dlnoir

Currently wearing a dry cloth diaper and plastic pants.

I love to wear my wet diaper but like already said by one of the previous posters once it is taken off, I will not reuse it, it stays off. I stay dry for only a limited time as I use stents to wet my diaper. During my holiday break this summer I have been wearing nothing but cloth diapers for a little over three and a half weeks. Wearing cloth diapers makes you feel really wet and I like that. Especially the mornings are sheer heaven. Usually I put on a clean dry diaper before I turn in and when I wake up the next day and find my cloth diaper completely soaked front to back I feel like I am in heaven for that it how it is supposed to be.

Yes the world is still out there and from where I am standing it is not getting better.

I've been wearing diapers to work for some 24 years now as I wear 24/7. I do not wear ABDL diapers but Attends these are not too thick and hold a decent amount. Over the disposable diaper I wear a thin single layer cloth diaper and a plastic pants. As far as I know nobody knows and if they do they never said a word. I truly belief as it comes to wearing diapers out and about most of the worries live inside our own head. During my working hours I usually change my diaper once. The thin cloth diaper and plastic pants are there for extra protection if the disposable diaper starts to leak and I like the authentic look.

I have two closets in my bedroom one packed with disposable diapers and the second one for the most part with cloth diapers and plastic pants. Surplus disposable diapers are stored on the attic as they will last me a couple of years I suppose, I prefer cloth diapers in the first place. So they are not really hidden but not in plain sight either. Sometimes friends from my kids come over to play and I’d rather not have them see it.

Sorry no longer the only one i prefer A too.

I'll change whenever it is needed and no sooner.

To out someone is very disrespectful to say the least. They have no right to so and it is one of the biggest invasion of your privacy. If you flaunt your diaper and provoke them it is a different story but other than that it is your own business.

Nothing changed over the last days, been wearing cloth non stop for a little over last two weeks now still love my cloth diapers and plastic pants.☺️

I prefer to wear cloth and I would do so to work as well if it wasn't so incovenient if you have to change it.

Been wearing cloth non stop for the last two weeklove cloth diapers and plastic pants.

Hell no, especially the ones worn by others no way.

This exactly, for me nothing beats cloth.

Awesome milestone. ?

I wouldn't worry about it. Nobody really pays attention to what you are wearing as long as you do not over do it. I am currently on my summer break / holidays for a period of three weeks and I have been wearing cloth constantly, goo out for errands you name it. People care about their own business and have little or no attention to what other people are wearing. I would say if you want to wear cloth wear it, I know I do.

The best diapers to me are cloth diapers.

Well go for it I would say. Hundreds went before you. good luck.

Both I wear my diapers and I use them only for number one that is.

Yes is do wear my diaper in the shower to rinse it out. I prefer to wear cloth diapers. Washing up and rinsing can be done at the same time and saves money.

Cloth diapers and some plastic pants.

Just keep it on it is as simple as that.

This exactly.

In general (I think) diapers and being in a relationship is not the best combination to begin with and can cause plenty of issues in vanilla relationships. I know there are quite a few members whom successfully integrated their desire to wear diapers into their relationship and I am very happy for them, but I do consider them a lucky few. Having a desire to be actually incontinent is next level. I think plenty relationships stranded due to the fact one of the spouses loves to wear a diaper. The reason why he or she wants to wear a diaper is of no importance in this case. I think women in general do seek a masculine husband and a man running around in a diaper doesn’t exactly fit the bill. I used to be married but my incontinence desire put too much strain on her and our relationship so she decided to leave me. In all honesty, although I deeply, deeply regret the decision she made, I can’t really blame her. I would love to have someone in my life again but I know I can’t kick the feelings and desires I have as they are a significant part of me. I have tried it so many times only to see it fail and getting more and more frustrated by each failed attempt. If there would be a pill to take this burden away from me I would take it yesterday but there isn’t. so I guess I have to deal with it and take things as they come.

I do not remember never really came out of diapers.

Hi Ferix, I’ve been reading and following your story ever since you started the topic with great interest as I share your desire. I am sorry to hear you’ve met another road block on the other hand it doesn’t really surprise me, however unfortunate I kind of expected something like this to happen, again. Do have to say I think it is weird they worry so much about your physical wellbeing, which is a good thing needless to say, but your personal wellbeing is so much bigger than just your physical state of health. It is also about your mental wellbeing and so far it seems they forget that or at least make it less important. Especially the psychiatrist whom told you “do no harm” missed the point completely if you’d ask me, without giving too much explanation. He or she should know how much people can suffer from BIID in any which form it may occur. Same thing goes for the recommendation to use catheters to achieve your goal, she should know an open line in your diaper is almost like putting a gun against your head as it comes to developing a UTI, so weird. Do have to say the one point the surgeon brought up about urine retention due to bladder atrophy in the long run sounds more than valid to me. That is something I never thought about myself. Your prostate keeps growing and even healthy men past the age of 50 might develop issues with urine retention because the prostate closes up the Urethra. I do not have the guts to head down the same road as you do, reach out to get surgery in order to achieve incontinence. I am pretty sure here in the Netherlands they have the same “do no harm” approach as you encountered in the US. I suppose I will continue to use the stents I make, for they do exactly what I want them to do and truth is over the 15 years of using them I never had a UTI so why discontinue, I count my blessings for sure but……………………... The one thing that still bugs me the method I am using brings it up to let’s say a 85% realistic incontinence situation and for most of the time that is enough to feel comfortable and in contact with myself. But those remaining 15 % on a bad day can cause havoc in my mental wellbeing and why that happens only God knows, for I have no clue. The only thing I know how pathetic it may sound it happens, especially in the winter. Anyway I hope you’ll find the strength to keep going to fulfil your heart’s desire and I hope you’ll find a surgeon that will work with you. And I hope you’ll keep sharing your story.