hit the nail on the head.

You know george its people like you with that attitude that screw things up for people like my wife and me. You and your sucubus attitude should take a long walk off a short pier. Quit raping the system so people who NEED it can afford to use it. I have a generally liberal attitude myself. I will never keep a sandwhich from a hungry person. However using the system to pay for your fetish is not only fraud, its down right discusting. Get a clue. ~Brian

people who scam the insurance companies really tick me off. my wife is diabetic and our monthly insurance costs keep going up and up due to people who are doing this. we just has to fight for 3 months to get a damned insulin pump for her so we can start planning a family. Scamming the insurance companies for diapers is pathetic. I don't want to pick up the cost for your fetish. Get a decent job to pay for your kink or re visit it when you have the money. I pay for it when I can, I don't expect insurance to pick it up you should do the same. to those with a lagit medical reason for diapers I think that the insurance companies should allowance you for some good diapers for goodness sakes.....

I have a bit of a gut, I am size 36 waist and I tape just below my belly ledge. I have also found that I have fewer leaks with higher quality diapers. I used to flood but have been wearing for long enough now that I go more frequently in smaller ammounts. The higher quality diapers are worth the cost because I will wear one maybe two abena's or bambino's during the day where I would have gone through 3 or 4 attends or the like.

I am interested in one of the night weight cloth diapers. if you pm me paypal info ill send ya some money. that's if they aren't all spoken for already. thanks!